Migraines everyday, all day, for 9 months. Help!!

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Remember your worst migraine. How much pain you were in and how you just couldn't do anything. That's how I am everyday.

Right so I'm a 20 year old female, I'm and student and work as a waitress part time.

So, I started with a headache on the 18th January this year, pain killers didn't touch it. Woke up the next day and still had a terrible headache.

I have a terrible headache all day, everyday, without fail. It's got to the point now that I'm stressed; fed up, hardly sleeping, can't concentrate at uni or any time really.

Please understand that the pain never goes, the headache never ends. I have literally had a migraine 24/7 for 9 months now.

I wear glasses (short sighted) but I know it's not my eyes causing the migraines.

I've cut out everything that's apparently supposed to aggravate headaches. Stop drinking caffeine, stop eating chocolate and cheese. No change in the headaches.

This continued for a week or two before I went to see my GP who referred me to a neurologist.

The first neurologist thought I had tension headaches caused by stress.

At this point, I wasn't stressed at all, not with uni or work, nothing. So I didn't quite understand this diagnosis.

Anyway he put me onto tablets called amitriptyline, which is an antidepressant, and told me to gradually increase my dosage up to 50mg a day. This didn't help at all, had horrible side affects.

I then saw another neurologist who diagnosed me with migraines, put me into Topamax, which are an anti epileptic drug meant to also treat migraines. I got my dose up to 100mg within 3 months and the side affects were horrible and didn't help at all.

I've had a CT scan, which was normal. Had an MRI scan, which was normal. I've also tried Imigran and some migraine medication that melts into your tongue, with no affect what so ever.

After trying all this, an idea was put forward that I could have raised intracranial hypertension, so yesterday I had a Lumbar Puncture. The pressure was at 19 and a half (apparently if its over 20 it's high), so it's not thought its that. The migraines were worse for a week after the lumbar puncture, I couldn't even sit up without being in agony and being sick. Spent a week in bed unable to move.

I've got another type of MRI scan booked for the end of this month that's apparently going to look at the veins/blood vessels in my head to see if there is a problem there.

I feel like I'm not being taken seriously now by doctors, because "there isn't anything to be worried about, like a tumour" as I'm always told! As much as I'm so very glad I don't have anything serious to be worried about, I hate spending everyday in so much pain that I can't function.

Please don't think I'm over reacting/attention seeking/whatever, but I am literally fed up and can't cope. I can't get a minute of relief, I'm constantly in pain (different variations of pain, but pain all the same). As I'm writing this I'm crying my eyes out because I haven't managed to sleep more than 3 hours a night in that past 4 days. I'm exhausted and depressed now. I've even told my GP that I am so depressed now, I have thought on more than one occasion of overdosing just to end this pain. And he literally turned me away saying he couldn't do anything. I feel so defeated.

If anyone has had this type of problem before or knows someone that has, please let me know.

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    Hi Becky, I signed up with this site espcially to talk to you as I have been going through the same situation & been through all the same channels to get help. Im now a few months into my chronic migranes. I have had scans, blood tests,Mri (with liquid injected to look at viens & blood vessels). Ive had lumbar puncture which triggered off the worse headaches & pain, caused me to have a panic attack & ended up in A&E, hosptials & physio have become part of my daily life. I can hardly function & to make matters worse the medication given triggered chronic ringing in my left ear. I have been under 2 seperate neurologists & working closely with my GP, medical opinions are I started off with chonic daily tension headaches which with time quickly turned into chronic migrane OR its trigneumal neuraligia (TN), either one is treated with low dose antidepressants.. amitrplyine caused severe side effects! was taken off straight away & notripyline which im still currently on is not really working my body rejects any dose higher then 10mg.. however i rather have some pain management then none but agreed horrible side effects, the idea of trying anything new like recommended anti seizure drugs etc just puts me off. Doctors say the headaches can switch off as quickly as they came on but deep down i know there is a big chance this will be an ongoing problem for years but i hold onto hope. Doctors have like you literally turned me away saying nothing more we can do except keep changing the medication. Please keep in touch with me to let me know how your progressing as I too really feel the need to speak to someone going through the exact same thing. 
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      Hi Jamie i have same problem i have migraine since last year it is not going anywhere once i fell in bathroom i was taken in A&E and doc said it was low blood pressure and then i had CT scan of my head it came out normal and doc said its chronic headachs they prescribe me antidepression tablets which was no effective and then doc put me on sudium volaporate which is i dont feel theres any benefit i can see and gp also prescribe me sumtriptan that has to take before migraine attack but all day i feel like im gona fell my head is like spinning tell me if you find anything that gives you relief.....
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      Hi Jamie,

      Sorry to hear about your migraines.

      Have you spoken to your doctor about Botox? Im trying it, didn't feel any different after the first course, but got my second lot of injections in June so fingers crossed it works. A lot of people that have mentioned it to me on here have found great results from it.

      Ergh, I feel your pain with the amitrpyline, its awful stuff! My neurologidt kept making me increase my dose because it was too low to feel any effect. Eventually got to 50ml a day, for 2 days and had to stop.

      I've point blanked refused to be put onto more antidepressents.

      I've recently tried some anti seizure tablets called Zonegran, didn't get many side effects off it (drowsy here and there to begin with). Unfortunately it didn't help my migraines, but might be something you can try.

      Hope you find some answers soon, and definitely keep in touch if anything new comes about or you need to talk. It's good to have someone that understands exactly how you feel.

      Don't know aboht you, but I'm fed up of the "so you've just got a bad headache?" "All you do is complain" attitude off people.

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      Hi Becky

      Just to give you a little more background to know your not alone with this. Im 36 year old female who never suffered from headaches, mostly perfect health other then aniexty/stress issues relating to flying yet love travel, seen lots of the world, my current partner is from NZ, a few months ago we went there to visit, it was the longest flight I had to prepare myself for in 10 years, I was feeling very anxious & suddenly out of the blue this sudden severe migrane came on, left side of my head, intense throbbing to reduced me to tears, the pain never stopped no matter how many pain killers i took, it was rentless, I ended up in A&E 3x that week, a complete mystery to doctors I was sent home each time with codine tablets (which actually intensifies headaches) A private doctor got called out & thinks its sinsitus, puts me on strong antibiotics which of course did nothing, I then had the lumbar puncture which as mentioned was horrific but a few days later after doses of diazepam i bounced back & forced myself to fly. To my surprise 5 weeks in NZ & the headaches had calmed down, managing on nurofen alone or totally pain free days except when the dreaded flight home happened & again had a panic attack the night before but made it home & felt fine for 48hrs... out of the blue the headaches started, throbbing, relentless headaches, doctors told me again it was sinus issues, more antibiotics (2 courses) which didnt help. I went in for the scans, MRI's etc  which showed nothing was wrong with me or my sinus, nurologist put it down to anixety as a trigger which is fairly obvious.

      The information given to me by the nurology hospital im under: 'Some people need a trigger, 70% of it is hereditray (my mother suffered from migrane) & for others it just happens for no reason called 'New daily chronic persistant headaches' which usually manifest into a more severe headaches such as chronic migrane/cluster (though cluster headaches are rare in women but TN is more common for girls) then there are those that over medicate causing rebound headaches. Using abortive medication usually cause rebound headaches (I chose to stay away from any of them) The headaches can switch themselves off as quickly as they came on but as everyone is different there is no exact time frame, months, years? The best option is to use a preventative (my mother suffered refusing medication & got better 3 months later, she found her jaw was causing some of the pain,she still gets migranes occasionally, espcially mornings but refuses any meds or botox injections as they often make dont work & make things worse)  I've been told to accept the reality of this condition, not to wait for that miracle day to come but to be strong & contiue to live life normally, stay busy & not focus on the pain. 

      Amitypline 10mg caused complete numbness to the left side of my body with  intense pins & needles, dark thoughts & heart palpations that left my rib cage bruised. I switched to Notriplyine 10mg which helped manage the pain for a couple of weeks but had vivid nightmares of plane crashes, it dragged up all my fears but i stuck with it until I was ready to increase the dose to 20mg, my body rejected it causing leg numbness, tongue swelling & bladder problems. Doctors told me everybody has a tolerance level to these drugs so till now I remain back on 10mg which makes the pain level bearable but only just. I will certainly look into the meds you mentioned.I also take vitamin B2 everyday.

      Doctors tell me its not advised to try for a baby while on medication so ive given myself the next year to focus on getting better by trying to stay positive. Family support is important so I hope you have good people around. Let me know how the botox works for you, if not maybe a complete change of scenery from normal life? Im thinking of moving abroad for a few months, maybe some sun, sea & daily change could be the trigger to reverse this horrible nightmare. So thats my story, feel free to keep in touch. Best of luck x

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      Hi rashid,

      Go easy with sumtriptan, my GP advised me it causes rebound headaches. Only take paracetamol with a preventative medication if you can find one that works (notriplyine had fewer side effects but their all nasty stuff & take time to work 4-6 weeks) A preventative doesnt always work, usually only helps control a % of headaches then take paracetamol with it, 2 days on, 5 days off as paracetamol builds up slowly in your system, the least use of medication the better. Many stories ive read of people taking high doses or mixing meds for headaches often made it worse or cant get off them. A preventative at a low dose causes no rebound effects & could break the cycle depending on what side effects you can tolerate. we all have a tolerance level, do your research, doctors won't tell you the hard facts about what they dish out. Look for headache triggers, i noticed computers, reading, anything involving eye strain makes it worse so I got reading glasses. smoking to. Take vitamin B2 & magnesuim with prevantatives as it helps reduce the frequency. Stay re hydrated & consider physio, I have it every week to release the tension (deep tissue massage for neck & muscle spams) Keep telling yourself this is not forever.

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      Hi jamie..

      Thanks for your reply and advuse i tried my best to trigger what causes headachs but cudnt find any result like today i feel sick have headachs couldnt even work came back from work when i have headachs i dont like anything what do you think shall i ask my gp to send me for MRI everytime wen i go to him he says they had scan its nothing major to worry about

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      Hi Rashid

      Doctors told me to go home, take my pills & dont search for an answer on the internet or break my head trying to work out what was wrong with me.. it just happens! For 3 months I have searched every website, every book till i made myself crazy, played the events back in my head to when this all started and yesterday I remembered a few days before all these headaches started I had root canal treatment! The dentist was in a rush to fix my teeth before I was flying to NZ so he put under an intense treatment that should of been done in 2 stages.. 3 hours with a metal frame in my mouth while he operated on my tooth - I felt fine afterwards.. no pain.. no problems so i never made it an issue, infact i did visit my dentist once to explain what happened & like the doctors he told probably stress related, take your pills

      Yesterday i decided having run out of options i would go back to him again having read some information online about silent infections that get deep in the root canal causing 'Chronic migrane, TN, Jaw problems, hand tremors' - light bulb switched on ! I have all those symtoms but those are also symtoms of other issues? I also took lots of antibiotics over the last months so if there was an infection surely it clear up the problem? I doubted myself but yesteday I made an emergency oppointment to see my dentist & confronted him with the issue.. please check again!! so he did & I was correct. There is infection deep in cavity that antibiotics would never be able to reach, it required light surgery again, my jaw to showed extensive strain & grinding of the teeth (TMJ)

      It might be a long shot to finding a soultion but im soon being admitted to a top dental hospital for them to further investigate & next week im having a moulded bite guard to ease the pressure off my jaw. Im praying this works.

      always listen to yourself & dont give up... living with chronic pain is a miserable existence, my time is too valuable to be sent home drugged up on meds xx

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    Girl I'm in your boat. I've had a migrain, and building, since last Wednesday. I'm at my wits end. Got a new neurologist AND rheumatologist earlier this year. Both were a temp fix. For some reason, the meds always seem to lose effectivness after a couple weeks.

    I'm not a druggie, never been addicted to anything (other than chocolate), and all DR's treat me like I just walked out the doors of a treatment facility.

    I've tried everything from Tramadol to Nucynta, and Topamax to Botox.

    After thousands of dollars down the drain, I still have a fu***ng headache. And not a soul in my clique understands the severity of my pain.

    I've changed my diet, added various types of exercise, participated in physical therapy, had massages..... you name it, I've tried it. Yet I sit here in pain day after day with no relief.

    I'm sorry I can't help you, but I wish you well in your search for peace and comfort.

    ~Kelly

     

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    Hi, everyone.

    Wanted to give you an update in case something may help someone else.

    Typically my migraines are due to stress, diet, hormones, weather fluctuations and some foods. There is also a psychological component which needs to be addressed. We are body, mind and spirit and all three areas must be tended to.  Prefer natural remedies as opposed to pharmaceuticals due to the side effects nor do I care to put toxins in my body. So here is a list of the things that are working for me right now.

    - Got blood levels checked and found out magnesium was low so am supplementing with magnesium glycinate.

    - Started on an herbal supplement which contains butterbur, feverfew, magnesium, CoQ10, and riboflavin.

    - Increase water intake, preferably filtered.

    - Regular daily exercise in some form.

    - Relaxation and meditation techiques, biofeedback.

    - Eliminate stressors.

    - Change the way I process life events. Counseling is helpful in this regard.

    - Supplement for Adrenal support.

    Also feet in hot water with a cold compress on the neck sometimes can redirect the blood flow when I feel a headache coming on.

    Also, carry a vial of peppermint oil with me. Use rosemary and lavender during the day and at night. Hope these tips help many of you. Here's to conquering pain and living a full and healthy life!

     

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      Thanks for the tips. Wonder if I might ask which herbal supplement you are using? Every little helps.
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    Hi Becky-Louise, 

    i have had an unbelievable time reading these posts. First let me say I feel the SAME way. I have migraines, which lead to neck pain, which lead to terrible days (more days a week than not) I'm in the US and have struggled with 6 different doctors over the past 36 months. I've seen a primary, neurologist, orthopedic, pain management, ear, nose and throat and an oral surgeon. Let me tell you it has been very expensive and very stressful. I am a normal person with a big problem. Every doctor I have seen has been so willing to help until their bright ideas don't work- I am not sure if you have the same regulations for medication over seas as we do here but I literally feel like a crazy person when I ask for some form of relief. It's as if you are immediately looked upon as a drug seeker. I just want help. That's it. I just want it to go away!!!

    Massage therapy, actupuncture, hot bath, ice packs, heating pad,"rest", NSAIDS, anti-depressants, gabapentin, robaxin, blah blah blah -Nothing helps!!! The only time I have received any form of relief (temporary and slight) is when I have taken a vicodin. That's not very useful when #1 they are impossible to get and #2 it's not something you can take and still be a very productive and reliable mother. 

    I finally have found a Oral surgeon who is able to give me a splint to wear at night and IT HAS BEEN A MIRACLE!! Please please please call around and see if someone can look into your bite. It truly has changed my life. Tmj or tmd is real and has many different ways to show itself. It causes massive migraines which continue on for months and years. It's worth a try- so I thought id share. 

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      Hi Sumrbrzg

      I dont know if you have also been reading my post as only last week did i finally find a possible soultion & yesterday got my bite guard made up which I start wearing soon.. Is a bite guard the same as a splint? How do you wear yours? How long did you use it? I have all the symtoms of TMD/TMJ but dotors tell me it could be Trigemiunal Nurolagia type 2 (TN)

      which mimics same symtoms.. 

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      Hi Jamie, what is TN type 2?! I don't think I've heard of that. I've had my splint not for 2 years. Yes it's the same as a night guard. I recently had to have it redone since it seems I chew it to bits often... It basically keeps your second molars from clanking together and from fully exhausting your jaw muscles- I wear a full top spilt and when it's not working boy do I know!!! I wear it every single night or when I feel my symptoms coming on (fullness in my ears, headache, tired jaw) it really does help and has cut the bad days down to only a few a month as opposed to a week...
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      Hi, I'm really glad your finding some relief with a mouth guard, and hope it continues. Thanks for sharing your experience and please keep updating us smile 

      I saw my orthodontist yesterday about getting my new retainer, and while there I asked her to have a look at if I'm grinding my teeth and if that would be contributing to the migraines. But she's looked, and doesn't think I'm grinding enough to cause any damage to my teeth or problems with my jaw. She did say that if I wear my retainer at night it could help the same way a mouth guard would, but can't promise anything. I have noticed that I clench my teeth  a bit when I've got a really bad migraine.

      It's my own fault tonight because I wanted to see my friends and go to the cinema, but it was 3D and couldn't wear my prescription glasses with the 3D ones, so it's killing me now, and can't sleep. Silly me sad

       Aha, yeah I have that problem with doctors & pharmacies. I hate walking out of my neurologist appointment with a new prescription every 3 months. Though my neurologist is very against me taking pain medication, my GP has suggested pain relief but I've had to turn it down because of rebound headaches. Then my GP treat me like I'm ungrateful because I won't accept the drugs they are trying to force down my throat.

      My manager at work has learnt to keep a stash of pain killers for me though because I get halfway through a shift, won't go home because I'm fed up of the "you've just got a headache, get over it" comment off some people, and need to try get some relief. That's usually the only time I will take pain killers now though. Probably shouldn't.

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      Hi Sumrbrzg & Becky

      Read this link on TN: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Atypical_trigeminal_neuralgia

      There are 2/3 types of TN, my type is Atypical Tigeminal Neuralgia, it all went over my head at first but its more common in women & mimics chronic migrane symtoms or sometimes occurs with chronic migrane, it is also linked to TMJ/TMD & often confused by doctors as neither have accurate ways to test or show up on scans MRI etc however the course of treatment & medication can be crucial in treating the symtoms yet utimatley there is no cure but for some patients it works itself out over months or years, remission periods vary, each person is different. Im lucky to have a very good GP that warns me off all these medications which cause rebound headaches & as painkillers do nothing to help only medications like trylic antidepressants or Gambetine which I have tried (anti seizure drugs) can settle the nerve. The mouth guard helps relax the muscles which are connected the trigeminal nerve which in turn doesnt aggravate it as much leading to much less headaches. After reading that you wear it every night for 2 years makes me feel really sad as I have trouble sleeping espcially now as I have chronic tittnus & fullness in my left ear which screeches when the headaches happen, I cant imagine to have to sleep with a guard every night.. i would of thought of 2 years it would have corrected your TMJ? sad

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      I have only just (yesterday) found out that you are not supposed to have to wear the splint forever. After gloating about my dentist yesterday, I went to see him to have my night guard adjusted. I went there with a headache (possibly caused my the two boys I had on my heels) , jaw in pain and rubbing my neck. When I saw his face he had a look. One that said are you in pain or are you here for a "refill". It was like he saw me as a bad actor. I was disgusted. I have never felt so stupid and angry all at once. No wonder he perceived me as a hypochondriac.... TMJ/TMD is NOT supposed to go on like this! Why am I JUST NOW finding this out?! This has been going on for right at 3 years now that I've taken the time to think back. I have done research over the years and have even charted the nerves and disks possibly responsible for the neck/jaw/tooth/head pain and NOT once have I come across TN!ive just had the dentist office send a referral over to the university to see if I can get some form of comprehensive care... I'll keep everone posted. 
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      Sumrbrzg

      Yesterday I wrote you a post about TN but inserted a link which apparently is againist the rules of the chat room. The link related to Atypical Trigemninal Nuralagia (Type 2) which are burning, throbbing chronic type headaches more common in women, this nerve is connected to the Jaw hence why symtoms can be mistaken with TMJ or causing TMJ. Since getting ill all I've done is study areas connected to what's been causing these headaches, it was my GP that told me about TN, not my nureologist even though he's considered the best, he refused to have his medical opinion challeneged & even got so angry saying I was depressed & suggesting I was a hypocondriac that he made me cry in his office, that was the last time I saw him and took matters into my own hands.. at £170 a consultation I really don't need his help, I have an excellent GP & a helpful dentist, ultimatley there is no miracle cure, its about finding the right medication, trigger & diagnosis, as long as the scans & blood tests show there is nothing life threatening, don't rely on doctors professionals, my dad went everyday for 4 months to his GP saying he felt unwell until he literally turned blue & found out he had a rare cancer, gave him 6 months to live & told him to enjoy those months at home, my grandmother sat in the libary (no internet in those days) studied his cancer till she found small hope for a new chemo trial, my dad is still alive with us today.. so don't let anyone make you feel bad for what your going through, its your health & your children are relying on you to.

      My understanding is a bite guard should be worn for a approx 6 weeks before seeing any imporovement but to hear youve been wearing it for as long as you have every night was a real surprise. My advice is to read up on Atypical TN type 2, there is no specfic tests for this, its based on symtoms, aniti sezure drugs to reduce the swelling of the nerve, I have never tried this medication as it comes with lots of side effects, I already struggle taking low doses of Antidepressant Notriplyine, my GP said if the AD don't work or eventually stop working the next step is to try specfic medication for TN but these need to be monitored by your GP, stick to low doses of anything they give you. Keep me posted 

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      Thank you so much & I truly appreciate y'all! I had to go across the pond to find it but the support has really helped me to hold it together the past 24 hours. Prayers and hope...

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