I am in so much pain that I cry from the groin pain, hip pain and inmobility.

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I have been without insurance for over 10 years and I am finally getting insurance in a couple of days because of Medicare.  I was told 3 years ago I needed a hip replacment.  My leg was shorter by half and inch.  I limped and in pain but kept going waiting for insurance.  I am now where I cannot do anything, not even make myself a cup of coffee.  The pain level is so high that even the pain medication of Norco 5-325 is not helping.  Only making me consitpated.  I try to get by with only 1-2 pills but hesitate to take more because of the costipation.  And even that dosage only takes away about 10% of the pain. What has happened is that now my other good leg is in really bad pain too.  When this all started i was having groin pain.  But I just kept going.  Now both legs hurt really bad and both legs have groin pain.  I yell out because of the pain and I just rub the area and pray to God for the pain to go away.  In the house I am using 2 canes.  My back pops multiply times when I move getting up or out of a chair.  My legs are so weak and I have to think to attempt to get up from the chair.  My legs have inflamation and are so stiff.  I just don't know what to do.  I am no longer able to drive and have not been behind the wheel for 3 months.  I cannot go out and do fun things and my house is a mess because i can't clean or cook.  I sit on the computer, watch a little tv but then all this pain hits me again.  What can I do?  Why is my back popping so much?  Why is my groin hurting?  Medicare starts in a couple of days and hope I will be well again.  I know the journey is long and hard, but I need my life back again.  I want to go on vacation, go fishing with my husband and invite friends over to entertain.  It all seems so far away.  Can someone please give me their input?  I cry everyday because of the pain and inmobilty.  I need help.

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  • Posted

    Evelyn I pay and hope you will get your insurance in gear.So Sad for all your suffering. Hopefully you will get into orthopedic surgeon soon.

    Have you located one yet?

    • Posted

      Hi Ginger, thank you for writing. I do not have my surgeon yet as I will get a recommendation from my doctor on who to choose. So actually Saturday I begin to have insurance.I then will know more at that time. I hope it does not take too long to get things rolling. Someone said to me the timing may be that you will end up getting surgery around Christmas time you will probably want to wait. I said no I will not wait as much as I love the Christmas time I need to get help so I can begin moving forward with this. Did you have a hip replacement?
    • Posted

      I went to a hospital that does ortho pedic surgeries.

      I met him one week had surgery two weeks. He wanted to do it the next week.But I needed time tomake arrangements for my dog molly and misty my cat.

      He was recommended by a family at church who had a daughter and son in law.had an anterior hip replacement.

      I needed to know that the surgen has done many this type surgery And does surgery several times a week.

      Especially your surgery looks complicated.look carefully. Good bless.please let me know how things go.smile

    • Posted

      Anterior hip replacement require no cutting into your muscle.

      They just move it out of the way to get the hip and start the replacement.

      I wish i had that Anterior approach in NY, they don't do that approach.

      Post op recovery is 6-8 weeks. You have at least one week to get your pets to a kennel boarding or family member. You'll be fine with that Anterior approach.

    • Posted

      Hi Beachbum,

      Is the Anterior hip replacement cutting in the front?  Someone told me that it depends how extensive the damage is that they go infront or side.  But not cutting the muscel is so much better.  Wow.

      Evelyn

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    Hi

    I'm in the UK so dont really understand the US medical system...sorry

    It seems that you are getting close to getting started on some sort of recovery

    As for pain killlers.....dont overdose but take as many as you need.

    Stay on top of the pain.....dont play catch up with it...please

    Love

    Eileen  UK

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      Hello Eileen, it's so good to hear from you and thank you for the advice of not letting the pain get away from me. I guess I have been trying to muscle it out because the painkiller creates constipation. I try to help it out with my diet but it's not that effective. In the United States we have with the call Medicare. That is available once you become at the age of 65 years of age. So November 4 will be my birthday and I am eligible for Medicare November 1. The good thing is that I will be moving forward with this. So far my doctor has given me anti-inflammatory shots and oral medication to help me but I am beyond that now. I so appreciate your input and concern. I am glad I found this website where I can get some support from other people who have gone through what I am about to go through. Do you know how long it takes for recovery after hip surgery? I do have a concern we have a bathtub to be able to shower and right now it's hard to get my leg over the bathtub. I am concerned about after surgery. Any suggestions?
    • Posted

      Hi Evelyn

      Being over 65 does have its advantages  wink

      I take codeine but not all the time.....when needed....its a fall back and constipation is the main side effect, I'm also on iron tablets at the minute and they have the same result.cry  I find prune juice regularly helps me.

      Rather than taking sachets or whatever.....I quite like prune juice as well.

      If you read other posts {other threads} about hip replacements you'll see that everyone is different and recover at different rates.

      The UK......we have a 6 week limit where we cannot drive {illegal} cannot sleep on our side, it must be our back, and as for getting in and out of a bath we are told thats a no np be3fore 6 weeks is up. You wouldnt be allowed to lift your leg to get into the bath,

      USA may have different rules. I had to have a complete wash down each day {because i couldnt get in the bath} with my hubby doing my legs and feet. Thats another thing....we cant bend more than a 90 degree angle.

      No doubt others from USA will be on to tell you what their restrictions were ......Just think how much better you will be and how little you will have to give up for a whilebiggrin

      Love

      Eileen   UK

  • Posted

    Hi Evelyn,

    I have just read your posts and all the information you have to date.  I am sorry you are suffering with all the pain but hopefully things will start to move soon - 1 November tomorrow smile  Go on the internet and gain all the information you can regarding THR's and also exercises following surgery it will help.

    I know how you feel regarding housework and needing extra help.  I initially turned down help from friends (again like you embarrassed that I needed to ask).  We all give in to it and feel much better after, not only do we get help with housework but we get a friend to chat to while some jobs are getting done and that can be really therapeutic. 

    Like other people have said, take your pain killers regularly. 

    I wish you all the best with getting a speedy diagnosis and treatment commencing prior to Xmas.  Stay strong and keep us informed.

    Sue - UK

    • Posted

      Thank you Sue for writing.  You have encouraged me to ask for help and to keep up with the pain pills.  I go to my doctor on Monday and naybe get a stool softner or something. 

      And yes tomorrow is right now 2 hours away.....ahhhhhh! smile

      Love,

      Evelyn

  • Posted

    Oh Evelyn i feel for you. Just hope you'll be able to afford the surgery and things will be looking up for you. I feel your pain.  :-(

    I do hope someone will be able to help you.

    Keep us posted.

     

    • Posted

      Thank yuou so much Carmen.  I will have insurance in a few hours so they will pay good on all this.  I chose a good supplemental since i knew this awaited me.

      What kind of help will I need?  Will I be more inmobile then now?  At this point I can't do anything.

       

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    Hi Evelyn, read your post I have all the same thing you are describing and I also walk with a cane in the house outside the house is a wheelchair, I started out with pain in my groin round the side of my buttock area and down my leg to my knee and it is the sciatica nerves do to lower back pain so you may have a disc problem sometimes it happens injury or age. Try heat on your lower back for 20 minute, then have your husband rub the sides of your buttock area by you outer leg for long as he canabout 10 minute then Ice it down for 20 minute it well be cool, sting and then go numb then you are done. That is what they did for me in Physical therapy and I felt better it take a while but for me it helped me walk with less pain. If you have a Tens Unit which is a hand held muscle zapper use it on you back it well relieve the pain as well if you don't have on then wait until you appointment with a doctor, but you can get one on Amazon. Or Qvc for about $39.00. The problem starts in you lower back and radiates down the side of buttock area and the groin area but later in time down your leg. If this turns out to be the problem sometimes the doctor well try Therapy first second is a shot in the back with worked well for my Mom she has no pain now. But mine was do to a work injury and work comp. Taking to long to help me so I became less and less mobile to the point I gained 100lbs weight which doesn't help if you have to much pain to exercise try pool therapy it worked for me and kept to mobile until I had no money coming in I had to stop. I also live in the U.S. and I went to an Easter Seals pool they have a ramp to walk down with heated pool cost was $60.00 per month and you could come as many times as you want. As far as the heat and ice try once a day at therapy it's ever other day 2 to 3 times per week. Sorry for a long reply hope I gave you some information that is useful, but feel free to ask me anything. And you have a good husband as my husband is stuck doing everything as well. I miss camping and my work as a tractor operator I was very much an outdoor girl. Good luck to you and getting help
    • Posted

      Hi Sharon thank you for taking the time and help me with all your advice.  I sure appreciate it.  My doctor has told me he thinks I have siatic but the pain is on the inside of the leg infront.  Now tht we are getting things rolling we will know more.  Tomorrow I am getting xrays on my hips and loxer back.

      I too love the outdoors and love fishing.  I hope to fish again someday and enjoy the mountains and the trees. 

      Weight wise I have been working on losing weight and have lost 29 pounds.  Hard to do with no excercise but hey better choice on my foods.

      The Easter Seal pool sounds like a good idea but the one that use to be near me closed down.  As I got older I did become alergic to chlorine but there is a pool that is saline that is about 15 milese from me.  I was told they have a chair that lowers you into the water so you don't have to do staris.  I will have to check it out.  Except the walk from the parking lot to the pool is a ways.

      I am using a mobility scooter when I want to do things.  I have one that I bought a long time ago because I could not do the big amusment parks and was tired of paying $55 each time I went.  After paying $220, I decided to buy my own   I bought a pride travel mobility schooter that easly goes in a trunk of a car and is taken apart.  You can take those on the plane and cruise ships too cause is a travel one so weighs under 100 pounds but like I said is taken apart into 4 pieces and is put together in 4 minutes.  (Huggy work).

      You mentioned a Tens unit do you have one?  And is it working for you?

      Have you had a hip replacement?

      Thank you again for writing.

      Evelyn USA wink

       

    • Posted

      Hi Evelyn,

      Yes I have a Tens Unit it comes with four electrode pads you put two pads on each side of your spine lower back and turn the machine on pulsating or regular and you turn it up by numbers 1 being low and 10 high but it helps the blood flow to the area that is hurting, but you put it on a number that feels good to you and it's on a timer you can do 30 minutes to 60 minutes ask you doctor for one your insurance may pay for it, if not they aren't that much money starting about 39.99 up to 139.00. I Also put it on the front of my leg near the groin pain and it feels better the next day. If you look up Sciatica Nerve Pain some charts shows a red line where the pain starts at your lower back to the side of your buttock and to the front of your leg upper part at you groin and down the inside part of your leg to your knee sometimes it can ache down to your feet, but mine is my lower back, outer side if my buttock, groin area and down in enter leg to my knee, my injury was on the left side but with time you shift your weight to compensate for the pain now I hurt on the right side as well. I crushed my lower disc lifting 90lb barrels at my work when I was younger so my back went out but I dealt with it, two to three times a year it would go out for about 3 days but as time went on with driving heavy equipment (caterpillar tractor) all the jarring I started hurting in my groin area so they thought it might be my hip so I had x-rays it showed no hip problem, but in my back it showed a ruptured disc and it's pushing on the sciatica nerve so with time and no help within 3 years I went from walking to cane to wheelchair and out of work and do to injury I have moderate Arthritis. so the Tens is good for that. When I was going to therapy they used a therapeutic ultrasound which I loved it helped with the pain in my groin and leg and now they have a portable one and my doctor just got me one about a week ago it comes with blue jel and it's a deep heat and it cost 59.00 so that might help you as well it's called a "US 1000 3rd Edition" and the Tens Unit is a "BodyMed transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulator" I really think it would help you so ask about them. Hope this is helpful if you need anything don't hesitate I'll answer what I can.

    • Posted

      Thank you Sharon...is your tens unit battery or electric?  The chiropracter told me they were not strong enough those they sell on the market.  Don't know if it was a sale job.  lol.

       

    • Posted

      Hi

      Mine is battery......you move about with it on. Dont drive  LOL

      I have been know to put mine on when driving but turned off.

      Then when I gret to wherever I want to go....meeting or whatever I turn it on there.

      I ilke it but sometimes it works better than others. {for me}

      Same as drugs......different things help different people

      Did you ever google the trolley {or whatever they are called there} and if so let me know please......I'm curious

      Maybe nosey would be a better wordcheesygrin

      Love

      Eileen   UK

       

    • Posted

      Mine is Battery, it takes a 9v battery. And it has a clip on the back so you can hook it to your pant waist. Usually they recommend using is once or twice a day as needed.
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      Like I said if you get one turn it up slowly to were it feels good to you because you can turn it to high and it does zap and hurt like a shock and when it's "on" don't touch the pads with your fingers it will shock your finger tips it has a timer on it so it will stop but you still have to turn the knobs off. It will come with a booklet. The Chiropractor maybe telling you that because the ones at a Therapy place are big commercial ones and I didn't like them at all it hurt if turned to high which seemed to happen at times so I said no way Jose I pass. I do like is portable Tens Unit it's the right size.
    • Posted

      This is what I have

      BodyMed 350 TENS Unit w/ Timer

      TENS Unit are primarily used for managing chronic pain. Works by blocking the pain signal, and by increasing endorphins in the body. Can be worn all day or on an as needed basis. Device features include adjustable pulse rate, pulse width, amplitude (intensity, and timer. Placement of electrodes are usually at pain site or along the nerve channels, called dermatomes.

      Key features:

      • Highly portable TENS Unit can be used anywhere.

      • Timer included.

      • Dual, isolated channels with asymmetrical biphasic output, adjustable pulse amplitude and pulse rate.

      • Three-mode operation: conventional, burst or modulation.

      • Includes: caps over buttons, hard plastic case, 9-volt battery, lead wires, 4 electrodes (one pack) and manual.

      • One Year Warranty - Satisfaction Guaranteed

      • Technical Specifications Channels: Dual, isolated between channels.

      • Wave Form: Modified square wave with zero net (DC) component.

      • Pulse Amplitude: 0 to 80mA each channel, adjustable (500 ohm load)

      • Pulse Frequency: 2 to 150 Hz, adjustable.

      • Pulse Width: 60 to 250 microseconds, adjustable.

      • Modulation Mode: Pulse width is automatically varied in a cyclic pattern over an interval of nominally 4.0 seconds.

      • Burst Mode: 7 pulses per burst, 2 bursts per second, 100Hz internal frequency of burst.

      • Maximum Voltage: 100 volts, open circuit. Maximum Charge: 16 Microcoulombs per pulse.

      • Power Source: 9 volt alkaline or rechargeable battery.

      • Battery Life: 70 hours average usage (alkaline)

      • Size: 24 x 64 x 95mm

      • Weight: 130 grams (including battery)

    • Posted

      battery operated.

      yes i like it better than the other machine i have which is the message type also battery operated.

      The TENS 7000 is powerful to use so if you do purchase it use with caution. There is different settings. Physical Therapist in NYC use those tens unit.

    • Posted

      Ok I am glad you are sharing this....I am getting some good information.  Thank you!

       

    • Posted

      Thank you I like the idea of being portable using it while I am on the computer or watching tv.  The doctors at the chiroprachter is big.  It did goof for me.  I took it up to as high as 40...but little at a time.  Felt good but not all at once.  How does the battery one compare in strenght to the chiropracters?

       

    • Posted

      Hi Evelyn

      I'm hving problems with the site and am not getting any notifications in my inbox so I'm way behind.

      Answer to our question about the trolley its neither  LOL

      It is a thing on 4 castors, with 2 large trays on it, one above the other, and you can push it into the kitchen when you are recovering, and still using crutches and not able to carry things.

      Make some tea/coffe, sandwiches or even lunch......put it on the trolley and push it back in to wherever you want to eat your meal

      Does that make any sense......Obviously these must be a UK thing

      Google   HOME HELPER TROLLEY......if that is not the exact one that we are allowed to borrow its near enough

      Let me know if you find it...I'm curious and would love to know what you call them

      Love

      Eileen  UK 

    • Posted

      Hi Evelyn, you asked about the strength in the Tens Unit I feel it's pretty strong I've never had to put it on high, my back just went out yesterday and with my meds, heat pad and used the Tens I feel better today so it does the job, I use it on about a mediums range to where it feels good and not zipping. Sorry didn't get back to you sooner had to do some lab work having gallbladder attacks not fun I had an ultrasound and it shows gallstones, never had surgery before so a little nervous maybe a lot nervous, How are things going with you? Hope thing move along quickly for you. Have a good day!!
    • Posted

      So sorry about your gallstones.  I have had them and they hurt.  Hope you get surgery soon and get it taken care of.  Those pain attacks are awful. I am waiting for the results on the xrays.  I am tired of not being able to do anything.  Housework is a luxery now to me.  lol My back is tight and bothers me. so hanging on.

       

    • Posted

      Sorry to hear about your gall bladder attacks. I pray you can get them removed by small incisions by laparoscopic surgery.

      I also had that too several years ago.a and they were removed by laparoscopic surgery.

      I felt soooooooooo much better after surgery.smilewink

    • Posted

      Hi Sharon

      Many years ago....before OA, I had an attack, it was so bad they took me into hospital, did tests but didnt operate

      They put me on a very strict diet........I began to think I couldnt eat anythingsad  Eventually the pain went, I stopped the diet, it came back etc but eventually I managed to get back on a normal diet

      Are you having an operation?

      Scans recently for other things have shown up gall stones but they aren't hurting so they havent been touched

      Will be thinking about you

      Eileen  UK

    • Posted

      Hi Evelyn

      Did you ever google that Trolley.,.,,,,,?????

      Home Helper Trolley??

      I'm curious to know what it is called in other places  wink

      Love

      Eileen    UK

    • Posted

      Ok I got it now.  They are used to serve food here.  I looked it up online and saw pictures.  That is such a great idea. I actually need one now.  Walking with a cane, in pain and limping its hard to have anything in your hand.

    • Posted

      I did burt from whatever reason I can't think of the name right now...ugh.  rolleyes

    • Posted

      Hi Evelyn

      Glad you found it......yes some people here use it to serve food on....they are usually more fancy and delicate onescheesygrin but the same idea

      This is a fairly sturdy plastic one but is excellent to help you.

      The one I had for my THR I still have because now being on ccrutches permanently its ideal.....I keep it upstairs and when I'm sorting out or tidying rooms.......shove the things on it push it to the room you want to put them in or where they should livebiggrin

      I know I started clearing out one room......a real clear out, drawers wardrobe etc. it took a few days at the speed I go now but at least when I was stopping for the day {example} half the wardrobe emptied and on the bed......instead of having to keep going.....I put the things on it...shoved it into another room and into a corner so that room was clear for that night....then brought it out and started again the next daywink

      Love

      Eileen  UK

    • Posted

      We do get creative don't we?  Today I was thinking how my legs get hurting and need a rub down.  I thought maybe getting me a new paint roller and using that since that will reach for me....ahhhhh creativity.  lol cheesygrin

       

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