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ultradian bi polar

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bassett
bassett

My husband has ultradian bi polar it has just had this new name give by usa and uk nhs it means that he has the normal waves of up and down BUT in any24hr period rapid changes as well they peak up or down according to main wave pattern so very hard to live with as even with meds to do not know what comes next

he has had it for over 30years in the begining no real name but  it was labeled in the 90s they used the term bi polar

he has been one the same meds for over 10 years and is as stable as possible we have learnt to live with the changes in his moods.

Ajust and cope are my motto

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  • BraunWynn
    BraunWynn bassett

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    Hello Bassett,

    Yes, it is very difficult to be in a relationship with partners who have mental illness. I am bipolar 1, rapid cycler and I admire your dedication to your partner. My mental illness ravaged any good judgement and relationships that I ever knew I had. Last year I was finally diagnosed and treated.

    Your partner is a very lucky man to have you!

    My esteem is depleated and I would not want to bring a significant other into my life because of my disease and the fall out from it. It is really nice to see you are together and didn't abandon him.

    Best of health and sunnier days for you both.

    • bassett
      bassett BraunWynn

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      How about trying to concentrate not on the illness but the times when you feel well and get out and do something different

      My husband has the garden and growing flowering plants seem to help,he loves watching the birds and the weather changing i remind him the even rain is needed for things to grow

      I expect getting the right meds has helped a lot, keep in close contact with your doctor as often changes in lifestyle etc can mean the meds need tweeking

      Best Wishes

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