Why do I feel so unwell all the time?
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I suffer from depression and anxiety, and while I know that these are major factors in affecting general health and wellbeing I am beginning to feel so fed up with feeling unwell all of the time.
I'm so drained and exhausted all the time, I have constant pallor, dark circles under my eyes, terrible dry and flaky skin and my face is covered in red blotches, scabs and blemishes. My hair is so thin and frail it breaks when I brush it and it just always looks flat and dull. Sometimes when I am out walking around, I feel breathless, I drag my feet like my legs are weighed down, lightheaded or like there is a pressure in my skull, or that I'm carrying a block of lead inside my abdomen. I feel sniffley, I go from perspiring excessively to getting chills through my spine. And my muscles ache and 'tenderize' very easily, like my body is constantly in a dull state of pain. I often come home after a day out and have barely enough energy to drag myself upstairs and collapse on my bed and my body almost throbs from fatigue, I can feel every pulse pounding through me because my heart rate is so high. As a woman I also suffer from terribly heavy and painful periods that take a massive toll on my health, and leave me bedridden for at least 2-3 days every month and I still never feel like I completely recover afterwards.
I have tried absolutely everything over the years- specialized diets, exercising regularly, taking vitamins and supplements, holistic treatments and self help books- but I can never seem to feel completely healthy. I have maybe one week out of every couple of months when I feel 'good' but I can rarely enjoy it thinking about when it will end. I'm starting to wonder if there is something really wrong with me under the surface that I have been missing, but my symptoms are so broad and vague I have no idea where to start considering what it could even be.
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated, thankyou to those who take the time to read this
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Helen40
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Are you going through the menopause ? Please get back to me
pamela36226 Helen40
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I'm 73 have been like this for soon time now I wake up with headaches in the night and nausea feeling I have had a head MRI scan and it normal
holly47
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I'm 25 so definitely not going through the menopause. I have discussed several of my individual symptoms with different doctors in the past, such as my skin health and my painful periods, and have simply been given treatment/advice on them as and where it was needed. But I have never raised a concern about my overall feeling of ill-health with a GP, neither have I ever had any kind of tests done to determine any underlying conditions.
Helen40
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Obviously I dont know your own particluar circumstances but make today the start of getting some answers and improving things .
I think you need to look at the endometriosis websites , have you heard of endometriosis , this could be something you may be suffering with , please look on line at the various organisations ! Theres lots of information available and support , let me know how you get on
Kind regards
holly47
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I haven't had any formal blood tests done before, I used to give blood about a year ago and the nurses would sometimes pick up I was low on iron and therefore couldn't donate, but that's about the only thing. I have looked into different disorders relating to thyroid and hormones and they both sound like something I could look into as they generally seem to fit what I'm going through.
Otherwise I have also heard of endometriosis and did a fair bit of research on it in the past because I was looking for answers to my abnormal periods. The doctors before told me that it was all 'normal' and I could maybe consider getting a coil fitted which might alleviate some symptoms. But I believe there is no way to tell if it is endo without them going in surgically, so I doubt there is a chance they will do that unless they think I am seriously suffering.
Anyway I will definitely look into getting some tests done, if only to put myself at ease because I need answers really.
Thanks again for your advice!
Helen40
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Good luck
marmarc43
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holly06685
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vicky251 holly47
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The problem of depression and anxiety is due to hectic work life in modern days if you are into a job you should take a few days rest, if you are a student you should stay at home and away from books for 1-2 days. This will help you get back to your routine lifestyle.
laura2707 holly47
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joy47826 holly47
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Thyroid is a big one as our adrenals. Sounds like you've got those symptoms.
I'm old 76 and deal with narley arthritis but finally got my thyroid "fixed" after a 10 yr struggle there. So Many don't get properly supported for their thyroid.
Vit D3 is vital as many are deficient unless in so much SUN that they get plenty of Vit D.
Grape Seed Extract a powerful antioxidant has been saving me for the last 19 yrs, my immune system is good and strong. J
jayde45204 holly47
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joy47826 holly47
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There are many doses of iron from 18mg up to 50mg, I buy the 50mg tab which is ferrous furmarate but I buy all my supps on line....don't take it daily but probably a couple times per week to get the ferritin up higher....
Iron needs to be taken AWAY from calcium too...
Iron can constipate and that is not good, so for me daily magnesium in higher doses keeps me all around regular. Plus helps with joint and heart health too.
It takes work to keep healthy. And we need to do our work and use docs for labs etc....
ann82027 holly47
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Spudman holly47
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I'm a male in my forties, and know too well that something isn't quite right. I know of the fatigue, the changes mentally, etc. It really impacts one's life where you're doing just enough to stay alive.
One day at a time...
lisa326 Spudman
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