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Omg did i have the night from hell i was in terrible pain all over and only managed 1and half hours sleep because of the pain and the other day i lost my balance and hit my toes againts my steps and have maged to break two of them so more pain as well so not good and on top of that i accused my very carring hubby of having an affair i think im getting too parnoid its because the last 6 months i have lost intrestin all sexual things can anyone tell me if this hashaoened to them and how can i get some of that back i know my hubby says it doesnt bother hime but hes always making sexual jokes like if i say things like can you put this in so i think hes frustratedand i dont blame him so how can i get that back as i love hubby so much yet scared i might drive him away so having a very low day and still in terribe pain thanks for listening x
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grahammolyneux cherl450
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I have also managed to injury myself almost two weeks ago now, I slipped when getting off my sofa and the arm went straight into my ribs then dislocated my shoulder which reignited all my pains. The sexual issue from the reverse direction is always going happen as all of us are in pain know all to we'll. When you get low and in a lot of pain your mind starts to go mad and think up all these things so chin up and for all of us lots hope that we can find a way to control our pain a bit better at the very least
cherl450 grahammolyneux
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Och you poor thing i bet that hurt hope your healing now yesi agree i just hope i can get my pain under controland thanks hun i feel so bad of accusing him as he really is a wonderful carring husband and does alot for me and im always thanking him and telling him that i really appreicate all that he does for me, we have been married 20 years now so hes put up alot with me but i still feel young at 51 i used to be so active as i was a dance teacher now i feel life has wized by me but many thanks
love and peace
Cherl
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love and peace always
cherl xx
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I know the feeling well and thanks hun i wouldnt say im worse than you its this horrible thing we have with our other problems and makes us feel bad i hope you feel a bit better soon sending all my love to you and thanks for being there really appreicated
love and peace always
Cherl
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peace and love
Cherl x
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thoughts with you and take care xxxxx
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Thanks for your kind thoughts yes it is hard but life goes on and theres people alot worse than me and i wish them all the best and wishing you all the best yet again thanks
love always
Cherl
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tiswas24537 cherl450
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at least it sounds like your husband is understanding.
we are back on track now but its still hard
spend more time together laughing , increase magneisum and that will help with your sex drive well it did mine. if you cant take internaly buy some in the form of oil and apply topicaly , night and morning[does sting a bit ] this will also help with pain . magneisum flakes also added to a bath will ease stiffness and pain.
i also take q10 b12 vitdk2 and colidual gold . which all pay there part .
i am not pain freebut it helps as does massage why not see if he will give you a gentle massage before sex .then have a warm bath after . thats what i do .
hope this helps a little .
cherl450 tiswas24537
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Glad your back on track now and thanks for the advice will give it a go
lots of luck
Cherl x
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like you my hair is fallen out almost too scared to brush it , my hubby is a ladies man also but thats just him unlike you i used to be a big girl size 20 in clothes now for some reason the weight is fallen off me rather fastim now in clothes size 14 and thats just been in last two moths yet i eat 3 meals a day but i mainly eat fish and salad apart from two days where one is my sunday roast and the other is a junk food day but i dont eat anything after 6pm as i will feel bloated but because of the loose skin and pain and arthritis and no sex drive at all doesnt help, buti will take note of everyones suggestions and try them wishing you all the best speaksoon
Love and peace
Cherl
tiswas24537 cherl450
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magneisum improves your sexdrive
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did you know that some jewish women have all there hair shaved of when they marry and have to wear wigs all there lives . find that i bit confussing . .
cherl450 tiswas24537
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i wouldnt shave my hair off for no man mind you i have a bold spot on my head so mayby i should look at nice wigs lol i have a sentive bladder so embrassing but hey ho its our live take care to both of you xxxxx
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grahammolyneux dee01002
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I have put my wife off in this area but when we do manage slowly is the key but we do end up with a bit of a high speed finish. ....but I do have to say by the time we have finished I am absolutely finished.
I sometimes end up feeling like I can't catch my next breath and this is with me taking the easiest option of lying on my back.(I used to be on top)
What I have to say is that I liked to an hour or two with bedroom activities and since the onset of fibro I now manage twenty minutes every 3 months instead of every week at the very least and that is down to me having so much pain and my wife not wanting to hurt me.
I hope that this has come over the right way...😕
cherl450 grahammolyneux
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yes hun that has comeover the right way and thankyou for you kind message last time we made love like you i needed the finish to be done quick and i was in that much pain that my gp had to come out and give me injection so maby this is playing on my mined and put me off so i needto try when im not too bad my problem is finding that right momnet as im having problems keeping pain under control.
With love and peace always
Cherl
cherl450 tiswas24537
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I hope it does work for you and it makes you feel better my problem is that althought ive been diagnosed with fibro they are also checking meout for Ms as my syptoms seem like alot of Ms so ill keep you posted hope all goes well
love and peace
Cherl
grahammolyneux cherl450
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I sometimes wonder if it would be better that way as the Dr's here don't have enough experience with fibro to help me the way I need it
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hope you have a nice day.
cherl450 grahammolyneux
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Cherl x
tiswas24537 cherl450
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i know theres help through the medical proffession to get help in this area i know its a bit emabarrising but maybe u could ask your gp about it
i know when people have cancer they get advice on how to keep your relationship going.sorry its a bit vague , worth a try ,
tiswas24537 grahammolyneux
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then it went into remission , till she was 45 and came back really bad.
but i do get what you mean iv said simulair things which is wrong i know but you just get so frusrted with this condition, doctors often think your swinging the lead and other people think your winging on about a few aches and pains .
i wish everyone who thought that could have fibro for 6 months and see just how much it impats on there lives . but tell someone you have cancer you get all the understanding and support in the world and know one calls you a winger. keep loving and giving your best thats all you can do . i am sure your wife understands .i went 4 yrs with out sex sleeping in seperte rooms i know how hard it is when you still have a sex drive but everything hurts so bad u just cant be bothered . but we are back on track now but like you and yours its not often and sometimes i just want it over . the slightest wrong move and i could be in pain for weeks .kinda puts you off. wish you well hope things improve for you
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thanks for that will do
Cherl hope you wife is as well as she can be i know its hard as my late mother died of ovrian cancer so wish ing both all the best xxxx
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hope it dosent come to another hun .
grahammolyneux cherl450
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The Consultant told her last month that he doesn't need to see her again which is a big milestone and she is now on the committee for raising funds for a ne cancer centre on the Isle of Man which was sort of forgotten about when our Government built our nice new hospital.
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please dont be ofended i was agreeing with you .
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love to you both
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