Severe weakness
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Hi. I'm looking for information and I hope support. A friend who is now 81 was diagnosed COPD and Congestive Heart Failure 30 months ago. He had gone to hospital thinking bronchitis or maybe pneumonia. They sent him home with night time oxygen ordered. In January this year he got pneumonia, back to hospital, they assigned oxygen 24/7, and he has been fine with that. About 10 days ago in what I would describe as "out of the blue" he lost the ability to stand or walk for over about 15 seconds. Truly collapses to the floor and must be helped up. Off to hospital again where, against most friends and his doctors, he chose to come home under hospice care. He now reclines on the sofa non-stop except for toilet use. We are using a walker, and he hasn't the strength to walk 20 or so steps. He will collapse to the floor. That severe weakness is very bothersome to us all. Three months ago he was going up ladders. Any thoughts or ideas or reassurance that he is normal would help. Thanks.
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jude65855 rjb
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I'm sorry but I can't give you any reassurance except that although increasing weakness does happen in late stages of COPD I don't know if it results in collapsing to the floor, although it would seem possible that's the cause.
However, a definite answer can only be given by his treating doctors.
rjb jude65855
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Vee2 rjb
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https://patient.info/health/pneumonia-leaflet
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jude65855 rjb
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Perhaps your friend has been told the reason why this is now happening but he just hasn't shared with you what the doctors have told him.
Hard for any of us to say not being a doctor who has examined your friend, or seen his diagnostic results, but at a guess and it would be a guess, I would say it may be something else other than COPD or a combination of health issues going on with your friend at this time. The best persons to chat with about these recent problematic symptoms are his doctors, they may already know the cause and if not further tests can be carried out to determine what may be causing this.
On the other hand if your friend has become so weak because of the pneumonia episodes and his muscles have deteriorated you will need to get some physio help through the GP to help him back to strengthen his muscles again.
Whatever the problem it needs identifying and treating wherever possible, if left he will likely deteriorate further, not just in mobility health but lung and cardiac health as well.
Having said all that, the doctos and medical team have recognised he needs hospice care at home, so perhaps everything is already being taken into account with his care and his health needs at this time. But for sure, for your own peace of mind and for your friends if he doesn't already know why his legs are now giving way, do ask for further tests to be done to determine why the muscle weakness in his legs. You don't mention breathlessness, is he experiencing this also? Does he go blue before he collapses etc, all these things the doctor needs to be made aware of.
Best wishes to you both
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rjb Vee2
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jude65855 rjb
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I've known a few people with severe weakness and muscle wastage after they've been confined to bed for reasons other than COPD, but I guess as the condition progresses maybe our muscles get so much less oxygen they waste away? I guess it's a possibility
hypercat rjb
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Then virtually overnight he could barely walk and was incredibly breathless. He was diagosed with severe copd and put on oxygen. About 6 months later he was also diagnosed with lung cancer. Within 10 days he had died.
I am not saying for a minute that's what your friend has, but I told you this to demonstrate how in a few unlucky people it seems to progesss very quickly, but I do think age has a lot to do with it. A lot of people also ignore symptoms too putting it down to smoking and getting older. So by the time they are diagnosed it is too late to do very much for them. I hope your friend stablises and has more years yet. x
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I know someone from another site who was a smoker but didn't know she had been diagnosed with copd 2 years previously. She had no symptoms until she suddenly turned blue at work one day and nearly died. She was diagnosed with a 22% lung function. She was told she had 3 months if she didn't pack the fags in and 3 years if she did. She did straightaway. She is now nearly 6 years past this date but her lung function has dropped to 14% now.
I agree it's not the norm for copd to progress so quickly but it can happen. x
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jude65855 hypercat
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I do wonder though whether some older people attribute symptoms of coughing, breathlessness and fatigue to "smokers' cough" or normal ageing, because I know a couple of elderly people who keep smoking no matter what with all sorts of self-deception about their symptoms.
hypercat jude65855
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jude65855 hypercat
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Sorry to say it, but if you're still smoking with COPD you're addicted and self-deception is integral to addiction ...... not having a go at you, please don't think that, just pointing out something important.
Again, not having a go at you personally, but it's the nature of self-deception that we don't always know we're doing it
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hypercat jude65855
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As an ex smoker it would be much more helpful to tell me I am strong enough to overcome it and promise to help as much as you can. Finding flaws in characters hardly enourages anyone with an addiction does it? I need support not judgement.
aitarg35939 rjb
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