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Why does everyday have to feel like this?

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becky53379
becky53379

Hello, Im so tired of feeling like I live in a nightmare! The mental part and panic that comes over me sometimes is too much! I always have to read old post to make sure that I am not loosing it sad I hope that everyone is doing well today! Praying for all of us day and night smile

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  • christine48435
    christine48435 becky53379

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    I do the same thing. I honestly do believe after a certain point of having every diagnostic procedure done come back negative we should be able to not panic every time. I am working on that since I have had literally everything done you can have done and it is negative.

    but mostly I panic first. 

    • becky53379
      becky53379 christine48435

      Posted

      Hi Christine, Wow so all of you test have come back fine?! Thats a blessing. I know that when I first started feeling this way I was hoping it was something physical so that the doctor could fix it and get over it. Nope lol! This awful peri that wants to push me to the limit....ugh! The panic is a terrible symptom for sure! Hope you are having a good day. Take care!
    • christine48435
      christine48435 becky53379

      Posted

      Yes Becky! First I had an endometrial biopsy and TVU, which showed the large fibroid. Then, with the next workup, I had TVU, which showed the fibroid, and hysteroscopy and D&C, which revealed no atypia of any kind. The next workup was another TVU that again showed the fibroid and a negative endometrial biopsy. All labs are normal and show menopausal levels of the FSH. I think sometimes we just don't follow the typical pattern and they don't know why.

       

    • Melanie0680
      Melanie0680 christine48435

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      Christine, Why did you go have these procedures done. Were you having heavy bleeding? What is FSH. Sorry I am new to these forums and I am having first time ever issues and wondering what to do. 

       

    • 2chr2015
      2chr2015 christine48435

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      Christine, you sound just like me. I dread going to doctors. I'm just getting started with all this...the doctors look at me like I have 2 heads! Why don't they teach them about this in med school? I get so frustrated. I have a nursing degree and I think all we learned was period stops and hot flashes! I will stop my rant...but everytime I think I'm ok another symptom pops up. Now I've got something that I can't find on any meno board. Of course doctor says it's fine. Hugs and prayers to everyone

  • michelle46271
    michelle46271 becky53379

    Posted

    Hi Becky

    It's awful I know. I never ever thought the mental part was so so bad as it is in perimenopause. The racing thoughts,the panic attacks and terrible anxiety. Sending hugs to you xx

    • becky53379
      becky53379 michelle46271

      Posted

      Thank you Michelle smile Im hoping this part doesnt last until I reach post menopause. I hope that you are having a good day.

    • Natterjacktoad
      Natterjacktoad becky53379

      Posted

      I'm the same. Having a bad day with it today. I constantly feel as though I'm producing adrenaline although I have nothing specific to worry about! It's exhausting. I too feel like I'm going mad. 

    • becky53379
      becky53379 Natterjacktoad

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      Hello, Im sorry that you are having a bad day today....that was how I woke up yesterday sad I know that feel of adrenaline....its strange isnt it? I am trying to fight that off now. I usually go for a walk when I feel that way. What do you do for those feelings? Btw you are not going mad, supposedly everthing that we are feeling is normal.....doesnt always feel that. I hope that your day gets better. Praying for you and for all of us on here.

    • colleen90305
      colleen90305 becky53379

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      Getting up in the morning is the worst. I think to myself,, another day in peri and I just want to stay in bed all day. I have a hard time doing simple things in the morning. I cried a bit at the morning meeting at work because I'm sick of feeling this way. I was ok the rest of the day though? I begin HRT next week and hopefully that will provide some much needed relief

    • becky53379
      becky53379 colleen90305

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      Awww Im sorry! I definitely know that feeling though. Im sure Hrt will help you....it seems to work for alot of the ladies on here. Praying for you Colleen.
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