perforated bowel
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HI can any one help? My mom has just passed away she was 56 and went into hospital on boxing after having alot of pain in her stomach her history wasnt great she had liver diese as she was a heavy drinker before. Onlt when she went into hospital it took them four days to take her in for a scan to find out what was causing her all the pain which is when we was told ita not good there is a ruptered organ in her stomach and shes too ill to make it theough an operation so they gunna try to deal with it by giving her antiboiticks in a drip but as the day went on she got worse and worse and we was then told she wasnt going to make it through the night and that after her last drip they wasnt gunna give her anything els and that there was nothing els they could do which was terrible an i felt usless and couldnt get my head round how she got so bad so quickly and why the doctora never got her down for a scan on the first or second day she was there instead of leaving her for four days all of this is playing on my mind all i can think is if they had her down for scan sooner none of this would have happened we never got a striaght answer of any of thw doctors on what had actually happened in her stomach untill today when i went and picked death cert up and it says cause of death pertherated bowel please has anyone got any information or anything at all that might help i would be gratefull thanks for reading!
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GeorgiaS jody57581
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jody57581 GeorgiaS
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paigebee jody57581
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jody57581 paigebee
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tiswas24537 jody57581
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like i said i only know what iv read and heard , about this , but it seems to me that if they had scaned her straight away they might have had time to do a repair .as she just got worse as the days went on it seems to me that a scan should have been sooner rather than later giving her a better chance .
you can find loads of stuff on the net about allsorts of medical problems , try putting in a search and read up on it . see what it says the early symptoms are , and how long do you have to put it right .at least your be able to come to terms with it .one way or the other . you wont get any honesty from the hospital they all close ranks in cases like this.
my sisterinlaw nearly died after being told her pain was all inher head and being discharged .luckly she collasped on her way out of the hospital , it turned out she had ganagreen of the stomach after her appendix ruptured .if she had gone home she would have made it back in time she would have died at 27 .
ths kind of condition should not have been missed there are certain signs that would have showed up . get some grief cancelling hun no matter what the right or wrongs of your mothers case it was most certainly not your fault.
georgeGG tiswas24537
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I had a perforated bowel when I was 20. I thought it was a slight accident and stayed in bed expecting to get better.. On day 2 my ladlady called her GP. He had a blue light amulance at the door while he taked to me. An emergency operation plus colostomey plus very large antibiotic pills. Obviously I came through but I was a skeleton. It took me years to get some weight back on me. Being young probably helped. Yes a really difficult medical problem.
Almost lost my wife in 2013 to an extensive gut infection. The medics never discovered the cause. Almost killed her with cocktails of intravenus antibiotics in there efforts to save her it was that close.. Thankfully they were successful.
Delay can be fatal. That is true in other medical problems. Certainly true in many cancers.
xxxxx George
jody57581 tiswas24537
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tiswas24537 jody57581
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but i dont know how you actuley go about it .maybe someone on here can help. or look that up on net to .
remember to take care of your self hun . you cant bring your mum back and it was terriable i am 54 and theres no way i wont to go just yet but maybe if you get an investagation into your mothers care you might feel like you have done something.and help you move on .
i have seen lack of care many times in hospitals and to be honest they terrife me like i said i nearly lost my sister inlaw. my brother nearly lost his leg, my other brother nearly died from a gut obstruction .
i had an hyesterectomy and came out with the worst back pain ever unable to straighten up . then they tried to finish me of giving me a muscle injection out side the safe area .
my grandad was badly treated in hospital , wont go in to details not plesant, and my dad was made to suffer unessersy by wrong diognoses which also cost him his life .
so either someone has it in for my family hahaha or the care in hospitals just isent what it should be.and talking to others i think its the later.keep strong hun to something constructive to find out what happened in your mums case that will help you .
tiswas24537 georgeGG
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you cant even get them out
georgeGG tiswas24537
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STD jody57581
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2) Make a formal complaint in writing to the hospital. You will need to go through the hospital's own internal (and often useless) complaints department before you will then be able to take the matter onto, say, the Health Ombudsman, if you want to.
3) Identify the doctor who first saw your mother and whose responsibility it should have been to send her for a scan. Waiting 4 days seems ridiculous in these circumstances - and I don't claim to know the specific facts of your mother's case. It just seems rather unreasonable. If that doctor really did act in a 'grossly negligent' way by not ordering a scan, then there may even be criminal legal implications involved, although that is rare.
4) In any event, even if the individual doctor/doctors aren't criminally negligent, you may want to consider referring them to their own professional body, which is the G.M.C. (General Medical Council). Again, often thought of as another 'toothless tiger', but worth complaining to, if the doctor did not act responsibly. He/she will then have to justify themselves and their actions.
Do try and speak to a solicitor about this case, who should be able to give an objective analysis (it's just not in their interests to pursue a case that isn't going to go anywhere). If you do get them to take it on, at least you will then have a professional on your side to hopefully counter the brick walls that I suspect that you will encounter from the Health Service.
derek76 jody57581
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tiswas24537 jody57581
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tiswas24537 jody57581
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see if that will help you . if you think something was not right about your mothers care then your gut feeling is most likely right .
derek76 jody57581
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You know what they say about doctors burying or cremating their mistakes. With a cremation two doctors have to sign the death certificate but the job usually goes to a friend who gets a share of the £142 fee known to them as 'Ash Cash' that is worth 15 million a year to the medical profession.