My daughter won't talk to me
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I suffer from bad anxiety and I go over and over the same thing in my head. Sometimes I can accept the situation. The problem is my grown up daughter age 25 won't speak to me, because I finally left her father 10 years ago when she was 15. She wouldn't come and live with me even though I begged her to. As she was over 13 her wishes were respected by the court. She wished to stay with her dad.
She has not spoken to me since. I left my husband (her father). He would get drunk abuse me, make me feel small, and force me to do things I didn't want to do. I finally left in fear. I did explain to her what went on and why i left, but she says I shouldn't put her dad down. She knew nothing of the abuse I put up with.
Now sometimes I accept that my daughter is safe, healthy and happy, then sometimes the anxiety makes it all so hurtful I feel I can't go on like this. Any advice on how I can handle my anxiety about this would be greatly appreciated.
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How far do you live from her?
How do you normally contact her?
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I did send presents and cards etc to her home address. She is now living abroad. I was allowed to send her birthday present to her work address.
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When is she back in the country?
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Are you able to call her?
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Email?
Facebook?
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It does seem to be an impossible situation, that has gone on far too long.
It is ridiculous really, I didn't do anything bad.
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