Turp, again
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Had a Turp almost 6 years ago. It's a feeling of being raped and you don't know it's happening until after it happens. It happens so fast to you and then it's done. How do men cope with it that have had it done in their late 50's or early 60's? Also can Prostatitis issues bring men into having turps done even though they have urinary issue? In my case I had bladder stones, a prominent middle lobe was discovered during the Turp and my urine flow rate was only 3.2 cc/ sec. Still I had feeling of a" golf ball " which brought me to a decision to have the Turp done. Anyone with similar experiences??? There must be someone who can identify.
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grant66038 steven43881
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I'm not sure what to suggest except to double down on your efforts to sort it. Start with your GP and possibly get your case reviewed by another Urologist, if you are not happy with your current one.
I presume you are monitoring your PSA and getting the occasional fingers/hand in the bum just to make sure nothing else is happening. Prostate Cancer is very common so you shouldn't take your eye off the ball there.
You can also get ultrasound and other investigations including biopsy to investigate the state of the Prostate. I'm not a doctor though but I do know it pays to ask questions and get tests done, if you're not confident that the doctors are doing everything they can to sort the issue.
As you get older testosterone makes the Prostate grow larger so it would be helpful to know the size of your prostate is as well.
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- Steve, the MRI imaging was due to high PSA following LUTS-y type symptoms that came on sudden (checking PSA is good practice in such a case) - I also had years of declining flow before, which I had tolerated as I didn't even know there was a cure - too busy to worry about it most of the time. The routine blood test showed high PSA, that is why I had the MRI. MRI not needed before HOLEP. The other things - renal ultrasound, cystoscopy - are said by uro's to be a good thing to try and figure what's what, diagnose anything (is your bladder mucked up or blocked or something ?) before you go to surgery (do you for instance have a bladder neck issue rather than just a prostatically-constrained urethra; do you need HOBNI rather than HOLEP) - and with the MRI result, help the surgeon plan the holep as he knows as much as poss before (the stricture risk partly relates to how long the procedure takes; the more is known before, the quicker it may be able to do it). Well, that's what he told me. It seemed no bad thing to me to cover these bases, before surgery; it seemed thorough. Cystoscopy just showed prostate pushing up on bladder base, and a slightly spotty urethra which apparently loosely indicates past (or present) prostatitis (he did not say if indicative of bacterial, or the other mysterious sort of chronic prostatitis that is poorly-understood). Looking at the bills (my insurer pays, but sends me letters telling how much it paid), I am quite glad I didn't have to pay for any of it. I haven't yet seen the HOLEP bill. Just got back Holep histology : clear !!
grant66038 steven43881
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It sounds like everything is being done.
The scar tissue could be from the TURP but this would be in just the part of the prostate affected by the TURP.
The important thing is what can they do about it?
I presume the implication is that the scar tissue is causing a problem.
It is pretty tough when these problems occur,for sure. Hopefully they can provide a solution.
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Steve
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I try to send you an anwer yesterday morning, but the system wouldn' let me.
I don't know what the problem is Glen. I'm so frustrated trying to fiqure it out myself. Iv'e been reading alot about bladder stones and that may have originally caused the problem, I don't know. I get so frustrated because the discomfort is so debilitating. It seems like all I do now is spend the day exercising trying to make the discomfort go away. Strecthing. This is not the way I thought retirement was going to be. I had such plans when I was in my 50's. Do you think going back up to New York and talking to the Dr that did the TURP would help at all? He is getting ready to retire now and when I tried to call him around half year ago, he wouldn't return my call. The thinking being is " if he's the one who did the Turp, then he's the only one who would no what the problem is. No other Dr. would know what to do because their not the ones who did the Turp on me. Therefore they wouldn't understatnd what the problem is". Is that good thinking, Grant? Can another urologist help me where the urologist up in NY who did the Turp can't?
I would like your feedback
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grant66038 steven43881
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I would recommend your GP who knows you as the first port of call. A GP may be able to prescribe medication, for instance, Oxybutynin which reduces bladder spasms. A competent doctor should also be able to recommend a Urologist that he trusts in the area that you live.
A specialist should return your call, if you phone them. The problem is if you live a long way away now, his recommendation might well be to see him again. This might be impractical and costly.
I'd definitely start with your GP, try to experiment to get something prescribed that will relieve the discomfort and maybe organise a different Urologist. If it gets bad enough, you can always go to the ER. It seems to be you've been a bit too brave, bravery and suffering aren't always rewarded. Snivelling cowards like me who go crying to their doctors, probably get more attention!
steven43881 grant66038
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I'm getting a lot of spasms or contractions down there and I just don't know what to do 6 1/2 years into this turp. Did you have any problems after your procedure was done? I feel uncomfortable down there. I don't feel the same. By the way, your not a coward. Do you feel any different post turp than you did before. I'm trying the pelvic floor procedure right now and it's helping a little bit but after 6 yrs. I'm impatient. If indeed this is scar tissue.
Your feedback is helping me a lot. It's nice to hear from someone who has had similar experiences such as I In regards that you had turp done also. I assume it's a classic turp with the loop you had done. I was given no other alternative and it happened back in 2009.
Thanks for staying with me Grant,
Steve
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Just an observation. I read another advertisement about a prostate formula and I was just wondering why you and I had the turp done. If there are so many men being helped by these new medicines why were we not given the chance to try one. It seems as if our Drs. pushed us into this Turp so to speak. If there are so many men out there being heped by these formulas why couldn't we be one of them. I just read another advertisement that came through my email and I look at all the men who are older than you and I and I wonder why could they be helped and not us. Is it that their ship came in and ours didn't. I guess my pain doesn't make things much better. I'm sorry to rant like this, Grant. When I see older men who are happy and have there prostate problems solved with a pill AND I think of what you and I have gone through it makes me mad. I'm sorry, but I wish we were given more options before we had the surgery done. I may have been better off and not going through the pain I am going through. I just so much want to get on with my life. I hope you will not be angry by what I have just said. I need to get this off of my chest. I wonder why I wasn't given this option.
Steve
grant66038 steven43881
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I don't think that the doctor necessarily did anything wrong. I mean, sure, maybe he did but maybe not either. You may just have more than one issue.
There are always people selling bogus cures. There are good tablets for treating urinary flow issues but they only work up to a point. If the restriction is severe enough then they won't do the job. In my case I took tablets for several years, maybe longer, before deciding it was time for the TURP. The stats for the TURP are very favourable and for most people the operation is relatively uneventful and it fixes the flow issues.
I think you just need to press on getting it investigated.
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