Why is the beginning of the day so bad ?
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just wondering if anybody else feels awful for a few hours after they wake up . i feel TERRIBLE until about 3pm and then by 4 or 5 i seem to come around a bit . its really getting to me as sometimes i just need to get out of the house ... but have to keep lying back on the bed .
going into my 7th month now the last 2 months since stopping working out have been the worst for me .
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brent_83487 lori93950
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unfortunately, that's how this virus works. feel like crap all morning and wired up by 8 pm. i have had this problem for a while.
jen83382 lori93950
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I feel your pain. Mornings and evenings are the worst for me, too.
lori93950 jen83382
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God help us thats all i can say ... its a cruel harsh virus
diane83287 lori93950
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Feel exactly the same way Lori and im 16 months in
lori93950 diane83287
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16 months !!!! have you improved at all ?
diane83287 lori93950
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Yeah much better than i was but still not quite right,but i also have ME/CFS to deal with aswell,ive had that for a lot of years before i got gf,so its probably worse for me anyway
diane83287
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Im just about able to get up let my 2 little dogs in garden,get something quick to eat then i have to go back to bed,feels like im hungover !! i seem to be more alert and with it later in the evening
lori93950 diane83287
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yes i tell people its like having the flu abd a hangover at the same time ..... but worse!!!
Mono_too lori93950
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Hi Lori,
I also felt like this the mornings were the worst, I used to hate to go to bed because I always felt better at night, I eventually recovered.
lori93950 Mono_too
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yes i find that if im feeling ok in the evening dread going to bed as it starts all over again in the morning
craig07920 lori93950
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Oh Lori the mornings and the start of the days I find so difficult too. Today and recently at times I've had to spend an hour or so just crying and sitting on the edge of my bed praying to God asking Him to help us and get me through what I'm going through and how I'm feeling right now.
I just want you to know you're not on your own Lori. I'm certainly thinking about you each day, and with mono remember it's normal to feel like this in the mornings because it's such a physically draining and exhausting virus. But it does get better Lori - it will get better - I have a strong belief you are going to get better Lori, this thing doesn't last forever and remember there is hope and that you will be well again. I have faith in that for you today Lori even if you're finding it hard to see or feel it yourself right now.
Craig
diane83287 craig07920
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Just a quick reply Craig to let you know you are still in my thoughts,sending love and strength and peace of mind to you.having a rough day today myself,thinking what a miserable existence this is while the rest of my friends are out there enjoying themselves,sending messages and videos on facebook of themselves on holiday or in the pub having fun and im stuck in house like a recluse.....
lori93950 diane83287
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dont feel bad i too watch everybody living very full lives travelling dinners friends .... and just basically happy. dont worry our time will come !
i firmly believe after suffering so much there has to be a big rainbow ! they may be having the time of their lives right now but at some point in life everybody has a crisis or health crisis lets just think that we're going through ours right now and only good and great times ahead
lori93950 craig07920
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im sorry things are so rough for you right now craig we have to hang in there.... its just temporary and we will get over this . sending the white light to you peace and prayers. we're only going to get stronger after such a horrendous time
Mono_too craig07920
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Hi Craig,
I am so sorry you are going through such a tough time, I am adding you to our prayer chain, I hope that recovery comes quickly for you. You deserve the very best life has to offer, as I always say you were a god send for all of us.
craig07920 diane83287
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Thank you Diane, I really appreciate that and hope things can improve for you soon too. I've been feeling terrible this weekend, just so down and got pain and panicked about a new issue with a cyst that may be causing some of my issues. Everything just overwhelmed me a bit right now, going to see the doctor again tomorrow hoping for some reassurance. Diane I will keep thinking about you too, please hang in there and thanks for your kind words means so much to me right now more than ever.
Craig
craig07920 lori93950
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Thanks Lori, your kind words mean a lot to me right now they really do, just feeling terrible at the moment, praying for a better week ahead for us all.
craig07920 Mono_too
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Thanks Mono Too, have just hit a real low at the moment with things any prayers for my health really appreciated right now as in a bit of a terrible state. I do hope you're doing better Mono, you've been a great source of strength to us all too and thanks so much for your kindness and comfort right now - may God bless you and your family today and always.
Craig
Mono_too craig07920
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Hi Craig,
I am doing pretty well, my daughter is still struggling. I hope everyday that she will turn the corner. They just started her on anti virals.
lori93950 craig07920
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yes im praying for a turnaround too! with all our prayers GOD must be listening . lets hope we all have a better week .... so sick of so many awful weeks and now months .
craig07920 Mono_too
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Oh Mono I do hope that this nightmare your family has been going through can come to an end very soon, and that the anti-virals your daughter has started can really make a difference. Still thinking about you and your family Mono, hang in there I still believe you are all going to be free of this horrible thing once and for all and I do hope the turning point is just round the corner.
Craig
craig07920 lori93950
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Thank you Lori - definitely praying for a turnaround in your situation, you've been through the deepest valley I can only imagine, I just hope and pray for a more settled and better week for you - hang in there.
Craig
lori93950 craig07920
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thank you craig its been one big nightmare cant wait for the day i can say 'i feel better' . this virus is just so awful ...there are no words to explain how bad it is .
arielle72942 craig07920
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Please let us know how things go at the doctor. Sending you love and light.
Kindest regards,
Arielle
craig07920 lori93950
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I know so much Lori there are no words to describe the physical and mental hurt, pain and anguish when in the worst moments of mono - God is going to strengthen you to get through even when you feel you have nothing left Lori, thinking of you and remember just take care of yourself and take things slowly each day, not looking far ahead, being kind to yourself given the circumstances and not expecting too much from yourself or putting any pressure on yourself either. One day at a time as they say, but it's so true! As God tells us don't worry about tomorrow, for day is enough trouble for today. I wish I was better at not worrying, praying God can help us with that and for us not to lean on our own understanding but trust in Him with our future.
Craig
craig07920 arielle72942
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Thanks so much for your kind words and asking for me Arielle - that means so much. The consultant suggested I see another consultant to look at cyst I have in psoas muscle, so just need to take things day by day and hoping and praying that this situation can be resolved smoothly and safely and quickly without any harm or pain or worry. Need God's help with that.
How are you doing Arielle? I do hope things are more settled for you and just remember to hang in there and that you are going to get through what you've been going through thanks to God - I believe that in my heart Arielle, thinking of you.
Craig
diane83287 lori93950
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Oh i hope so Lori,im so jealous even of my 80 year old neighbours over the road!!! they are so well and active and go out every single day
lori93950 diane83287
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yes i see people on my walk OLD people with more spring in their step than me .... i literally walk like a snail
craig07920 diane83287
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Oh Diane I do empathise it is so hard when you see other people around you seemingly fit and well and that's all you want to be yourself. I know everyone on the site here just wants to be well, I think the vast majority of us don't want to be greedy for wealth or riches or anything like that, just to be healthy and be able to live a good and honest and genuine life again where we can be grateful for our health and how God has and is helping us.
Thinking of you Diane still and hoping for a good and settled weekend and week ahead. I'm still up and down at the moment another consultant next week and a bit worried how it all goes, just hoping God can protect each of us from any harm and bring peace and grace and healing and forgiveness into our lives. Hang in there Diane - still believing that a new phase of recovery for you is much closer than you may feel right now.
Craig