My boss feels I can return to work in 3-4 weeks after a vaginal hysterectomy

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I just made the decision to have a vaginal hysterectomy done aug 24th . I told my boss on friday and he seemed ok. However he must have been freaking out over the weekend as he now feels that this will be a minimally invasive procedure and I should be fine 3-4 weeks if not 2!

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    Methinks he probably Googled it, Yes it is minimally invasive (I had one done last December) I was lucky in as much as I experienced no pain but it is still MAJOR surgery, it will all depend on what work you do but I think 2 weeks is pushing it, it is usually 4-6weeks minimum.
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      Aso if you need to drive to work, you have to wait 4 weeks for that or until you can safely do an emergency stop without hurting yourself....................MEN!
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    Hiya

    I don't understand these bosses? Did he google your recovery time like mine did? You have not had your surgery yet and every person is different in healing!! I had TAH and removal if ivaries a week ago today and I have advised my manager after she rudely googled my recovery that I will be back when I am fit enough to do so and my manager is female!! Take your time and return when you and your gp says so x keep me informed thinking of you

    Nic

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      Thanks Nic, i am freaked out already waiting for surgery. He just doesnt get it. I will get a letter from my doctor so he has no legal ground. Still he is an ass to question this!
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      I am 7 months post op now and yes I am probably a lot older than you, I still have times when I feel I can't do much, you will not be able to lift anything heavier than a kettle for quite some time, that applies to pushing things and pulling things ie vacuum cleaners etc, recovery takes anything up to a year! I really feel for you ladies who are in full time work I have read so many horror stories on this website about bosses reacting this way, I get so angry (on your behalf) everything is about money today, no empathy towards employees anymore, everyone seems to be just a number today.

      I wish you all the very best for 24th August, you will be fine, if an 'oldie' like me can do it anyone can. wink

      Take care.

      Phoebe.

       

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      Phoebe, thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement.

      As you know it is a hard decision to make and the added stress from work is not helping.

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    There is no way you will be ready to return to work and your consultant will provide you with a letter to that effect
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    Hi Marketa

    Good luck for your operation.  Everyone reactions differently to this major operation but usually it is 6 weeks minimum before any thought can be given to work.  I don't know what you do for a living, but even the easiest job can take it out of you until you have completely recovered.    

    Hopefully your GP will support you in this, if not your surgeon will.

    Warmest Wishes 

    Jacqui 

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    Hi Mareta,

    I went back to work 1 week post op, due to the fact I was on my 3rd surgery before we did the vagional hysterectomy and I went back to work after one week. If I had more paid leave I think 2 weeks would have been better, for me personally. The major issue I had returning so soon was pain and pressure when sitting to long, extra swelling. I'm not 2 months post op and feel fine. If you have paid leave or FMLA where you are I would take a no less than 2 weeks off smile Good luck to you! Erin

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    The hospital will give you a fit note for 4 weeks straight off. If you aren't feeling up to it before it runs out see your Gp and tell them that. I did and got another 2 weeks. Went back this week and wish I'd asked for a few more weeks as although I've taken leave to have shorter week I'm rediculously shattered. Plus they keep saying take it easy in the same breath as this needs to be done by end of day!!! Whilst you are under a doctor's note they cannot do anything to make you come back. All depends on your policy for pay when off sick if you can afford it. Good luck but don't rush back it's still a major op. Mine was laparoscopy so similar recovery times to you.
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      Mine tiredness and extra time was hormone related as lost ovaries rather than any problems with physical side of op.
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    you cannot judge before how well you will feel afterwards. Consultants and GPs sould be the ones who decide when you are fit fot work not your employer
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    Hi Marketa

    Typical attitude of a man - no idea whatsoever!!

    I wouldn't worry too much.  I had the same procedure in January and my surgeon automatically gives a 6 weeks certificate for recovery.  It is true that where the op is done vaginally it is less invasive and as you have no external wound, healing is generally quicker.  I had no pain or discomfort at all from day one.  The downside is that because you feel so well (I felt like I was on holiday for 6 weeks!) you tend to think you can do things which you shouldn't do.  I was careful not to lift anything but nothing was said about other movements and I twisted awkwardly when I was just pulling out a plug from behind my sofa and as a result I must have torn stitches and had a very scary bleed at 2 weeks post op.  So be warned not to make any bending, stretching etc moves.

    Anyway, you might want to speak to your consultant's secretary to find out whether he also automatically gives 6 weeks recovery time.  I did feel that I could have gone back to work earlier (I'm a secretary and sit down a lot) but in reality I wouldn't have been able to carry files or run up and downstairs etc until the six weeks was up.

    Good luck with the op - I'm sure you will be fine and just in time to enjoy 6 weeks rest while the weather is still hopefully warm!

    Shani xxx

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      I am a secretary as well, my boss is an eye specialist and calls me away from my desk all the time. I also get mail and unpack deliveries etc....

      I am getting a letter from my surgeon re: the 6week recovery time that he said was needed. It is just hard to have to justify my time off.thank you. Were you scared like me???

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      Hi Marketa

      Yes, I was very frightened having never had an op of any kind before and I needed a hysterectomy and bladder repair.  I also live alone having separated from my husband 2 years ago. To add to my stress I had also just met a lovely man and had to tell him about my impending operation!  I thought that might be the last I saw of him but he was brilliant and took great care of me during my recovery. 

      I can honestly say that the procedure was 'a walk in the park' for me.  I was lucky enough to be in a private ward - on the NHS by way of an apology for a last minute cancellation.  I had no pain or discomfort at all - even from day one.  I was going for walks from about 10 days post op and back to running at 6 weeks.  The only painkillers I had were over the counter strength paracetamol and ibuprofen and half the time I didn't think I needed anything.  My surgeon was brilliant (he is renowned for minimal access surgery) and I think my good fortune was really down to him and the care I received on the ward.

      I'm now 6 months post op and feel great - and physically everything is in great working order I'm pleased to say!!

      Please don't worry about it - the vaginal method is by far the best option and hopefully you will sail through it all like I did.

      Best wishes and let us know how you get on.

      Shani xx

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      I think you must have had the same surgeon as me Shani, I had no pain whatsoever I didn't need pain relief after surgery and haven't taken any since, I told him he waved a magic wand and didn't actually operate at all, his reply was 'we aim to please' I didn't feel as if I had had surgery at all apart from the infamous swelly belly, lol.
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      I was same as well. I had a bleed through overdoing but no pain after first day and no pain killers out of hospital. I had laparacopic vaginal 7 weeks ago. There are some great surgeons out there 😊
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      Hi Shani

      I feel so much better after reading this. Thank you.

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      I thought they will give me pain killers after the surgery.... What if I need them?
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      Hi Marketa, they will offer you pain killers when you come round after your surgery, I was offered them but didn't need them,please don't worry, the nurses/doctors won't let you be in pain.
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      Not at all Marketa, I think we all 'freaked out' a little beforehand, like I said, it's fear of the unknown, I would imagine you will have a spinal block plus a GA before surgery this seems to be the 'norm' with this type of procedure, if you are concerned at all give your surgeons secretary a ring and ask, keep coming on here and we will help you through this as best we can.

      Take care

      Phoebe.

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      He said general anasthesia. I have my pre op aug 6th and meet the anaesthesiologist, so I will ask. When I waited to have my gallbladder out the anaesthesiologist gave me a sedative, that helped! Lol. Thank you. I am so greatful for all the advice.

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