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My is in hospital if he dies i will die

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anahita.p
anahita.p

My dad is in hospital,he has pancreatitis i googled and i found out its a hard disease,i have headache i want to cry but i cant i cant live without my dad my all panic attacks are back today i will die if he dies i feel awful i want to scream its end if my life

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  • lisalisa67
    lisalisa67 anahita.p

    Posted

    Go and Spend every possible minute with him at this time. Love him uo and talk to him and say every thing and anything you always wanted to say. Sit and hold his hand. Be there for him, be there for you. Bring  his favorite music tunes with you in an iPod and play then for him, very uplifting. Do not..do not.. Do not. Out out any bad energy right now. Only stregnth and courage thoughts. Go be with him. Im sending and ton of love  and ton of hugs to you. 
    • anahita.p
      anahita.p lisalisa67

      Posted

      Today was his first day of hospitalizing,i couldnt see him like dat when i saw a tube is in his nose,if i go hospital and i see him like dat i will die there i will cry if i see him again i dont want he sees im crying i love my dad he is my hero he always give me confident im living with my parents he used to kiss me every day how can i be one day without his kisses
    • lisalisa67
      lisalisa67 anahita.p

      Posted

      Maybe he would like to see you. Maybe he would live your stregnth and love. See if you can be there for him and his healing. I know it scary i have been there and done that. No one likes to lay in a hospital with no loved ines coming by. Tomorrows a new day and the doctors should have more info for you on his condition and situation but please find the stregnth to visit him. 
    • lisalisa67
      lisalisa67

      Posted

      its always better to go then not go. Do you understand that? It is his turn right now to be lavished with love  and strength. He needs that too.
    • lisalisa67
      lisalisa67

      Posted

      Maybe this is the answer to him curtailing his drinking issues and maybe this will be very lifesaving. A real wake uo call for him. Maybe
  • lynda166
    lynda166 anahita.p

    Posted

    I know how you feel, my dad died two years ago. I was the one to be with him until the end. It's so hard on us, especially with issues like we have, but as someone else suggested be the best you can be for him. Put on your game face, we are all here, some to pray for and all to support you. You can get through it. Enjoy your dad while you can. Hugs!

    • anahita.p
      anahita.p lynda166

      Posted

      Thank you i could cry finally tonight when i was talking to my mom,and now im crying again when i saw ur texts,crying make me feel better
  • tess33005
    tess33005 anahita.p

    Posted

    Anahita, most people recover from pancreatitis, depending on the cause of it.

    Is your dad a heavy drinker/alcoholic? How old is he?

    It's a painful disease but can usually be cured.

    Can you answer my questions about the cause of it, darling?

    I'm a nurse so may be able to tell you how good or bad the outcome is likely to be.

    Love and hugs,  Tess  xxxxxxx

    • anahita.p
      anahita.p tess33005

      Posted

      Yes tess my dad was a heavy drinker,he is 53,he smokes too,im living in asia im not sure how good is the hospital to cure it,i googled and and i read it may cauese death,tomorrow my mom will talk to his doctor and decied what they should do
    • tess33005
      tess33005 anahita.p

      Posted

      Is he conscious? Is he in Intensive Care?

      Even heavy drinkers only have a one in ten chance of dying from pancreatitis.

      I will pray for your family for a good outcome.

      Love Tess xxxx

    • anahita.p
      anahita.p

      Posted

      Yea he is conscious and intensive care
    • tess33005
      tess33005 anahita.p

      Posted

      Him being conscious is a good sign, darling. Keep us updated.

      Love Tess

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