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Hi I've had this problem for nearly 9 years now. I've been to many different doctors, and I still don't have an answer.
Basically every single time I have sex, that's even if I can have sex, I tear in my vaginal opening. Mainly the bottom part.
It can happen in foreplay, or trying to have sex.
I always make sure I'm lubed up, always go slow, try to be relaxed as possible, and stop when it gets sore. It just seems to tear almost straight away, over the tiniest bit of pressure. Then sometimes it burns when I wee afterwards, as the tears can be quite deep.
I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years, we've both been tested for STDs, I don't have thrush, and the doctors don't seem to be much help.
Even though we can't have sex, we are still sexually active, and have a happy healthy relationship, but as you can imagine not being able to have sex can be frustrating.
I have Different sized dildos to graduate slowly, and still this doesn't help.
So please if anyone knows why this is happening, it would be very very helpful.
I've been through all the obvious things, so maybe something more unusual/not very common is going on?
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