Treating others whilst depressed
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A family member has had some PTSD issues recently and I've been the primary family shrink! This has been exhausting to me so there are times when I disappear when I can.
However it's been clear that I have had terrible depression in the last few years and nobody ever tries to tackle it directly and help. Does any one else feel that people try and use more convenient explanations for it and skirt round it? It feels sometimes like I just want to shout I'm mentally ill, that's the big problem, not all this other nonsense!
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nick34171 andrew41778
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For yourself, you need to see your dr, beginners steps, tell him what you are able to and discuss treatment available to you, Nick.
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mum2angelalex andrew41778
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battling your own issues. It is really important that you share how you
feel with this person and maybe she could reciprocate a little support?
Do not make the mistake of making yourself available on a continuous
basis as this will make her dependent upon you, is there no-one else in
the family you could ask to help out by offering her a shoulder and a
listening ear to her instead of you? Bottling things up heads for disaster and I speak with experience, I hid it from people for so long and ended up experiencing a total breakdown, if you work in a medical environment
then they of all people know the prevalence of mental health problems - we live in a very stressful society!
You are only human and need someone to talk to and need to take care
of yourself not just others. The best way you can help this person is to
get her to help herself.
I experienced first hand how others skirt around the issue, they know
very well that you are depressed but it is far easier for them to pretend
you are not they don't want to address the problem because they simply
don't know how to deal with it. It is far better to talk to those of us who
do understand.
Always here if you need to talk
Sharon x
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mum2angelalex andrew41778
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Go for private therapy 100% and do your homework find someone with a wide approach and lots of experience and cbt is a must! Let us know how you get on.
x
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I'm trying to think of an alternative but it seems like the system is very dangerous for those that require urgent access to a psychiatrist.
Any thoughts or advice.
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mum2angelalex andrew41778
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Do an online search.