Posterior repair for a rectocele
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I am going into hospital next week for a posterior repair to hopefully sort out the rectocele I have had for the last year.
I would be grateful for any information and comments from anyone who has undergone this procedure.
I am very nervous and embarrassed about the whole thing. I will definately leave comments on my experience once it is over.
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Gardener_Jo lynne59214
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I had my op 9 weeks ago and am still off work, if you do anthing physically demanding at work do make sure you are fully recovered before returning. The big message from everyone here is to rest and then rest some more. I am well on the way to recovery, but still have some discomfort, mainly when I stretch up, and so I still take time every day to lay down and relax. I can over do things, that's the problem when you begin to feel better, as I tended to do all the little jobs about the house and then felt wiped out.
In terms of knowing more about post op this is a great forum for sharing advice. I have found it so reassuring.
I bought a squatty potty to help with BM, if you havent heard of them look them up online, it really helps put you in the right position on the loo, and makes it so much easier to have a motion. I can't believe I got to 54 before learning the correct position to poo in!
I also do Kegle exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor, and have an app that reminds me.
I found that one of the things that really helped me get comfortable was buying large knickers, I bought some 2 sizes bigger than I normally wear, I really didn't want anything tight around me, and they have been a god send, I wish I had worked that out earlier.
All the best for a speedy recovery Lynne, listen to your body and take it easy, it will all be worth it in the end.
Jo
lynne59214 Gardener_Jo
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Pleased to say, bowels good yesterday, see what happens today. I watched the u tube video on how to sit to open your bowels correctly, it certainly made a diference! I get a bit paranoid with the bowels as also have IBS, usually quite in control as long as I watch what I eat & exercise lightly, just hoping sitting about so much won't afect it.
Interesting you should say about the big knickers, pre op for months I have felt uncomfortable with any clothes tight around me, as soon as I can, will make a purchase. Won't get hubby to do that as god knows what he would come back with!
Thanks again for your advice, as you say this is a great site for sharing concerns/ tips. Just knowing your'e not alone helps. Actually amazed at how common this surgery is, what us women have to put up with!
Best wishes Jo
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Meg1987 Guest
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Unlike most people on this site, I am only 27 years old. I have one child who I delivered vaginally 7 years ago. I am 5ft 6in tall and weigh 127lbs. Every doctor I've seen has been shocked to find I have a severe rectocele. I guess I don't match the normal profile.
I am scheduled to have surgery on the 19th of this month. I found out today I have 4 weeks off work for recovery. I WAS shocked it was so long but now I'm wondering if it's going to be enough... Human Resources did say I can get more (up to 12 weeks) if it comes down to it, but as a single mother, I can't afford to live on 60% of my pay.
The first surgeon I saw was concerned about my age, afraid the risks were too high because I may decide to have more children someday, etc. However, my surgeon now sees it as a good thing as says I have youth on my side. He thinks I'll have a full recovery and will even be able to have kids years (Doctor recommends I wait at least 4) down the road if I choose.
Are there any other young mothers who've gone through the surgical repair?? I'm so worried.
emmaa87 Meg1987
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I'm also 27. My child is 8. I had a complicated delivery. I am now a few days post op. I also work in OB/GYN
I CAN have more children, however, they will have to be delivered via elective caesarian sections, as the vaginal tissue will not stretch to accommodate a birth following this kind of surgery.
I knew of this before my surgery and had it discussed with the chief consultant in my hospital, when you next fall pregnant I would ask to discuss it wit a consultant to avoid a nasty tear during birth.
On the complete opposite side, if you feel it will improve your life, go ahead with the surgery. It's not easy living with a rectocile, I'm looking forward to the end of my recovery - although it is early days - and to begin feeling normal again xxx
emmaa87 Meg1987
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My surgeon never expressed a worry about age, height or weight when planning the surgery xx
Meg1987 emmaa87
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emmaa87 Meg1987
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If anyone is willing to answer, how are things left aesthetically? ... just another one of my last minute worries. Thanks for all the advice and insight in advance.
emmaa87 Meg1987
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Aesthetically I started slightly bruised. I would recommend arnica as it went down quickly
If you have a perinopathy your perineum will look different, it's not going to look other-worldly, just not what it was before
But in regards to the vagina, you'll never know. It wouldn't be obvious from the outside that you've had internal surgery, and inside you won't be able to tell. Why don't you speak to your consultant about this to confirm it with them?
kathryn26064 Meg1987
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