My clitoris and other parts have all but disappeared....help

Thanks so much Anna for your words of encouragement. You and Hanny have given me my strength back. I am going to start this regime immediately! Especially relieved about the clitoris, I thought it was gone forever. I don't feel so hopeless and alone any longer......

You are very welcome!  Finding these wonderful ladies on here and trying their suggestions and tips have reversed my symptoms.  Sad to say, but they have been much more helpful than my doctor.  Just know that you are not alone!

Hey Hanni - I forget - whats the proportion again wiht the baking soda mix? I cant remember..

Thank you

Thank you soooo much Hanny for your wonderful advice. I felt so very alone!! You have given me back my courage to do all the things that have obviously worked so well for you. 

I was thrilled to learn that if I keep this regime up I will eventually unfuse my clitoris! Can I ask you Hanny if you are able to have sex? I feel so sad for my husband as sex has been off the agenda for sometime now.

Also wondering what your thoughts are on the Mona Lisa Touch (laser treatment)?

I will look over the various topics discussed earlier. Again thank you so much for replying.

 

Hi Lenep,

​I put three pinches in a Peron bottle and one third of a cup of baking soda in the bath.  For the Borax I do the same, otherwise it becomes to strong for me, but that only in the Peron bottle, not in a bath. 

Glad it was of some help Debbie Anne,

?Do try to remember that all takes time. 

?As far as sex goes - yes, very possible and no problem at all at present. Just be careful that you don't re-introduce sex too soon.  Allow all to recover and heal first.  LS does not like to be aggrevated.  Otherwise you loose more than you gain. 

?I'm not familiar personally with the Mona Lisa Touch.  There were no problems with the vagina opening, therefore no need for this.  After the fusing was gone the vagina was still in tact and nothing else needed to be done.  Just careful and diligent maintenance of the LS.  And that's what I'm still doing every day.  Eventually there is some kind of routine and you don't even have to think about it. 

?I hope that your husband is patient and understanding with this.  My husband was, though it wasn't easy and it was hard on our relationship for a while.    I hope you can try to keep your hubby on board and carry this hardship together if at all possible. 

 

My husband is a very gentle man who is completely supportive........thank goodness! It's more me feeling sad and sorry for myself around this situation. However, I am now armed with positive information so am feeling much better thanks to you Hanny.

The reason I asked about the Mona Lisa Touch is because me vagina has narrowed considerably making sex very painful. It feels as though the vaginal walls have closed in and things have tightened up . I have heard that some women have had a good result with the MLT. So was just curious really. Although I am not so bothered now because I am hopeful that the bicarb/borax and coconut oil with diet will do the trick!!

I don't know how much these things help with narrowing.  You'll still need to stretch things out a bit to keep your vagina from narrowing.  Some people use a dialator.  When my boyfriend and I first had sex, I was in a lot of pain, but after time and gentle practice It was fine.  I found I could have sex about 2 times a week and feel ok.  If we went for long periods of time without sex, it started narrowing again.  Maybe others have some tips on the narrowing issue.

Thanks Anna, the dialator sounds like a good idea. Yes I would be interested if anyone else has any other ideas.

In addition - sounds like your vagina might need the help of regular dilation.  That's what I have to do as well to keep all open.  It also is helpful with keeping the urethra free or else a person will get difficulties urinating.

?I know, it is definately not easy to live with at this stage.  It affects a person mentally as well.  But great your husband is supportive.  It will help you pull through this period of what I call grieving over lost ability.  Depression was not far away, but I learned that with a bit of support you will come to the other more positive side and will start to cope better and better.

?You sound already much more positive.  Glad to be of help. 

Yes I think you are right Hanny I will need regular dilation to keep things open.

I am still feeling itchy even though I am faithfully using the bicarb/borax spray and coconut oil  after each bathroom visit. I have also changed my diet. How long did this regime take before your itch subsided??

It took a long time, sad to say.  Give it a year.  That's when I really started to feel better and better, though regular maintenance remains a must.

Thanks Hanny! I would much rather know it could take a year, this way I wont be expecting immediate results.

I did have an appointment with my gyno this week and he said out of one to ten that my LS was probably a seven! He also said, not only had my clitoris fused over completely but it had completely shrunk as well. I asked about ever regaining sensation in my clitoris and having an orgasim in the future... his reply, no that part of your life is now over!  I felt down leaving his clinic but then went home and re- read all your comments and others. I felt a lot better knowing that you and others have given me this wonderful alternate approach. IMAGINE how blue I would be feeling if i didn't have hope and hadn't found you and this wonderful forum. xx

 

Hi,

I'm a little confused with the use of baking soda....I've seen baking powder or Bicarbonate of soda....I wouldn't want to use the wrong one!!

Can you give me the name of the product brand.  Is it Arm & Hammer?  Thank you. Sonia

Baking SODA it is Scampi.  I buy it in bulk at the bulkfood store or bulkfood department of the super market.