Life after p&a repair and perenium repair
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Hi ladies,
Just felt I should update you all. I had my surgery end of November. I know everyone is different but for me, now, this surgery has been amazing. I would honestly recommend it to anyone.
Now, don't all think I've sailed through this as I haven't! I've had water infection, intense pain, spent about 8 weeks walking like I had a poker up my bum! I also had a week around say 4 weeks post op when I wished I'd never had the surgery. I constantly worried in the early days that I was going to prolapse again too. Had a 'lump' at the entrance which has now gone, was TERRIFIED of my first bm. And sex!... Read my earlier posts... I cried! Worried I was putting on weight through lack of excercise...All the worries you read on here, I had them!
There is however hope after all this! I'm now so ecstatically happy I had the surgery! No more dragging prolapse, no more baggy/ post pregnancy gape down below, no more urine leaks, I can wear tampons again comfortably, sex is just wow... Amazing: I can feel EVERYTHING! I'm totally back to life before surgery but better! It may sound dramatic but it's made me feel sexy again and at only 37, that's a huge thing.
So ladies, you are bound to worry, stress, try to do too much etc but it's natural... Believe me, I drove my husband mental with my constant worry and witling about it... But it is so worth it. I don't want to cause roll of the eyes/ well bully for you in anyone but thought I would share a positive story for all you who are worrying etc.
Take care, and keep sharing on this amazing forum. And matron, you are the icing on the cake... I just hope you realise what an amazing, caring lady you are who has given hope and advice to so many, and humour when needed too!
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Feeling positive now!!! Xxx
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KJ1234 Resting123
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Many thanks
KJ x
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Resting123 Jan999
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I'm so pleased that my post has given some of you hope and perhaps a little perk up
Your story sounds a little like mine. I knew something wasn't right after I'd had my youngest but didn't know exactly until I'd seen my consultant and then thought christ, I didn't realise it was this bad lol!
I will say though, Just be careful though of falling into the "everything will be alright at 6 weeks" trap. I got to this point and certainly didn't feel anywhere near back to normal, in fact, I got quite down in the dumps about it around this time. It takes AGES! But it is worth it!
Take care
Xx
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