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57 - Sex painful impossible because vagina opening has shrunk also causes severe bladder irritation when attempt penetration. Has been many years since we have had sex, early on with the disease - problems when having sex were amplified by my husband worried about hurting me - erectile malfunctions - Now My husband is used to masterbation/online porn and when I try other methods to be close it does not work because of his new brain path - I have lost all desire and hope of being desirable - Is this what your fifties are supposed to be like - I have nothing to guage because people lie about their sexuality - Am I alone?
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beverly52803 cheryl56986
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kathleen1958 cheryl56986
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rosemary82613 cheryl56986
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Sex once, as rest of time too sore
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beverly52803 cheryl56986
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cheryl56986 beverly52803
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. Look at any sex survey at least in the U.S. and it will tell you women love sex more after 50. Who are they talking to???
beverly52803 cheryl56986
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Was your husband a good sex partner before the AV developed? If so I can't believe he would just dive into porn rather than try to work out other methods of being physically & emotionally close. People develop all sorts of health issues as they age. You are not inadequate. I'd say the problem is on your husband's end. Put the shoe on the other foot. If he had ED and Viagra didn't help would you do to him what he is doing to you? Guess it's up to you what you are willing to accept.
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yvonne75804 cheryl56986
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i am going to see my doctor tomorrow to try and get some pessaries containing oestragen.
i have tried lubricating gels but still very painful.
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jayneejay yvonne75804
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hope you get some sorted ..
mine i wouldnt be without, takes a while to re plump everything, but they work ..
i use as i said way above .. ovestin vaginal ovules, they are so soothing, also ovestin cream for outer skin keeps it hydrated, plump, and prevents it thinning and becoming painful ..
Gyno said use both .. not forgetting abit of cream around vag entrance and outer bits, made such a difference
good luck
jay x
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