No place like home!..
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Please tell me I'm not going mad, I feel uncomfortable just waiting at the till in shops, a feeling I need to escape, I hope this feeling doesn't last forever, I only really feel comfortable at home!
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maisie05 pinkcatfairy
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My daughter is getting married in August, full day and night in a country house, I'm already panicking at the thought of not being able to leave when I want to.
Any advice on anything I can take, like Calms or something?
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pinkcatfairy maisie05
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Im not sure what to take really, I'm not taking anything at the moment but apart from magnesium because my muscles were hurting and i thought that i read somewhere low magnesium can cause anxiety but i still feel anxious although the magnesium seems to have stopped the muscle pain! X
jamie50513 pinkcatfairy
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maria101 jamie50513
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ursulauc62 jamie50513
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Yes it sucks, but I keep thinking - it'll get better, I'll get better and be able to actually attend clubs I've nominally joined and contribute and get a part time job or just do voluntary work. I was offered some about six months ago, and was really pleased, then when it came to actually doing it, I just didnt have the confidence.
And this is from someone who lived and workd on the other side of the world, and travelled the world, sometimes alone. At least I've done that even if I cant do so again - but we all hope things will get better, and believing gets you half way there!
pinkcatfairy ursulauc62
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Yes I know what you mean it is nice to know we are not alone in this! I have never been a very well travelled person, i have been to places but i suppose i have always been abit of a nervous person, loosing my mum and sister some years ago probably didnt help! It goes to show how menopause can affect people like yourself who had been quite outgoing! etc in your life xx
jamie50513 ursulauc62
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ursulauc62 jamie50513
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I did hate what was happening to me and didnt understand it, and didnt really until very recently when I realized alot of ladies who post on here are quite a bit younger than me.
Also having young children to look after as well as trying to succeed in a stressful job is something that I thought I should be able to cope with but in reality couldnt. I had kids in my mid thirties and sometimes think that was too late for me.
Have you had any blood tests for hormone levels etc? These kind of inbalances can be really overwhelming.
metamorphed ursulauc62
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jamie50513 ursulauc62
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ursulauc62 jamie50513
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I did have really heavy painful periods and did look forward to them stopping, but then other things happen which are not nice, and sometimes I actually feel like I wish I was still having them - mad I know! The fall in oestrogen does cause some unpleasant effects to the body, and its like your'e in a constant battle to still feel like a proper woman. I tried HRT, but they gave me terrible acne - so I stopped. Maybe it would work better now, as I'm probably more menopausal than I was, but I'm still pretty dubious about it.
Yes I definitely got bad PMT - when it struck the whole family knew about it, and my poor husband used to dread it.
I have been on AD's and seen therapists. I know its not ideal but I do currently take AD's and they do help to prevent me from feeling very down and negative, and that in itself is a relief.
ursulauc62 metamorphed
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I do still plan to get at least a part time job when I feel ready, or voluntary work. Would be nice to be able to feel useful again. I think there is hope. I've seen a couple of programmes recently that were very positive about the effects of getting older, and that older employees seem to be generally more reliable! So there is hope.
jamie50513 ursulauc62
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steff43925 pinkcatfairy
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pinkcatfairy steff43925
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