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Tearful ? Is this a common peri menopausal symtom

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debbie12340
debbie12340

Hi again on top of all the anxiety I'm now having really tearful days out of nowhere ? Does any one have this ? Just feel really low . . .

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  • lou63
    lou63 debbie12340

    Posted

    Hi debbie

    I'm not supprised that we have tearful days, menopause is so confusing so many different symptoms that we have never felt before, interrupted sleep, worry as we try to adjust and make sense of it all.

    As for the other things in the B6 B12 I think they are there to be able to make them into a tablet so unless you only ever eat organic or home grown - home baked - home produced food you will be eating them any way!!

    I have not cried for years until last week I was just so fed up with feeling ill for so long I just had a little cry, why shouldn't I.

     

     

  • lou63
    lou63 debbie12340

    Posted

    Hi debbie

    I'm not supprised that we have tearful days, menopause is so confusing so many different symptoms that we have never felt before, interrupted sleep, worry as we try to adjust and make sense of it all.

    As for the other things in the B6 B12 I think they are there to be able to make them into a tablet so unless you only ever eat organic or home grown - home baked - home produced food you will be eating them any way!!

    I have not cried for years until last week I was just so fed up with feeling ill for so long I just had a little cry, why shouldn't I.

     

     

    • jayneejay
      jayneejay lou63

      Posted

      hi Lou 

      😥

      oh hun, it does get better the emotional side of things ..

      sleep ... Ummmm been an bad sleeper for 12 years with this peri and now post meno..  Mine startes a couple of years prior to peri ..

      thats been the worst most severe problem for me ..

      I am not the best sleeper any way..

      its the actual nodding off for me, then cant get head cozy, so am tossing pillows about all night 😓

      your not alone with the lack of sleep, i think i just got use to it now, thriving on minimal hours if sleep .

      jay x 

    • lou63
      lou63 jayneejay

      Posted

      Hi jay

      smile

      Dont get me wrong, as soon as my head hits the pillow I'm asleep, like you I'm tossing and turning all night, I seem to dream alot then the hot flushes wake me!!

      My daughter says I look half dead when I get up in the mornings and thats just about how I feel first thing lol

      take care

      Lou x

       

    • debbie12340
      debbie12340 lou63

      Posted

      Hi Lou

      thank you for your reply sweetheart, I really appreciate it.  Yes it's hardly surprising I supose sad but it's still difficult to deal with.  I used to sleep brilliantly now I keep waking up ? Don't have hot flushes so I'm not sure what's causing it ?  I'm sure your right about the tablets.

      sorry you felt tearful I hope you are feeling a little better today x Debbie x

    • jayneejay
      jayneejay lou63

      Posted

      Hi Lou 

      well i just nipped out .. Its baking here for october ..

      hot flush or what ..

      Tee shirt off .... Phewwww

      These devils came back for me post meno .. 😥

      fine when its cooler .. Its the heat .. Body cool to touch, just on fire from within, as soon as i got in car thats hot inside, thats me .. Flush city 

      Feel fine in myself ( felt sluggish yesterday) but on fire today 😊

      oh well .. you have to crack on dont you..

      i have a fan on all night in bedroom, AC for an hour then the fan, that keeps you cool ..

      oh the joys .. 

      jay xx

       

    • cecilia36444
      cecilia36444 jayneejay

      Posted

      Dear jayneejay, can you please confirm if b12 can give stomach cramps. Actually I started it yesterday and it's been very bad experience for me. I do not know why as when I take b6 it doesn't give me any problems.
    • jayneejay
      jayneejay cecilia36444

      Posted

      Hi hun

      its never caused me cramps.. Never ..

      unless its pure coincidence that you had a cramp at same time after B12 .

      could it be a menstrual cramp or something else perhaps 

      jay x

    • cecilia36444
      cecilia36444 jayneejay

      Posted

      Hello Jayneejay, tell me, do peri symptoms reoccur? Symptoms I experienced keeps going and coming, when will I be Free? Am tired
    • jayneejay
      jayneejay cecilia36444

      Posted

      Hi Celcillia 

      not sure ehat you mean exactly ..

      i had a ten year peri and yes good days and bad days. ..( 10 years of it) 

      post menopause is reached when no period for 12 months ..

      but reaching post menopause doesnt make you feel like your aged 25 again, i am sorry to say 😞

      jay x

       

    • cecilia36444
      cecilia36444 jayneejay

      Posted

      Thank you jayneejay. Have been not so good in the last three days, it has been kind of on and off with back and right hip pains. Had it all good for some days. Can't wait to be whole again and like you said it won't be like when I was 25. Not giving up hope but forging on. Good night
    • jayneejay
      jayneejay cecilia36444

      Posted

      Hi celcilia..

      yes i too had good and bad days, real achey and stiff tense days, 

      then they go for a while then return .. 

      My Vit B6 helped alot for that.. But i still get blip days post meno..

      but it does get better 

      be kind to yourself 

      jay x

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