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Blackhole
Blackhole

I am leaving this site, I didn't post for a long time, as some people were rude to me. I came on again to give it another try, and to honest I feel that I'm not apart of it. Just want to ask you to think of new people on here as it takes so much for anyone to open up. It's a big step and they are needing your help. I know that a lot of you are friends but there are others who need you too. I'm not having a go, just want to see others are getting the help they need. I know that I have to do this now on my own, which will be hard.

I thank you for your comments and wish you all the best.

Please don't take this wrong, I don't mean to be nasty, I wish you all the best. Take care

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  • susan45954
    susan45954 Blackhole

    Posted

    I am sorry that you have to leave. I think the comments are helpful. Good luck to you.
  • maria_1963
    maria_1963 Blackhole

    Posted

    I fully understand where you are coming from , i do find that there is alot of clickiness hence why i rarely comment now , i get notifications through email so i come on here to see what comments have been made to someone's problems but often no comments have been made but then others have lots of comments because they all seem to know each other , i tried to help where i could but like you i found myself not part of the forum so now i tend just to follow Samaritans , Mind , etc where everyone is part of it and do what i can to help on here , i still come on here sometimes but often just to see what advice is being given - if any , i cannot help some people but i did used to try where possible , you take care and maybe you might like me find a forum that everyone joins in fairly , please though take care xx

     

  • nick34171
    nick34171 Blackhole

    Posted

    Hope you will be ok, have never seen your comments, sorry you have had a bad experience. Nick.
  • paul67642
    paul67642 Blackhole

    Posted

    please stay on here dont go please its good to talk to you. i am on a break down i want to take my life when i come on here its great to talk to people
    • Blackhole
      Blackhole paul67642

      Posted

      Thank you, I just feel like I don't fit, I struggle a lot. How are you?
    • paul67642
      paul67642 Blackhole

      Posted

      i dont fit in on here but i still come for help so dont go stay on here i am sitting in kirkby library crying
    • Blackhole
      Blackhole paul67642

      Posted

      I'm sorry, how are you doing? I hate the fact that you are upset. Is there anything I can do?
    • paul67642
      paul67642 Blackhole

      Posted

      yes stay on here please i like talking on here all the people on here are great
    • paul67642
      paul67642 lorraine52317

      Posted

      i will do just i want to put every thing and give up hate my life so much
    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 paul67642

      Posted

      Hi Paul

      I know it's hard to believe but your life will get better and so will your health.

      Do you mind me asking how old you are?

      Speak soon x

    • paul67642
      paul67642 lorraine52317

      Posted

      I AM 45 YEARS OLD AND FED UP WITH LIFE I WISH I WAS WITH MY GIRLFRIEND RIGHT NOW
    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 paul67642

      Posted

      Hi Paul

      When you are not with the person you love it's like going through the grieving process . You cannot imagine feeling good again. But you honestly will have those good tim

    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317

      Posted

      Sorry meant to say .. you will have good times again and life changes all the time. You will get there Paul xx
    • paul67642
      paul67642 lorraine52317

      Posted

      i just wish the pain would go away and her family would get out of my life
    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 paul67642

      Posted

      Hi Paul

      Do you need to spend time with her family? If they are causing you this amount of stress can you not limit communication with them? You need to try and only surround yourself with positive people that will build you up rather than pulling you down xxxx

    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 paul67642

      Posted

      Hi Paul

      So sorry I now remember our previous communication before the ones we have had today. I think it was a couple of weeks back. You are very much still grieving and it's still really early days since losing your partner. I know caring for your son and yourself in these circumstances must be difficult. Do you think the sister may just want to give you a break or has she made it clear that she wants your son?

      You will get through this Paul xx

    • paul67642
      paul67642 lorraine52317

      Posted

      yes that is what she is saying that she will go to the counrts and get my son of me
    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 paul67642

      Posted

      Hi Paul

      It's very unlikely that the court would agree to remove a child from his natural father. It's not very nice of her to threaten you with this at anytime and especially worse when your grieving. Don't get disheartened the courts like to keep children with their parent in the main.

      Stay positive

      Lorraine xx

    • paul67642
      paul67642 lorraine52317

      Posted

      ok thank you all so much on here its been great being on here i dont want to come on here at first
    • paul67642
      paul67642 lorraine52317

      Posted

      i really wish i dont have a son to my gf so her famliy away from me and yes i am being selfish
    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 paul67642

      Posted

      Paul your not being selfish you need and deserve some space from you gf family at this difficult time. X
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