What does it feel like to have Klinefelters' syndrome?

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Another contributor wishes to discuss what it feels like to have Klinefelters' syndrome, so I thought I'd start a discussion on that topic, see what comes of it?

I'd like to be able to choose XXY as a place to put this discussion, then we can chat about what it feels like to be fat, or to have gynaecomastia, or to be sterile, and any other disease associated with being XXY.

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    In reply to XXYGuy's question about what does it feel like to have Klinefelter's Syndrome, until last year, at the age of 47 I didn't even know that I'm 47XXY! As it has been clearly noted recently, if you don't have the symptoms, you don't have KS. I think possibly some of the symptoms were there but it wasn't detected until I wanted to have a child. I have always been tall but so were both of my grandfathers so being tall was not something that anybody suspected to categorize me as KS. I reached puberty at eleven and started having facial and pubic hair by 13 or 14. I was always very playful in school and where I was growing up, it was normal for boys to be mischievous. My testicle size according to a fertility doctor are of normal size. Early on in college, I used to donate sperms to a local sperm bank close to my college; the sperm count and quality were decent enough to be called to do more donations but never a genetic testing was performed at the time. 

    Since I've found out about my condition a year ago checking, I've gone through a Micr-Tese surgery were biopsies multiple biopsies of testies were performed, I've done blood tests to check for testosterone, FSH, and LH for which the level of testosterone has been in the 50 range when for a normal XY individual my age it should be between 350 and 1250 therefore have been using Axiron (topical gel) to get a booster of this hormone. I have never had gynocomastia, my shoulder's length has been broader than my waist, I have decent amount of muscles around my shoulder and other areas, I've always been skinny.

    Psychologically, it's been very tough on me to learn about my condition. The hardest hit recently has been my lack of energy possibly due to testosterone level and the fact that I always loved to go to school but realizing now that I suffered from learning disabilities (possibly dyslexia and ADD/ADHD, I still have to study these more and find remedies). While in university I never did any homework but managed to get my degree; sometimes I had to repeat some of the classes. Recently I have been told that many XXY people also have mitral valve abnormalities so I have been recommended to see a cardiologist to do an echo of my heart. Has anybody else have had their heart checked for any abnormalities?

    I have to admit that having someone to talk to like XXYGuy has helped my psyche quite a bit and am very thankful for his candid openness about this topic.

    In the past ten months I have had many depressing moments and a few times I broke out crying and couldn't stop. Embarrassingly a few times at work and just last week in front of my wife for which I was trying hard to hide because she's going through IVF. Overall as I'm learning more about my condition, I'm becoming more at ease with it but deep down I ask myself and God, "Why me, did you choose to give this condition? Why did I have to be the lucky one?" But then again, I think, overall in many of the conditions out there, we have been lucky in the sense that we can have a normal life; there are variations and conditions that are very drastic that end up in institutions or need 24/7 care.

     

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      I can make an attempt to answer part of your question Kirk, the 'why me' part.  Now there just happen to be a certain group of XY males out there who are infertile because their Y chromosome has substantive parts missing that they inherited from their father, they can only have inherited that defective Y from their father, of course.  The Y chromosome is highly specialised, its two main functions being the creation of males and the creation of sperm.  If there are other functions for the Y I'm all ears. biggrin

      So why do perfectly healthy males produce Y chromosomes that are defective?  They have to be prefectly healthy as if they weren't they wouldn't be breeding, naturally.  And if you look into the genetics of being alive, what makes humans human, or indeed what makes life, life, you can see just how intricate and complicated life really is.  It only stands to reason that from time to time of all the gazillions of gametes made by perfectly healthy parents, that some will indeed be defective in some way.

      Modern fertility techniques give a glimmer of hope to XXY males, and XXY females, that they may be able to become parents themselves, but XY males with a defective Y can only pass on another defective Y should they use ICSI.  Our addintional chromosome defect is only for our generation, but defective Y males are for all generations.  As far as I know females with an additional Y have no automatic fertility issues.

      So the answer is CHANCE.  That's a best guess since no age predisposition like Trisomy 21 (Down Syndrome) has been detected.  Any parent of any age can by chance produce a gamete that is fertilised that contains an addition X or Y (for males) chromosome. Therefore the prepondance of producing defective gametes must be very high in order for there to be some that are actually used in fertilisation, that brought about you, and me, and them.

      The god concept or myth can be ustilised to give order to the mind.  Yes there can indeed be great benefit psychologically to those who have defective children, and those who have defective genes, or additional chromsomes, and also have INTELLIGENCE.  Only intelligent beings have a god concept.  Going right back to the Stone Age, and before, we can see a god concept for humans  Needing to have some mythical being in charge that ordains all life is a very old human tradition.  

      If people want to put everything on the back burner and never consider just how intricate, and delicate, and complicated, even the most simplest forms of life there is, they can by adopting the 'god concept.'  God did it it, god caused it, god created it, the perfect answer. Because alluvial gold and silver is found in rivers and streams, if we sacrifice gold and silver objects to those rivers and streams we're appeasing the gods that put them there!  We don't even need to consider techtonic plate movements, upheavals & mountain formation!

      So, in my opinion, the god concept counters knowledge.  It leads people to beleive there is a reason for life, other than the obvious, evolution.  People cry out for explanation to a god concept, and find nothing as nothing is the reason, when the created transpose intelligence into a natural process, that is ordered by chance.

      The question then stops being 'why me?' and starts being 'why not me?'    

           

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      Sorry for not replying back sooner as I'm sure it's been over a year coming to this site. I see that you're still going strong communicating with people here, some in need as you were extremely helpful to me and some to argue. Since my last showing here, I went through three different brands of testosterone as my testosterone level was at an all time low of 18 (compared to the minimum normal of 350 to 1200). While taking any brand or form of testosterone, I realized I'm not only more tired but also my muscles are in a constant state of spasm to the point that walking one block of a 30-meter street would cause agonizing pain. So obviously I made an executive decision and said to myself I'll take the risks of osteoporosis and the other side effects that has been published for tests on XY men with testosterone deficiencies. I guess life will tell me if I will ever have osteoporosis as a result of low testosterone. To tell you the truth my energy level has gone back to normal (at least for me) and I work three jobs (one full-time and two part-times) aside from recently being blessed with a son. 

      I wish if there is a convention or gathering of some sort to one day meet you in person.

      i have to say that I still experience reading disabilities but as my wife puts it when I read blogs here or something that interests me, I am alert and remember the cases without having to re-read over and over again. When I used to read science textbooks there were evidence of dyslexia and I needed to read a page over and over again until I could remember a few things.

      As I read newer blogs, here, I still like your approach in answering people's questions and I tend to agree with you every comment I read.

      Keep it up sir and once again thank you. You put my head back on the track of life.

       

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    JOKING?? u think they mite be joking? I have just gotten out of hospital today becos some doctor was joking and put me in there for experiementation!!!!!! I have had testosterone injections forced upon me..i ididnt know what they were till after..an as soon as I found out, i signed myself out of hospital!! If this is a joke im not laughing.
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      I don't know of any woman who wants testosterone.  I know of Transmen who take testosterone though.  

      My doctors name is John delahunt, he works at Wellington Public Hospital, Newtown, Wellington, New Zealand.  I've known John since I was 17.  He didn't start me on testosterone therapy until after I was 18, after I became legally adult and able to refuse, or accept, as I so chose without needing parental consent.  My doctor was very reluctant to use full dose testosterone therapy, starting me of such a low dose I didn't even notice it.  His other reason for waiting was that my body was not showing signs of testicular failure, hence no symptoms of Seminiferous Tubule Dysgenesis.  My balls were functioning until October that 18th year!

      So I have no experience of testosterone therapy being offered to people who don't say they want it. 

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      I DONT want testosterone.. but the drs can do what they want here, if they think its in the patients best interests, regardless of if they want it or not. I have refused to go back to the hospital becos of the injections they gave me ..which they said would help my problem, but they didnt explain in what way or what it actually was. .. I have been called fat... see profile picture.. i have never thought myself as fat but apparently 55kg is overweight if youre only 165cm tall. Im sorry i dont know what it is in pounds or feet etc cos we have only metric here.
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      No they can't, doctors in Australia have to abide by certain rules of proper conduct, no matter who the patient is, or how the patient presents.   

      Klinefelters' syndrome is not a notifiable disease, nobody has ever been forced into hospital for threapy to treat hypogonadism!  

      Nobody has ever been forced to have testosterone therapy, although I expect there's the odd teenage boy who had the choice taken from him with his parents assuming all control.

      Such situations always end in disaster as the boy rebels as soon as he hits 18, and then slowly but surely succumbs to hypogonadism, which is why doctors do not force hormnone therapy on anybody. Doctors want willing patients who take their medicine, they don't want a constant fight that saps energy and achieves nothing!  That's the sort of thing controlling partents do, not smart doctors!

      We only have metric in New Zealand too!   I would not call a 55kg adult 'fat' unless she were 4 feet tall!  180cm is roughly 6 feet, so 165 cm is roughly 5'4"  'Google is your friend!'  I'm 5'9" and I weigh a lot more than 55kg!  I don't think I have ever weighed less than 65kgs as an adult!

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      i dont know what to say... i do not think i have Klinefelters Syndrome.. but i have been told over and over again that i do and that i am a Male!!! I cant identify with that becos i know i am Female and have always been so, as far as I know. The endocrinologist i am seeing at Flinders Medical Centre in Adelaide tells me i must have had either a sex change operation performed at birth becos i was hermaphrodite or i underwent a a sex change later at puberty...which i hotly denied. I told him I had periods as a girl and to show me which men did this..he refused to believe me, saying i probably had a mental problem and was making it all up becos in my head i couldnt handle it!!! oh yeah ...sure, that must be it .... lol .............. I am now in the process of trying to backtrack my hospital records from 25 years ago when i underwent my total hysterectomy to see what in the actual records about it and myself. All i was told at the time was that if  i didnt have the operation i would die becos i had a  cancerous growth in my uterus ( yes they said i had one) which was making its way up my fallopian tubes... and that i was XXY which apparently was caused by me been a twin inside my mother before i was born and i somehow absorbed him and his DNA.. I believed this at the time mainly becos i knew nothing about it and becos drs told me an i was young and naive.. drs tell me now this is impossible.. hence i am trying to recover these records. I thank you for all your information and help. And i will say that i wasnt forced to take testosterone but i was misled as to what the injections were. I would sue the hospital and therefore also the government if i could get a lawyer to take it on as i myself have not a lot of money. The hospital is a government run one so in effect i would be suing them and we all know where that gets ya.......... nowhere.,
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      I'll reply again later. Give me the name of this crackpot Endocrinologist and I'll have mine steer him/her inthe right direction.  I can't imagine any doctor being so ignorant of recent geentic findings than the one you're referring to.  The link I gave you regarding another XXY female written of by Dr Milton Diamond ought to go some way in getting your moron to see sense!
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    I have read all others symptoms of this syndrome on this discussion. I have all of them except for the actual body bits. I have a mitral valve heart defect since birth, i knew of this since age 20 but didnt know it had anything to do with me been xxy as i didnt know i was then. When i gain weight i gain it only around the middle area so i just look pregnant. its  not a beer gut but looks like one. I am skinny everywhere else an at the moment I am flat there also.  I have small breasts compared to my big "swimmers"shoulders lol. when i work out i gain muscle in form of biceps, and toned abs..almost a six pack lol so i gave up working out as ppl just laughed
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      Klinefelters' syndrome is a collection of symptoms indicative of the disease Seminiferous Tubule Dysgenesis, without seminiferous tubules at birth, you can't have Klinefleter's syndrome, and I can argure that is an XXY male is castrated he can be 100% cured of Klinefelters' syndrome, although it would only be a technicality as XXY males actually with KS have redundant testicles anyway!

      I'm not aware of mitral valve defect being part of KS, and since KS can't develop until after the onset of puberty, it's impossible as the MVD is present from birth. Nobody was ever born with KS, although there are plenty with KS who think they were born withy it, and their doctors too!

      Central obesity, both my parents had central obesity, neither of them were XXY, my sister has central obesity, and she's not XXY, and I have it too, developed it after I stopped working so hard, exercising altogether actually.  Exercise reduces, even prevents obesity.  Genetics does not cause obesity, lifestyle does.  Even people with Prader-Willi syndrome are obese because they eat too much and exercise too little.  If we all ate less and exercised more we'd all lose weight.

      Oh and I met a woman on Facebook who just added me to her KS page without asking, and before she knew my stance, we're not fat (those of us who are) because of out genetics but because we eat too much and exercise too little.  Her son is XXY and fat, and he's fat because she fed him too much, and didn't get him exercising enough. The whole family is fat too, but only her son is fat because he has KS, a prepubertal boy!  Prepubertal boys can't get KS, is a post onset of puberty set of symptoms.

      So she blocked me from her group as I won't be changing my mind, or facts, just because they don't fit with the commonly held misunderstandings.

      See my profile picture, that's me, sucking my belly in.

      If you read through here you'll discover XXY males who were even fertile, there is no symptom of KS that can be said to be indicative except Seminiferous Tubule Dysgenesis.

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    Im sorry that nobody seems to be able to answer my questions of whether i could be a Klinefelters Syndrome Female, becos thats what the drs here are calling me and they want to experiment with various medications including testosterone injections so they can write about me in the medical books. i have been to several hospitals including a training hospital with medical students "practising" on me, also laughing at me and making rude jokes about me. One doctor even said i could undergo voluntary euthanasia if i really wanted to and becos of my condition it would be accepted in the medical and legal system........ I TOLD HIM WHERE TO GO. I have no desire to die. I have no desire to be a man. I wish i had never heard of all of this, but i have and cant change that and therefore cannot forget about it. And besides, every doctor i see brings it up again!!!!!
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      I have answered all your questions.  You don't have Klinefelters' syndrome, only males can develop Klinefelters' syndrome, end of story. I even provided you with a link to a report about an XXY female who PhD Dr Milton Diamond refers to as having Klinefelters' syndrome, so if you want some kind of moral support he can give it, I'm sure he'll be delightred to.  PhD doctors, what do they know!

      The major symptom of Klinefelters' syndrome is Seminiferous Tubule Dysgenesis, otherwise knows as 'atrophied testes' and females don't have testes so how can you possibly have Klinefelters' syndrome?  Oh you think you were told by some doctor that 'you have testes in tghere somewhere' well I think you're mistaken,  it is simply not possible to have opposite 2 sets of functioning gonads, and you have ovaries!

      It is possible to be a hermaphrodite and have 2 ovaries and a testi, or two testes and an ovary, but those people get pretty sick and are admitted to hospitals in extreme pain, needing urgent surgery.  Errant gonads tend to cause major problems as the testes are contantly on the move looking for that elusive scrotum to migrate to, which is not possible in a female. And males with ovaries have no good luck as being immune to oestrogen like AIS females do in being immune top testosterone. They develop pretty damn quickly female secondary sex characteristics, which may or many not, get them diagnosed before they get terribly ill?

      The medical profession really isn't all that good at discovering sex related medical conditions.  Those of us who have been diagnosed ought to count ourselves as bloody lucky!  

      And what you say, is so far away from my experince, I cannot relate to it.  Maybe a group for the Transgendered is better for you? 

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    Dont worry about replying it seems nothing can be done anyway. I will try and figure it out on my own....thanks for responding in first place...... have a nice day, and dont ever migrate to OZ if you value your own life ..............LOL (anybody different they single out and make a mockery of you, not just drs ..the pppl here too are like this) 
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      Well I used to live in Australia and I knoiw full well how racist most Australians really are, even their laws are racist!

      So everything you say is 100% true is it?  Yeah I've heard it all before, every year another person comes along with some, well outside what they think is strange, account, and it isn't. XXY females are well documented in medical literature, all you have to do is look for it.  I don't have to look, I know it's there.

      So as that doesn't get my attention as expected the story has to get more and more strange, and I'm supposed to say "Ohh wow"  and I don't, I just think of the claims made and compare them to my experience.  My experience is one of not being treated with testosterone to the best extent.  That XXY guys are often all lumped together as if they really are all the same, all requiring the same level of therapy regardless of how they actually respond.

      So I could go along to my named doctor for years, and even though I showed no sign of physical maturity, he did not think to increase my dose, as I was getting the  maximum dose the medical profession had decided was appropriate for XXY males!

      I've come by XXY men who have strange stories to tell, maybe you'll discover them too, they do live in Australia after all!  Men who claim their doctors didn't know the type of testosterone they were taking couldn't be measured in a standard blood test!  Men who claimed they were forced to have hormone therapy, men who claimed when they requested female hormones were denied them.

      However my experience and my discussion with doctors here, in Australia, in America, in Canada, in Britain, all come to the same result, NOBODY is forced to take hormone therapy.  The medical profession is reluctant to give testosterone to anybody.

      But like the XXY men in Australia you're different.  There's no doubt about it, everything you say, and they say, is the god honest truth. So you'll be delighted, as they were (not really) to tell us the names of the doctors who treated them, and where they work/ed, who forced them to have surgery and hormone therapy, and ruined their lives?

      If you want to believe you have KS, believe it, feel free, tell as many as you like, but  don't expect everyone on the planet to believe you. It would be an outrageous imposition on logic and common sense.  Only males can have Klinefleters' syndrome.  Adult females are supposed to have breast tissue, and of course you know Gynaecomastia is a symptom of KS, and Gynaecomastia is not found in femles, for them the 'condition' is called 'Breasts!'  Females also have pubic hair in the triangle female fashion, so do untreated XXY males.  And fat distribution in the female form they also get when they're not treated.  It's not really any wonder some of them think they're more female than other males.  So would it be very strange for a woman with XXY sex chromosomes to think she has KS when some of the symptoms of KS are the normal body formation of females?  No I don't think so!

      And if your doctors really are doing and saying as you claim, I'd sue them.

       

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