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(Sorry in advance for the picture and in detail backstory)

I met with a guy i've been seeing for 2 years casually, we didnt do penetration but i did grind on him unprotected. Later that day i was dehydrated (fever, which i thought nothing of because my room is very dry and im prone to migraines so its all the time and sore in my butt which i assumed was from him slapping it hard) and nauseous (which isnt usual.) The next day, none of those symptoms after i drunk alot of water and took ibuprofen. I have a habit of casually rubbing down there and it was dry so i was concerned and guess i irritated myself with probing and poking for over 40 minutes. I now have four little bumps on the bottom, not too concerned about the ones on my labia majora because i shaved then nicked myself and kept scratching at it. image

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    Were you grinding on him naked? because Herpes can be passed on with just contact no penetration. This resembles Herpes and your symptoms falls in the range for a first outbreak.

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      Yeah i was, i also used a hot n cold lube that i forgot i was allergic too. His papers says negative for herpes and im yet to be tested.

      Ive been seeing him for over 2 years and gave oral with no problem, just this time i used that lube and got a break out. Im also very prone to migraines in heat since i have clotting and it was extremely hot that day and i dont usually drink water that much nor do i eat much so that could explain my symptoms since its usually always like that. Does herpes make you dry? Because i do have chronic BV and it usually always makes me dry.

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      forgot i could just edit.

    • Posted

      I highly recommend you getting swabbed and checked to be sure.

    • Posted

      Went and they said its due to my habits of not properly caring for my vulva, im getting a blood test in 3 months to be sure but i have BV, Yeast infection, and contact dermatitis.

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