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kelly45731
kelly45731

I've lost hope in finding love every guy I meet offers me the world then just ignores me

I feel God likes making my life a joke

I have anxiety and depression and I don't know how I am to get over it if all I seem to attract is guys who chip at my self esteem and belief in hope

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  • angela10215
    angela10215 kelly45731

    Posted

    Are you depressed when you meet these guys?

    Maybe they feel like they couldnt help?

    Why are you depressed?

    • kelly45731
      kelly45731 angela10215

      Posted

      No i go in being myself being positive got on with someone really well...they said we had a connection now just ignoring me
    • angela10215
      angela10215 kelly45731

      Posted

      Are you sleeping with them & then they leave?

      Sorry if its a touchy subject Im just trying to find the right answers.☺

    • kelly45731
      kelly45731 angela10215

      Posted

      I slept with the last one but he continued to chat to me and say how we had more of a connection than just sleeping with each other
    • angela10215
      angela10215 kelly45731

      Posted

      Are you still in contact with him via phone/email?

      I would ask him outright what went wrong?

      Maybe its them & not yourself that has the problem. It must be frustrating I know,but im a great believer in trying to get to the bottom of things.☺

    • kelly45731
      kelly45731 angela10215

      Posted

      I just don't know why this happens to me all the time I have no hope left.

      Does he dislike me that much

    • angela10215
      angela10215 kelly45731

      Posted

      Kelly,dont be to hard on yourself,maybe your overthinking things? It could be something so simple . Dont keep blaming yourself.

      Ask him.

    • kelly45731
      kelly45731

      Posted

      I even tried to keep my options open...we met on Tinder, so I would update my profile etc it's not like I was clinging on to him...as most guys complain it's like that in the early stages....I kept my life going and kept it cool
  • Scourz96
    Scourz96 kelly45731

    Posted

    Hello Kelly

    I know relationship issues are really disheartening when you feel every man you meet just brings you down and makes you feel upset.

    Trust me I feel hopeless when I cannot get the chance to even find a girlfriend as my aniexty kicks in and I get all these thoughts to the point where it is pointless in me to even consider a relationship as I don't want them to suffer than I do.

    I bet you are a fine looking woman who lacks trust when trying to find the right man, all I want to say is stay strong and never give up hope!

    Sorry if I could not give a definitive answer, I just want you to understand that I am here to listen to your worries and you can rely at someone to at least understand what you are going through!

    Best Wishes and Stay Strong!

    Alex

    • Scourz96
      Scourz96 kelly45731

      Posted

      Well all I can say is at least you manage to find someone to have a chance of finding that "connection".

      I can't even do that!

      At the end of the day if I cannot find someone who will accept me for who I am then I guess I have to aceept that life always has its pros and constantly

      Here to chat if you need any help smile.

    • Scourz96
      Scourz96

      Posted

      Pros and cons.*

      My grammar today haha!

    • kelly45731
      kelly45731 Scourz96

      Posted

      I just don't know why he just switched off...I changed my tinder profile (where we met) because everyone is saying keep your options open etc was I wrong to do that?
    • Scourz96
      Scourz96 kelly45731

      Posted

      No, you will know the feeling of true love when you see it trust me. That man will feel the same too!
    • kelly45731
      kelly45731 Scourz96

      Posted

      What do you mean? I'm

      Just confused why he just seemed to have gone cold?

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