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Somethings not right

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lisalisa67
lisalisa67

im the everything to everyone. I clean, cook help everyone with their issues do everyone laundry  but no one does it back. I dont think they are even grateful. If i complain i dont feel right it falls on deaf ears. Very hurtful. I have mentioned it, noone cares. They care about themselves. I dont think im seen as a human. Its really mean and rude. How is this? Im moving around with my face tingly and im tired and they are resting or eating and its starting to annoy me. Im only human, they are all adults here.  My husband doesnt say a word, he expects it all and doesnt even care that its all on me.Im like a useful item and only existing to for their needs. I think sometims it burries deep inside me and makes me feel sad. Sometimes i really wonder if this causes me anxiety, very lonely at times to feel so used.

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  • pauline6458
    pauline6458 lisalisa67

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    It's ok to go on strike. But who suffers in the long run.... You!! because it will still be down to you in the end to sort the mess out.. I know exactly what you mean it's like your surrounded by people but extremely lonely.. Sometimes you can have everything but nothing.. Just try to remember... Things will get better.. Big hugs lisalisa67 x
  • richard89308
    richard89308 lisalisa67

    Posted

    sorry you are having a hard time at home. You seem to be the life and soul here too answering all the queries. Try not to overdo things if you can.
    • lisalisa67
      lisalisa67 richard89308

      Posted

      Im okay. Just had a moment there. Thank you for your kind words. i like to  respond, everyone posts in hopes for a response or advice and sometimes it helps and sometimes i can just truely relate. It depends. We are all in this together. 
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