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Problems with erection

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mirko48235
mirko48235

Hello

Im a 25 years old man and I never had problems with an erection before. I usually could last even for half an hour if i wanted and didn't reach an orgasm. A little while ago I meet a girl that I really like and so I stopped mastrubateing all at once. I stoped beacuse I wanted to be as "ready" as I could when we would have sex with this girl. So when we finally started to have sex, this was normal as before, but after a week, I started to have some problems with an erection. I can last for only for 5-10 minutes and then it drops. Funny thing is, that oral sex still gives me a normal hard erection but when we switch to vaginal sex, the erection drops almost right away.

So my question is: could stop mastrubateing have something to do with my erection while having vaginal sex, or could the reason be psychological ? 

tnx for the answers smile

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    simonthethird mirko48235

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    A "guilt trip" is that you are - possibly withour realising it - worried about having sex with a partner.  We are not saying this is the case; we cannot know.  You have obviously got used to your own body with masturbation [which is great] and now to get to know someone else.  The best thing really is to tell the woman what you have told us.  Ask her [as Kathee implies] what she enjoys with you so that she gets pleasure.
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