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Living with husband (that's more like room mate) except when he wants to have sex and he has ED

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Peanut1950
Peanut1950

Any other women out there having to live with this problem?

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  • mindy93747
    mindy93747 Peanut1950

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    Hi Peanut. Yes , someone else has this same issue. Me . I am unable and quite frankly , not interested in having Intercourse because of atrophied vagina and non existent sex drive due to menopause 11 years ago. He had prostrate cancer and treatment that left him unable to get more than a partial erection , if even that. But he is on hormone replacement therapy so he has the urge ( strong) but not the ability. And quite honestly I'm tired of sucking on a limp penis that takes ages to bring to orgasm . If it even does at all. It doesn't do anything for me and it's frustrating for both of us. But whereas be accepted and am okay with no sex he isn't and it is causing huge problems between us . He feels rejected and I feel resentful for being made to feel I have to perform oral sex on him for an hour just to keep the peace . Thank you for bringing this discussion up

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