Surgery the big decision
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After arthroscopy following twisting my knee and suspecting a torn meniscus I was told I needed TKR what a shock that came as !
I am 62 years of age 13st 8 lbs ( don't do all that modern metric stuff sorry ) I cycle around 100 miles a week, can run up the stairs no problem apart from a bit of a stinging sensation on thre outer part of my knee just aware of it more than painful
The surgeon gave the knee a rating of 3 whatever that means ?
So to surgery or not, I am of a mind that why go through major surgery with all the possible implications of good/bad outcomes when I am mobile and in little pain if any at all?
The great unknown to me is the speed at which it may deteriorate, weeks months years I have no idea?
I am sole carer for my disabled Mother so surgery would impact on us both
Any input would be greatly appreciated as I am at a loss if to proceed or not
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tess94652 daveuk321
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joy24273 daveuk321
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mary0606 daveuk321
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in my own personal experience, if you can do all that you are doing now, I would hold off. It's not a life threatening condition, so why put yourself through major surgery, when you don't need it right now, usually things do deteriorate then you can decide to do it. It's not a quick recovery and certainly not painless ...
if you can't get around and are in pain all the time then you don't have a choice and usually those people do well as the pain after surgery is less than what they had but if you go into a huge surgery with little pain, I think you'll be disappointed with the results. That's just my opinion,..hope you can come to a decision you are happy with...xx
veronica91735 daveuk321
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On the other hand, 90% are perfectly fine.
It's not a decision to make lightly. Sorry to be a doom & gloomer, but we are (they tell us) fitter much longer into our older age,so maybe you could cope longer. By the way, my 1st consultant, 20 years ago, told me I needed them doing back then, but I would have to beg for the operation before he would do it. I so wish I was still in that county & had him as a surgeon/consutlant!
n26446 veronica91735
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Annodoremouse daveuk321
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kathryn42410 daveuk321
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I can actually argue both sides of this. I am 36 and 11 weeks post TKR.
With little to no pain and really active it's easy and reasonable to leave it for a while, especially as a carer. If I was pain free I certainly would.
However you must bear in mind the sooner you get it done, the easier that recovery should be.
I have had trouble with my knee for a few years following a fall as a student (that's a whole other story but a badly healed crack turned into osteoarthritis, a rapidly crumbling knee and a large cyst pushing everything out of its way). I was turned away with painkillers constantly and frequently told I was too young for a TKR although I really needed one. Long story but I was in awful pain and incredibly debilitated in my movement when I eventually got to the consultant stage....a year (with no holidays and virtually no life) and several cancellations later, I had surgery.
Unfortunately due to the deteriation of the entire leg it has lengthened my recovery. My leg is quite bent still, so much so that I may need further surgery to cut off bits of muscle.
I wish I could of had this done years ago. I know I will need it all doing again at some point but I've been told that as my leg is so bad, I've essentially skipped a few stages (so medically it's like I'm on my third joint). The better condition everything is in, the easier the recovery. That isn't to say it's not incredibly hard at any stage but if it's allowed to worsen, it does have an effect.
Sorry for the long ramble, I just wanted to put my view into context. At least if you're in good health, you have the time to make an informed decision. I don't expect many people to get to such a condition as I was (I got sick of every healthcare professional I saw telling me it was the worst knee they'd ever seen)...for once a younger age worked against someone.
Take care & good luck
Kath
Oldfatguy1 daveuk321
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n26446 Oldfatguy1
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Oldfatguy1 n26446
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patsyrose daveuk321
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susan27029 daveuk321
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I have always been active horse riding, walking, working etc, my knee was deteriorating aches and pains. I stopped riding but could manage everything else I wanted to do, then I stopped long walks but why would I go to the doctors I was in my 50's it's wear and tear and I managed. At the end of the day my knee ached and my husband said about time to check it out.
Like yourself id had no therapies injections etc. the consultant said tkr!!
i asked the question, could I do any more damage by waiting ? My consultant said I would know when I needed painkillers and couldn't do what I wanted to do.
3 years later my leg had started to bow and I was limping but if needed I could have gone on !!
This time the consultant said the best recovery would be now, still able to bring the knee back to its central core.
i have many commitments in my life and tried my best to organise myself a 3 month "time out". My mother who is 85 with good knees - lol lives with me and I am her carer. She will probably be here in 10 years time so when is there ever a good time. My knees won't be here!
i am 2 weeks tkr and it is going to be slow but everything is in place, and this is "my time".
I couldn't change the inevitable but I could decide "when"
hope these posts are helpful to you.
Sue x
martinarvelo daveuk321
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martinarvelo daveuk321
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kathryn42410 martinarvelo
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I've went for the plastic bag tied around my foot option instead...classy I know!
He really was trying to be different.
I think the cycling thing is probably right if someone has a grinding knee issue, I would think following a TKR it would help but I don't have a clue...I learn something new about knees everyday at the minute 😀
sarndra kathryn42410
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I live in Australia & the skateboard is very popular with ou physio's. I found it wonderful as the movement is much smoother . I borrowed one from my grandson when I went home. If you have polished boards, get a carpet off cut to roll it on.