Sick and tired of being sick and tired of this crap

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i cant take no more its like no relief at all from any symptom its a constant thing everyday its to the point where whats the point in living if you never feel well and normal. my cycles comes every 20 days or less and its like ovulation is right after cycle according to my period app. the dizxy head floating like on a boat never leaves me worse on cycle and ovulation. i pray everyday and no relief ever comes bladder has been bothering me off and on since last cycle no infection like i get a pain once in awhile in bladder when i have to pee thats new. and after sex it bothers me a bit anyone else can relate to the bladder thing? its just always something and im tired of it i just want my life back and all this crap just stop its taking too many years of my life all ready. its like these hormones is making me feel as i have something horrible thats gonna kill me head dizzies, vision changes, over all feel not well but cant pinpoint what if that makes any sense.

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    I know just how your feeling i dont have periods any more as i had an hysterectomy 7 years ago but left my ovaries in iam goin through it all iam even on my 7th week off work as i just cant function with the way i feel iam always dizzy hot sweats cold sweats jelly legs chest pain palpitations and so tired its unreal and just feel so crap all the time and like you said just cant put a finger on whats wrong i cant take hrt so my dr has gave me antidepressants he told me they wont help with the peri symptoms but if your minds in a better place its easier to cope with i havnt taken them yet iam just trying to get use to what my body is going through but i get you this is pure crap and you just feel like something bad is going to happen iam just waiting for an app for cbt to see if that helps before i hit the pill bottle good luck to you and just remember were all in this together and hopefully we all get through it with the help and advice on this site Big hugs to you xx

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      Claire can you describe your tiredness? I've been this way for weeks now. " wired but tired" = no sleep. now lightheadness and dizziness.

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      thankyou and yes going to give it another few wks then i might just try the meds anything to stop me being up a 3am most mornings feeling awful

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      hi mary the tiredness is just unreal i wake up feeling 10 times more tired than i went to bed i do suffer from disturbed sleep but even the nights i sleep solid 6 hrs i feel so shattered wen i wake iam so shattered in the afternoon i try and grab a nap but find iam awke in 20mins wired like you, cant be bothered with anything at the min even cleaning is such a chore and i like cleaning and the dizziness is always there i have that on and off for several years but i think the anxiety has made it worse if iam not dizzy then my head feels like its full off bees buzzing around in it hope you feel better soon iam going to try and boost my vitamin levels to see if that works iv found iam worse in the winter and my last bloods show i have nearly 0 vit d so just think i need sunshine prob a month on a desert island might sort me out mentally and physically lol goodluck to you and big hugs xx

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    I can relate to the dizziness and i also have like a heavy head feeling. my anxieties are really bad but im grateful that my dr gave me a med for it and it actually helps

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    I can relate to the dizziness and i also have like a heavy head feeling. my anxieties are really bad but im grateful that my dr gave me a med for it and it actually helps

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      hi .. I have those symptoms as well, especially the anxiety and heavy head feeling... what med are you taking?

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    I know how your feeling, I have terrible anxiety, blurry vision which is worse in the morning, pains in my head and neck, ringing in ears, lightheaded, increased heart rate, I have had lots of tests/scans nothing conclusive, I just can't get my head round hormones causing these symptoms even though lots of women have the same issues. I try and be rational about it but the anxiety takes over. I am living half a life, I feel like a prisoner trapped in my own body. I have had missed several periods but now its only been 24 days there is no pattern. The only plus side is my periods are not as heavy as they used to be.

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    My vision was whacked, I was seeing lightening bolts out the right side of my eye two years ago. Currently when it's really bright outside I will see silver glitter rain and sometimes when I look at my yard the grass starts to shift, one side goes one way and one goes the other split down the middle. I mean, it's no wonder they locked women away in the old days. That sounds pretty psycho.

    I get the bladder thing. I have to make sure to drink a ton of water or I'll start feeling like a bladder infection is coming on. I drink at least two big bottles of water a day if not more.

    Last week I felt so awful, scared me that I would start feeling as poorly as I used to. But yesterday my period came out of nowhere. I feel like its been a few years of torture for sure.

    But i have to remind myself how much better I have gotten since the worse days. And I have to have hope that this nightmare will soon go away. Otherwise it feel hopeless. I hear ya!

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