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Embarrassed urethra pain

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dennis65063
dennis65063

So I was drunk one night and I inserted an object into my urethral and immediately I felt a jolt of pain shoot up my whole body. I've tried to tell the doctor my pain is not due to an std or prostate. I've passed all my STD tests and the pain started right after my drunken encounter.

There looks to be a bump on the inside of the urethra that is where the pain originated and goes up the shaft of the penis. Sometimes it's stinging pain sometimes it is a throbbing pain it changes

When I ejaculate it stings bad for days. I went to the urologist and the doctor thinks it's prosititious.

I've reintersted the fact that the pain started after the encounter. It has been 4 months. I was on antibiotics and nothing seems to help the pain other than drinking water and not ejaculating.

I'm scared that I might have ruined my life. It's very depressing for me. Any suggestions?

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  • lester90053
    lester90053 dennis65063

    Posted

    Did you tell the doctor what you inserted? It might make a difference.
    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 lester90053

      Posted

      I don't think he did.  Me nd SS try all day yesterday and he would not tell us.  Yes whaever he put in there will make a diference.  He needs to tell us and a doctor so we cahelp if we can.....Ken

    • dennis65063
      dennis65063 kenneth1955

      Posted

      It was a small metal object. Maybe the size of a 1 mm wide 3 mm long.

      It's

      Embarrassing time for me. So to ask why I did this will just cause more stress that I don't need. Why doesn't mater anymore as it already happened and I am shamed. I am just trying to find the best clinical advise and I feel like I'm not getting that from my doc

    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 dennis65063

      Posted

      Dennis.  I am sorry that you did it but it is over and done and now we have to see if we can help you.  I will look on the internet to see if there is something on there.  I know the one I read was about a kid that put a Q-Tip in but with metel there may be something else you can try.  Make sure you drink alot of water.  I will e-mail my urologist to see if there is something he can suggest.  Now stop betting yourself up whats done is done.  You have to try to move foward..  Ken .  
  • PAEgreat
    PAEgreat dennis65063

    Posted

    Considering all the items that are poked into a urethra by doctors, with no damage done, it may have left some of itself (like a sliver or fleck) in the tissue.  An image (xray, flouroscope, even a flashlight might work) would show if there is something there or if it's just a little bump of tissue.  If there was a substance on it like alcohol, acid, or other chemical, there may still be a bit of that encased in tissue and causing continual irritation and nerve problems.  The attitude of your urologist seems to be less than helpful.  Maybe a different doctor would be better.

    • dennis65063
      dennis65063 PAEgreat

      Posted

      I don't believe there was anything on the tip of it. Im really thankful you people are trying to help me.

      Thank you !

    • dennis65063
      dennis65063

      Posted

      And now that you mention it he was supposed to prescribe me flow max and never did. I don't think it is a prostrate issue but to rule it out I should call and get a prescription

    • dennis65063
      dennis65063 PAEgreat

      Posted

      He hasn't even done a flashlight. He doesn't care, that's what I feel like

  • tom512836
    tom512836 dennis65063

    Posted

    Are you sure the doctors actually understand what you did?  Did you expplicitly tell them the details?  When I first started to read your post I was incredulous.

    Please understand, I'm not minimizing your pain and suffering but it's important the doctors know what they are dealing with.

    Tom

    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 dennis65063

      Posted

      Dennis I sent my urologist a e-mail.  If I hear anything today I will let you know.Ken 
    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 dennis65063

      Posted

      Good morning Dennis.  My urologist told me to have you go see a urologist because he cannot guess what is wrong.  You need a cystoscopy to know for sure.  He said to try a OTC Pyridum.  It for pain, burning, irritation and trauma of the urinary tract. AZO brand at walmart and walgreens are good.  But he also said if you use this it should not hurt has much when the cyctoscopy is done.  Good luck.  Please see a doctor  Ken.   
    • dennis65063
      dennis65063 kenneth1955

      Posted

      My worry is that a cystoscopy would make it worse. How do I make that judgment.
    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 dennis65063

      Posted

      When the doctor does it It will be well lubicate and you need to know what is the problem is to fix it.  Just relax.  I have had 5 in the last year.  I have to have my stricture check.  It will be fine just relax.  If you need to talk just e-mail me..Ken
    • dennis65063
      dennis65063 kenneth1955

      Posted

      My worry isn't so much the procedure it is the worry that the procedure could cause more long term

      Complications making my situation worse. That's my issue. What are

      Your symptoms like

      With a structure?

    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 dennis65063

      Posted

      Dennis  When I was havinf as problem I was haing alot of pain and my pens would go numb.  Also I would have 7 to 8 bladder infecton a year.  Ringt not It under control and Have not had one infection this year.  You have to have that scope dne to find out what is the problem.  Please have it done before it gets worse then it is.  PLEASE  Ken
    • dennis65063
      dennis65063 kenneth1955

      Posted

      What is PAE some people are saying to look at that as an option. I'm worried a scope could make the pain worse. Idk what else it could be other than scar tissue

    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 dennis65063

      Posted

      A PAE as nothing to do with anything in your penis.  It is to make the prostate smaller.  Go and get that checked PLEASE  Ken
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