How much in the first two weeks ??

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I'm due for anterior repair on 27th this month ... It is exactly 3 years ago today since I had my hysterectomy due to uterus prolapse ... I knew I had to take it easy and I thought I had done but obviously not good enough because here I am 3 years down the line with a stage 3 bladder prolapse ... Can't help but feel it's my fault ! When they say do nothing but rest for first two weeks .. Is this a case of bed rest ? How much walking can be done etc ... Could I iron some clothes of the ironing board was already out ... Stand and wash the dishes or load the dishwasher ? Really don't want to mess this one up so any advice would be great thanks ladies

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    Hi Sarah

    Don't blame yourself that you had a bladder prolpase following your hysterectomy. Prolapse happens to a 1/3rd of women following hysterectomy, I wish more women were aware of this (Tell us Doctors so we can prevent it!)  but its up to us to get the message out to others. It wasn't someting you did, it happens. You can't live your life wrapped in cotton wool, but following any 'pelvic' procedure,  pelvic exercise, weight control, and posture are the 3 main things any woman can do to help herself keep strong. In the meantime, you're planning your jobs already before you have had your op, be kind to yourself, and rest. That means total rest. You'll see on this forum where womwn who are busy - because we all are - want to get out there, and then they rush their recuperation and wish they hadn't. This is your body trying to repair and your chance to help it along. There is a Physio called Sue Croft who has written a couple of books about hysterectomy and prolpase, and her tips and hints are brilliant, Moving forward after your operation, you will need to ensure that you keep your pelvic floor as strong as it can be, and avoid dange areas such as high impact exercise (no crunches, no sit ups), constipation, straining etc.

    Please rest after the op, don't feel guilty about doing NOTHING, you are not lazy and someone else can do the ironing or wear unironed clothes. Your body needs total rest. When you are totally rested, and really fed-up, then you can start very gradually to get strong again, but please don't rush it. 

    Good Luck 

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      Hi Stephanie, would you know what is the best exercises after my op

      (18th) April and what isn't a good exercises long term.I'm 48,slim

      Very good with my diet etc but want to keep my repair not do any thing

      To compromise my surgeons good work.love to all ladies on here😘😘😘😘

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      welshgirl the only way you can ensure you're doing pelvic floor exercises correctly is to see a specialist physiotherapist. Most Urogynaecologists in the UK now have them working alongside them in their team and I'm sure your consultant will. Speak to Mr Monga about a referral because a physiotherapist specially trained in prolapse has the knowledge and equipment to ensure you are doing the exercises correctly. You can watch videos and read books until the cows come home but that won't ensure you are doing the exercises correctly.
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    Check out Sue Croft PFT (she's an Aussie Physiotherapist) and Michelle Kenway, another Aussie Physio, google terms like Safe Exercise for Prolpase etc. Michelle has a lot of films on You Tube, so too does Tasha Mulligan a US Physio who teaches posture as well as exercises.

    Its no sit-ups, no crunches, no high impact, By changing small things about your lifestyle you can make such a difference. Walk talk, sit with your bum at the back of a chair (BBC) take the pressure off your pelvic floor and learn the kegel brace when you sneeze etc. Together these things can help to take undue pressure off your floor. As you have had a bladder prolpase, you are also very vulnerable to a bowel/rectal prolpase, so strengthening up is essential, but taking it easy is even more crucial.

    Hope this helps, good luck, you will be stronger from allof this not just physically, we are with you!

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      Hi Stephanie

      I am now almost 5 weeks post op got anterior and posterior pelvic floor repair. Had hysterectomy and anterior repair 3 years ago and I know I was in too big a hurry to get back on my feet last time so taking it easy this time.

      Always had problems keeping weight down have a sweet tooth so use to go to gym regular cardio exercise and swimming also cycling and hill walking . I'm 5ft 4 inch and was always around 10 stone.

      After 1st op piled on weight (11 stone 7pounds) doing a 40 min walk by 6 weeks, and after 2 months back to regular swimming and no was told no high impact such as treadmill or anything where 2 feet off the ground. By 6 months post op going into winter discovered ' Leslie sansone''s 1 mile walk low impact ' online, can up it to 2 mile walk. This did shift some of the weight back to about 10 stone 7 pounds.

      Just wondering if ok to follow Leslie sansone low impact walks? This time my weight has balloted again to 11stone 7 pounds, biggest problem is the expanding waistline, was a size 14 but can just about now get in a 16, panicking and having 2 wounds this time with extra weight not helping, very slow progress.

      Phyllis xx

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      Hi Phyllis, Do what you can, but be very mindful that you have just had a major operation and we mend more slowly as we get older. Anything low impace is great, but I do not know the LS tourines you describe. Please don't beat yourself up, it will come in time, your weight will stabilise and you'll be able to move  more which is ideal for you moving forward. Frustrating I know, and there is no one better at critisicing us than ourselves!!

      Be kind to yourself, and take it gently. Summer is on the way so the longer evenings will help you to move more, in a safe a way as possible.

      Good luck!

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      Thank you stephanie,

      Will look up sue croft and Michelle kenway online, won't be doing the low impact exercise till somewhere between 3/6 month mark. Will see how I feel,

      Will keep your advice in mind and will take it gently,

      Many thanks,

      Phyl xx

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      I have Tasha mulligan DVD. It did nothing for my prolapse if I'm honest.

      I'm very slim anyway and weight isn't an issue for me..once I'm able I'll be back

      Swimming 3times a week.xx

    • Posted

      Swimming is good, also remember too if you kegel exercise supplement with Vitamin D3, clinical studies show that pelvic floor expercise is more effective with women with higher Vit D levels. Hope this helps.
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      I think it is dependent on your existig levels, I look for the RDA for starters - I can't see an exact does I am afraid. I foind this:

      A Group of 40 women suffering with period pain and low levels of vitamin D were given either a single dose of vitamin D five days before the start of their menstrual period or a placebo.  After 2 months the Vitamin D women reported that their pain scores had decreased by 41% - there was no pain decrease in the placebo group.

      The Vitamin D takers also noted they did not need anti-inflammatory drugs during their period compared to 40% in the placebo group who needed medication at least once.

      Pelvic Floor Disorders

      The higher the Vitamin D levels the lower the levels of pelvic floor disorders. So does that mean we don't have to Kegel exercise for the rest of lives and we can just drop a Vitamin D tablet? Not exactly, kegel exercise should be like brushing your teeth - something you do twice daily without fail! But we found it very interesting that the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey found that 23% of the women surveyed with significantly lower than average vitamin D levels reported at least one pelvic floor disorder and/or urinary incontinence, irrespective of their age.

      Surely pelvic floor problems can't be solved that easily? Well the researchers also found that the likelihood of adult incontinence was significantly reduced in women aged 50 and older with vitamin D levels 30 ng/mL or higher.

      Health professional recommend that any supplement be taken with care, and ideally you should test your Vitamin D levels first to see if you have a deficiency first before using high doses of Vitamin D. A good multivitamin or mineral with added Vitamin D could be the answer to helping your pelvic floor, diet and period pains all in one!

      It's clinically proven - see the clinical evidence here (taken from PubMed):

      I hope this helps! Vitamin D is the sunshine vitamin!

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      Stephanie, does that coeralate with other data then I would assume that in Mediterranean countries where they get more sunshine well into the evenings and can catch up with vit D after work , that they must have less period pains and less pelvic floor problems than those of us from further north of the med...

      Phyl xx

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      That could well be the case, but it would have to be clinically trialled to have an accurate result and to be able to be quoted, this research was clinically trialled and it was published on pubmed. Of course there could be other contributory factors such as a mediterranean olive oil diet (which is favoured for lengevity and health) the list could go one, but there are firm stats around the positive benefits of D3 and light therapy in the darker months to beat depression etc. Keep well all! x
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      Sorry to jump in. I'm nearly 3 weeks post of for a hysterectomy and Cystocele repair. I have had zero pain from the repair, if I hadn't have had the hysterectomy I wouldn't even know anything had been done. Last couple of days though I have had a bit of swelling and a tugging feeling, going to rest up a bit more for the next couple of days ( I haven't done much but maybe been on my feel for too long). I was just wondering, does posture matter when you're in bed? When sitting partially up your tailbone is tucked under, this isn't a good thing is it, so how are you supposed to sit?

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