Is this Balanitis? I'm 21, had it most of my whole life, no treatment has worked

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Hello, I've seen a doctor many times about a mild condition I have on my penis glans, have been prescribed 3 different creams including Betnovate and a Hydrocortisone, a course of antibiotics and a swab which said I was clear and still the condition remains. I used to have a tight foreskin up until last year which is now sorted from stretching, and I think the condition began during my teenage years when I wasn't able to wash the glans. It often feels dry and can sometmes feel slightly painful when the foreskin retracts, almost like its rubbing and the sensitivity everywhere is quite high still, not sure if this is due to the condition. The urethra opening is always red and inflamed and red areas appear frequently around the glans itself. Any advise on what I should do would be much appreciated, have attached a photo too. Many thanks!

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    Idk how relevant this is but im glad i found this forum.

    Im 28, last year in the middle of may i came down with strep throat, and did a hefty round of antibiotics for it. well, with my luck, i also caught a yeast infection and followed up with the doc and she put me on 1 pill daily for 5 days. did nothing, went back, she put me on 3 pills for 10 days, still nothing.

    i did some of my own research and in august i wound up using lotrimine jock itch spray and hydrocortisone 1% cream, and since then, because the weather cooled off, i could get by with just the cream.

    last year, and this year, when it got warm out, for some reason, my ass started itching like no other, only when its hot out, it itches all summer, goes away in the winter.

    to list out the things ive tried in the groin/anal area,

    plain non flavored non cultured yogurt, this works really well actually, im guessing at some point a yeast infection recurred, ive been tested for diabetes, nothing.

    coconut oil, does decent

    lotrimine spray

    antifungal athletes foot creme

    hydrocirtizone creme will numb the pain for as long as its on there, i have to reapply after i shower or ill pay dearly lol

    just to be clear, ive seen countless doctors, theyre clueless and so am i. im just listing out what ive done and what I know.

    so, id like to examine what the pain that i feel actually is. 5-6 years ago i had a slight yeast infection which we irradicated and then about a year later i had another one. doc told me not to shave cuz yeast just falls in, well anyway i didnt listen lol and have had like a really really faint version of a yeast infection since. it didnt mess with anything, could still get it up just fine, but it was there. well anyway like like i said before, for about a year now its so intense i almost want to cut it off lol. but, what it will do is move from spot to spot from my groin, to my inner thigh, to where my belt rides, to the tip of my penis. just sporadically, whenever. ill have some slight itching in other spots but i just scratch like normal and its gone. if im out working i dont pay much attention, its either faint or gone. but when it goes to the tip, its usually there the longest and thats when its the most intense. it usually stays at the tip until the hydrocortisone cream can work its magic and then its under control until it flares up again, usually after sex. the after sex part sounds like yeast, but it moving around my right side groin area sounds like nerve interference. could be a combination but i doubt it.

    my penis pain intensifies significantly after sex, like i have to apply the creme, which usually isnt effective until the next day and take an ibuprofen before bed cuz it HURTS. feels like its on fire.

    also, i went to the chiropractor to get my back adjusted, I usually go like once a year, ive been there twice. the first time i learned my right leg ls longer than my left, and that my hips are shifted. i did notice the pain went away or was at least better for a stretch but muscle memory pulls everything back out of place, i wanted to go back this spring but coronavirus made everything impossible.

    the second time i went there, last august, we re xrayed my back and found my tailbone was at a 45 degree angle pointing toward my right leg, and the first images from before we never saw it because my belt buckle was covering it lmao

    so i looked up the human anatomy and sure as s**t, every nerve that runs to your penis runs through your hips.

    this is the only thing ive ever come up with, unfortunately i have never gone to the chiropractor regularly enough to notice a difference. i joke to myself that what i have is worse than herpes, cuz at least herpes comes and goes lol. ive never had a blister or any symptom for a doc to look at and know. no blister no discharge, hardly a rash worth pointing out, just the occasional agonizing pain and groin burn. i do wear an extra in sole in my left boot all day and it seemed to help my hip pain but ive been driving a lot lately and i think it irritated my hip. not sure. i called the chiropractor today and left a message, in a week or two ill hop back on and give some updates.

    by the way tonight it flared up super bad, i had sex 2 nights ago so maybe this time it forgot for a minute haha

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    im also going to 100% stop using soap in the shower. does anyone know why they make soaps that make guys literally miserable? like seriously, what is the ONE THING we ALL want to smell good? i think someone needs fired lol.

    so this week i can hopefully get into the chiropractor, stop using soap and pour on the hydrocortizone cream.

    i hate doing multiple things at once but damn this hurts and its been WAY too long.

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    i thought i would share my story to see what everybody else thinks , my issue started 2 years ago after two weeks of unprotected sex i started feeling itchy then pumps started showing on the glans without any pain then redness expanded to the shaft and discharge afterwards , after testing all stds were negative so i was told it has to be a yeast infection however after treatment the redness never cleared completely till now , i wonder if there is something i still have or its just takes a lot of time for the penis to heal back , any thoughts on this?

    note: the itching was only on the third picture part with 3 new ppp bumps showed at the same time which makes me wondering.

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      Hello. Is the middle pic how it looks now (clear)? So the bumps and redness did end up going away, after 2 years? Are you circumcised?

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      all pictures are recent taken all together , the third picture looks more bumpy because i squeezed my penis to make those bumps look clear for the viewers maybe someone could tell what are they , this redness have been the without changing for two years without any symptoms now.

      thank you for your reply

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      Hey, I have the EXACT same problem. Literally identical inflammation with PPP's developing over time, (im 18 and this started about a year ago). How have you been dealing with this, personally its taken a toll on my confidence. If you have any solutions or things that make it a bit better please let me know. Cheers

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    hi, im 13 and have the same thing and ive actually had it for a while now. My foreskin used to be attached to my glands but they slowly came off but some of it has been really irritated and they do leave scars. My uretha is still inflamed and hurts when i pee and the head if my penis is very dry but i have just started using coconut oil to see if it makes a difference and if it does ill let you all know. Ever since i was a little kid ive never pulled my foreskin back at all so im guessing its from that. i dont want to go to the doctors cause im very scared about this and i dint want to be judged by like my parents and stuff so if anyone finds some home remedies let me know. I also read an article about balantis can be early signs of heart failiur and/or un-diagnosed diabetes. All if my mates are actually non-virgins and im scared that with no cure for this then ill be a virgin fir most of my life. This is a bug insecurity about myself so please help find something.

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      hey man. you aren't able to retract the foreskin as a kid and when puberty hits in it allows the foreskin to become detached. you are still young allow it time to settle and try different things to help if it hurts. definitely go to a doctor. it is normal to go to the doctor. also you don't have to rush into sex just cause your friends are. let things happen the way they should.

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    so under a year ago i went to the doctors becasue i noticed red spots/patches on the head of my penis. however they never really gave me a clear answer on what it was and the treatment took months to work. eventually there was no sign of it.

    just as things looked good though, recently ive noticed that after masturbation, under the foreskin goes red and the head of my penis is really dry and my glands seems to have a slight change of colour, similar to what it was like a few months ago, just without the red spots/patches. however after like 10 minutes my penis looks completely normal but after another 30 minutes, theres still some red under the foreskin.

    i know its possible for balanitis and thrush to come back within six months but this is no where near as bad as last time but im concerned and its very similar to your issue and its relieving to hear that others are not too sure what this is either. if anyone finds any solution or can relate please reply

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      just wanted to give an update for you guys, having all the symptoms as everyone else on here , going on almost 2 yrs with this, went to a new doctor last monday and she said they had some new ways of testing so she sent my urine off for testing, she called today and said she found some kind of bacteria that started with the letter "m " and also some ecolli , as found in UTI's . went to over a dozen doctor of the last 2 years and they all said my urine was clean, blood was clean,all said i was fine except this new doctor, she has called me in an anyi biotic called cefdinir 300mg . i will give an update in a week or so . god bless guys , hope this helps

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      did they explain what this new test was?

      i paid for a next gen sequencing test that showed low levels of bacteria, but my urologist dismissed this.... im desperately trying to convince myself that this isnt bacterial

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      Yes also interested about what this test is called. As far as I know urine is tested for culture and sensitivity. However, the way the urine is collected plays an important role. For example if it isn't collected midstream, there could be some bacteria present which is normal.


      What kind of symptoms do you guys have? Redness on the glans? Any urethral redness? Any pain anywhere when urinating, ejaculating, etc? Discharge or smell?

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      Just paid for the next gen sequencing as well so will keep you posted as to results. Cant see that any test will be any more accurate than that

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      i will find out what the testing is called for the ones wanting to know. yes on the symptoms, redness on the tip of my penis, burning after urinating, abdomen pain, penis tip is extremely sensitive, pain in penis after ejaculating. no smell but have seen small amounts of clear discharge over the last 2 years

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      yeah pain is mostly penis tip and urethra, also perenium, testicular, lower abdomen.... pain after urunating and ejaculating (sometimes for days after ejaculation)

      i had test done, showed low levels of 2 bacteria. my doc and urologist said that wasnt of concern

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      @mike01515 @donkey1234

      Both of those sound like prostatitis symptoms. The pre seminal fluid (clear discharge) is normal during arousal, however if it happens when the penis is flaccid that's also another classic sign of prostatitis. But I'm sure your doctors have diagnosed you with that already?


      The dermatological symptoms (aka redness at the tip) could also be sign of prostatitis in my opinion even though like 99% of doctors don't seem to correlate the two. Something to do with nerve stimulation causing the erythema at the tip and possibly even spread to the rest of the glans. Also the redness seems to stem from under the skin by the photos I have seen. Of course could also be a comorbidity like fungal, bacterial, autoimmune, eczema based, etc. But probably a good idea to try and treat the prostatitis first since that's the other symptoms sound like.

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      yes he diagnosed me with prostititus 2 years ago, took 30 days of ciprp and another 30 days of bactruim . i feel like that is whats going on because i had it before years ago but the docs say a uti now , man i dont know what to do, the pain is so bad , i feel like i have a golf ball up my butt most of the time

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      you mentioned the clear discharge , it looks just like precum when i get arroussed . i only notice a very small amount once every 2 weeks or so

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      i had a PSA blood test done and was all clear, doc gave me Cipro and it did nothing... funny thin is is that i have good weeks and bad weeks, i read somewhere that infection wouldnt ease off and come back like this, flare ups are more likely with stress/tension related issues

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