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hi everybody I’m new to this site and this will be my first post. I really need some advice/tips/ help! I’m 29 and i was recently diagnosed with fibroids in March of 2020. Alittle back story: Around March of 2019 I hired a personal trainer to help me work on getting abs. Fast forward to Jan.2020, i noticed that stomach was not getting flatter but bigger, it literally started to look like I was pregnant! I did notice that by this time my period did start to last longer than usual. My period is usually 5 days long and I've always been a heavy bleeder but lately I would spot for 4 days after my period was supposed to be over. So the next day after working out w. my trainer in Feb. 2020 , I woke up to a bulge at the bottom of my stomach. I figured maybe I had pulled something while working out and just shrugged it off. Until it didn’t go way andI went to my GP, he is actually the one who discovered the fibroid and sent me to do a US in March. I was reffered to a gyn and he said its huge. 10cm to be exact. anyways , I’m told that I will need a myomectomy and that I may not be able to have kids. But I really do plan on getting married one day(Whenever God permits to send me my husband) and having a family. Its one of the main things want in life ! But I am not ready for kids right now. I’m not married yet, I don’t even have a boyfriend yet. And I'm feeling like the only option is to get some guy and get pregnant now after the surgery or there will be no chance for me to have kids in the future! And now I have been constantly crying myself to sleep everyday feeling depressed and like I somehow failed. I'm scared and feeling helpless and dont know who to talk to about this. Please help!
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