Sex after surgery???

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Morning ladies,

I'm nearly 7 weeks post p&a repair and perenium repair. Last night, hubby and me tried to sex for first time. NOT SUCCESSFUL!!

Sorry for tmi.. Used lots of lube, but didn't even get full penetration. For me, it felt so tight and I was really tense as I was so scared. And even after a little was in, I burst into tears and pushed him off! Now I'm worried it's too tight?!

Can anyone please advise/ put my mind at rest??

I feel like I'm losing my virginity all over again and can't relax about it now sad

Thank you in advance

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    Sex what is that..ha ha...the way I'm feeling it's gonna be another year yet,...😳😂
    • Posted

      I would sooner take my dog for a walk...😃😃😃🙈🐶
    • Posted

      Haha... This post was never supposed to be funny but it has made me laugh all day with the talk of coconut oil, dildos, fingers etc!

      At the moment, I'd rather take the dog out too... In fact, I prefer her to the rest of my family at the moment 😂😂

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      More laughter here too.  I hope your family are supporting you though Resting!

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