Please help ! I’m having terrible pain during intercourse and despite 2 steroid injections.
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I’m almost 50 and can’t believe my sex life is over. The pain is awful and it’s not even at full penetration, my partner is so patient but I’m becoming so down. Anyone else been through this and been treated successfully?
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Suki_girl Tammi16
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Yes I’m very dry and probably on the start of menopause although my periods are regular as clockwork. The gym doctor says it’s a muscle and has injected area twice within 3 weeks both injections at different spots. The pain is internally and the only way I can describe it is that if feels like a stitch irritating the area , I remember exact same feeling just after having my daughter where they had stitched me. The feeling inside is agonising and feels like razor blades and if I urinate after it stinging like mad. My private is still sore and that’s 3 days since trying to attempt intercourse and like I said my partner had barely tried. Thanks for getting back to me. X
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Hi. I had to have pelvic physical therapy to get past the pain. The muscles get so tight they will not relax. Once you have pain with sex... it becomes a circle.... sex: pain: fear: etc. I've been in therapy now for 7 months and I'm really getting better and better. It takes awhile, but its so worth it! Ask your doctor for a referral and give it a try. You can also try progressive relaxation. There are plenty of videos about this on YouTube. I use these every night.
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Hi Suki girl, I've been trying to find the post where you mentioned Pelvic exercises, etc. Could you post that book again? I'm
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debi14820 Tammi16
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Dear Tammi,
Yes I have been through that repeatedly. I've had pelvic physical therapy which helped a lot! I highly recommend it. That being said, there are other things you can do too. Try a vibrator to relax first. I also have used dilators. You start with the smallest size and gradually move up in size. Make sure you always use lots of lubrication when using dilators. Ask your doctor which kind as there are lots of them. Do not have sex again until you are pain free. The pain causes a merry go round effect which is extremely difficult to get off of. Sex - pain-fear- pain....
Yes my treatment has been successful. Also on YouTube there are exercises you can do to relax before having sex. If you want to know what kind of dilators I use, please message me. I don't think we can list things here. Best wishes and take care! Debi
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It will take awhile so be patient and use lots of lubrication. I also use Vagisil Complete Moisturizing Gel. It helps too. But if you are having pain and irritation, then just use lube. It does work! If you try a bigger size and it hurts, then go back down one size. If you rush it, like I did once, then you reinforce touch with pain. You don't want that! Take care. Debi
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