My boss feels I can return to work in 3-4 weeks after a vaginal hysterectomy
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I just made the decision to have a vaginal hysterectomy done aug 24th . I told my boss on friday and he seemed ok. However he must have been freaking out over the weekend as he now feels that this will be a minimally invasive procedure and I should be fine 3-4 weeks if not 2!
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I don't understand these bosses? Did he google your recovery time like mine did? You have not had your surgery yet and every person is different in healing!! I had TAH and removal if ivaries a week ago today and I have advised my manager after she rudely googled my recovery that I will be back when I am fit enough to do so and my manager is female!! Take your time and return when you and your gp says so x keep me informed thinking of you
Nic
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phoebewhite Marketa
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I wish you all the very best for 24th August, you will be fine, if an 'oldie' like me can do it anyone can.
Take care.
Phoebe.
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As you know it is a hard decision to make and the added stress from work is not helping.
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jacqueline67292 Marketa
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Good luck for your operation. Everyone reactions differently to this major operation but usually it is 6 weeks minimum before any thought can be given to work. I don't know what you do for a living, but even the easiest job can take it out of you until you have completely recovered.
Hopefully your GP will support you in this, if not your surgeon will.
Warmest Wishes
Jacqui
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I went back to work 1 week post op, due to the fact I was on my 3rd surgery before we did the vagional hysterectomy and I went back to work after one week. If I had more paid leave I think 2 weeks would have been better, for me personally. The major issue I had returning so soon was pain and pressure when sitting to long, extra swelling. I'm not 2 months post op and feel fine. If you have paid leave or FMLA where you are I would take a no less than 2 weeks off Good luck to you! Erin
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shani1953 Marketa
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Typical attitude of a man - no idea whatsoever!!
I wouldn't worry too much. I had the same procedure in January and my surgeon automatically gives a 6 weeks certificate for recovery. It is true that where the op is done vaginally it is less invasive and as you have no external wound, healing is generally quicker. I had no pain or discomfort at all from day one. The downside is that because you feel so well (I felt like I was on holiday for 6 weeks!) you tend to think you can do things which you shouldn't do. I was careful not to lift anything but nothing was said about other movements and I twisted awkwardly when I was just pulling out a plug from behind my sofa and as a result I must have torn stitches and had a very scary bleed at 2 weeks post op. So be warned not to make any bending, stretching etc moves.
Anyway, you might want to speak to your consultant's secretary to find out whether he also automatically gives 6 weeks recovery time. I did feel that I could have gone back to work earlier (I'm a secretary and sit down a lot) but in reality I wouldn't have been able to carry files or run up and downstairs etc until the six weeks was up.
Good luck with the op - I'm sure you will be fine and just in time to enjoy 6 weeks rest while the weather is still hopefully warm!
Shani xxx
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I am getting a letter from my surgeon re: the 6week recovery time that he said was needed. It is just hard to have to justify my time off.thank you. Were you scared like me???
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Yes, I was very frightened having never had an op of any kind before and I needed a hysterectomy and bladder repair. I also live alone having separated from my husband 2 years ago. To add to my stress I had also just met a lovely man and had to tell him about my impending operation! I thought that might be the last I saw of him but he was brilliant and took great care of me during my recovery.
I can honestly say that the procedure was 'a walk in the park' for me. I was lucky enough to be in a private ward - on the NHS by way of an apology for a last minute cancellation. I had no pain or discomfort at all - even from day one. I was going for walks from about 10 days post op and back to running at 6 weeks. The only painkillers I had were over the counter strength paracetamol and ibuprofen and half the time I didn't think I needed anything. My surgeon was brilliant (he is renowned for minimal access surgery) and I think my good fortune was really down to him and the care I received on the ward.
I'm now 6 months post op and feel great - and physically everything is in great working order I'm pleased to say!!
Please don't worry about it - the vaginal method is by far the best option and hopefully you will sail through it all like I did.
Best wishes and let us know how you get on.
Shani xx
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I feel so much better after reading this. Thank you.
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Take care
Phoebe.
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