my wife refuses to be intimate with me.
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My wife and I have been together 8 years, living together for the last 6years and married for the last 18months. At the beginning of our relationship our sex life was fantastic having sex 3-4 tines a week, but over the last couple of years she has lost all of her sex drive. My wife was taking the pill but it made her depressed so we decided I would have the snip a few years ago, neither of us have ever wanted children so it seemed reasonable.
Over the last few years our sex life has gone from 2-3times a week to 5-6 times a year. She never initiates sex with me and when I try to initiate something between us has no interest in being intimate or having sex with me.
I love my wife more than anything and have tried to talk with her about this but she doesn't seem to think there is anything wrong. Desperately in need of some help and advice.
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rubia01 dta44381
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If i mention being intimate or try to initiate anything i get told 'later' or 'tomorrow' or any of the excuses mentioned earlier. I even tried to make a joke of it a couple of weeks ago saying I was going to see a Dr because I constantly think about having sex with her she never even made a comment.
craig84609 dta44381
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I'm beginning to think there is only 2 concerns (putting the thought of her cheating out of my head)
She is no longer interested in sex with me.
She only sees me as a friend and flat mate!
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tasneem00771 dta44381
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As i female i will give you an advice, just try to ignore her sexually, try to pretend being busy all the time. Do not cuddle or making anything would let he feels that you want sex.
She will think that there is another woman in your life and her sex drive will back to normal once she imagines that you are with another woman.
Try that!
ellebi dta44381
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I do very bad and I have lost my sexual appetite.
Still working on finding it, when your feeling down and anxious and horrible, it aint exactly top of someones list
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