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Regrets ? Does this cross anyone's mind ???

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hazel14263
hazel14263

Is it NORMAL to think three weeks in .. What the hell have I done ? I mean I don't regret it really but at this stage the benefits so do not outweigh a former state . I know it sounds churlish and impatient ... Just wondered if this is a normal phase .? I mean I was in pain before but this pain outweighs it by a ton .. Really wish I could bend and pick something up properly I am a useless patient and feel so frustrated ... Anyone relate to this ? Not really feeling sorry for myself more missing a state where I could walk and bend and was in pain sometimes ...hey ho !!!

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  • ihavenonickname
    ihavenonickname hazel14263

    Posted

    Hell, yes!! The tkr is just ducky now...but I didn't learn the lesson because of the hard head I have...feeling just like you right now cause I just wish I could reach something after a TER.. total elbow replacement! The TKR was lonesome.

    Hazel, Thank you for the giggle,

    judith

  • Snowgirl79
    Snowgirl79 hazel14263

    Posted

    I guess everyone has different pain levels..I even 1 week after I had my hip replaced was so greatful! Even though I could walk properly without crutches for 2-3 weeks...my pre operation pain was horrible!! I couldn't even work an hour without ripping my hair out I was in that much pain!! Right after surgery that pain was gone!! Just pain from the incision!! I was always in pain always having a dull throbbing pain when off my feet and sharp and intense pain when standing for more then an hour!! Within 6 weeks I had no more pain!! At ALL!! So for me it was totally worth it!!

    Good luck!! Time WILL help

    • renee01952
      renee01952 Snowgirl79

      Posted

      hello darling, 

      good to hear that you are doing so well !!!!

      big warm hug ---

      renee

  • bobbie102
    bobbie102 hazel14263

    Posted

    😂😂 ohhhh Hazil we really are at the exact same stage , Iv been so frustrated and tearful and angry over the past few days . Had moments where Iv regretted having it done but then I remember I couldn't walk before. So many ups and downs , 😂😡😩😖😳

    • hazel14263
      hazel14263 bobbie102

      Posted

      Ah poor Bobbi .. If you could not walk before ..

      You see I could ...

      So hence my feelings but I was in pain .. Getting worse but I could walk and bend etc .

    • hazel14263
      hazel14263 ihavenonickname

      Posted

      No if you read my original post it says I do not regret having it done , just did not expect this much pain after but going into week 4 the pain is getting better ... No pain no gain etc 😜

    • sandra_84282
      sandra_84282 hazel14263

      Posted

      Yes Hazel.

      Week 4 felt I was getting there. Then got really awful groin pain ! You know it went as quickly as it came. Apparently it's muscle pull around the new hip joint.

      Going into week 6. Energy levels rising. I can do most things unaided now. Getting back to tackling my own housework. Bit stiff after sitting a while but much improved looking back to week 3

      Looking forward to my review on the 16th Nov. Hopefully can get back behind the wheel and back to work. Onwards and upwards girl. Best of luck. Xx

    • hazel14263
      hazel14263 sandra_84282

      Posted

      Oh I hope to follow suit Sandra. Attempted a bit of washing today and gave up .. So frustrating as can't put it in the machine properly and on my own today . Then I felt all over whelmed and sweaty and emotional so

      Sat down with a cup of tea and turned the TV on instead !! X

    • Rocketman_SG6UK
      Rocketman_SG6UK hazel14263

      Posted

      Take care there - don't try to be a hero wink we don't want anything to happen to that nice shiny new hip.

    • bobbie102
      bobbie102 hazel14263

      Posted

      😱 a bath ???? What in an actual bath tub ???? 😱 Please be careful lovie , I was told I wasn't able to have a bath .

    • hazel14263
      hazel14263 bobbie102

      Posted

      Yes and me ... And the physio said don't do it again... But if ur sitting in a hot bath isn't that the same as a 90 degree Angle ? And if you lie in it isn't that the same as lying in bed ? I don't get it . I was very very careful and had help getting in and out and to be honest I instinctively felt that was what I needed .. And I feel a lot better for it . Relaxing in a hot lavender bath is something I do a lot and I was so careful ... And the pain and tense feeling gone immediately . That's my story anyway ... Never was good at maths and angles and logic !

    • hazel14263
      hazel14263

      Posted

      Of course I don't advocate or encourage anyone else to do it .. It's my risk don't want to encourage anyone else

    • sandra_84282
      sandra_84282 hazel14263

      Posted

      Hi Hazel. That was me as well. Told no over the bath shower for 6 weeks and lasted 4. Was very careful and had help. I was never any good at understanding what a 90 degree angle was either.

      There was an interesting post on here yesterday. One person was saying that their consultant had said that 6 week restrictions were outdated and not necessary ! I'd not heard that one before. Said to do whatever you like as long as you feel able.

      I had the horrible TEDS on for 4 weeks. Should have been 6.

      I will be 6 weeks on Friday. Walked for an hour today then did a shop. No sticks. Still a bit stiff and sore when I first stand up but once I'm moving I'm fine.

      So pleased you feel better after your lavender bath 👍😘xx

    • hazel14263
      hazel14263 sandra_84282

      Posted

      Well I was quite able before the op and even tho painful I gently managed to do it and it felt totally fine .. Yes I read that post and it was interesting .
    • ihavenonickname
      ihavenonickname hazel14263

      Posted

      Each day puts the worst farther into the past...replacing a big weight bearing joint is a major surgery ...hang tough, you will love it...promise
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