Migraines everyday, all day, for 9 months. Help!!

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Remember your worst migraine. How much pain you were in and how you just couldn't do anything. That's how I am everyday.

Right so I'm a 20 year old female, I'm and student and work as a waitress part time.

So, I started with a headache on the 18th January this year, pain killers didn't touch it. Woke up the next day and still had a terrible headache.

I have a terrible headache all day, everyday, without fail. It's got to the point now that I'm stressed; fed up, hardly sleeping, can't concentrate at uni or any time really.

Please understand that the pain never goes, the headache never ends. I have literally had a migraine 24/7 for 9 months now.

I wear glasses (short sighted) but I know it's not my eyes causing the migraines.

I've cut out everything that's apparently supposed to aggravate headaches. Stop drinking caffeine, stop eating chocolate and cheese. No change in the headaches.

This continued for a week or two before I went to see my GP who referred me to a neurologist.

The first neurologist thought I had tension headaches caused by stress.

At this point, I wasn't stressed at all, not with uni or work, nothing. So I didn't quite understand this diagnosis.

Anyway he put me onto tablets called amitriptyline, which is an antidepressant, and told me to gradually increase my dosage up to 50mg a day. This didn't help at all, had horrible side affects.

I then saw another neurologist who diagnosed me with migraines, put me into Topamax, which are an anti epileptic drug meant to also treat migraines. I got my dose up to 100mg within 3 months and the side affects were horrible and didn't help at all.

I've had a CT scan, which was normal. Had an MRI scan, which was normal. I've also tried Imigran and some migraine medication that melts into your tongue, with no affect what so ever.

After trying all this, an idea was put forward that I could have raised intracranial hypertension, so yesterday I had a Lumbar Puncture. The pressure was at 19 and a half (apparently if its over 20 it's high), so it's not thought its that. The migraines were worse for a week after the lumbar puncture, I couldn't even sit up without being in agony and being sick. Spent a week in bed unable to move.

I've got another type of MRI scan booked for the end of this month that's apparently going to look at the veins/blood vessels in my head to see if there is a problem there.

I feel like I'm not being taken seriously now by doctors, because "there isn't anything to be worried about, like a tumour" as I'm always told! As much as I'm so very glad I don't have anything serious to be worried about, I hate spending everyday in so much pain that I can't function.

Please don't think I'm over reacting/attention seeking/whatever, but I am literally fed up and can't cope. I can't get a minute of relief, I'm constantly in pain (different variations of pain, but pain all the same). As I'm writing this I'm crying my eyes out because I haven't managed to sleep more than 3 hours a night in that past 4 days. I'm exhausted and depressed now. I've even told my GP that I am so depressed now, I have thought on more than one occasion of overdosing just to end this pain. And he literally turned me away saying he couldn't do anything. I feel so defeated.

If anyone has had this type of problem before or knows someone that has, please let me know.

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    I'm so glad I'm not alone in this! My headaches aren't constant, but I have 3-4 every week, starting in the morning.  I'm not even sure what I have. Sometimes they're migraines. Sometimes they're cluster headaches. Sometimes they feel like ice picks being shoved through my eye sockets. I've had them for around a year and a half now. It's so painful I can't keep my eyes open. My doctor gave me Topamax and waved me off.  W h a t do I do?! 

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    I started to type a response, but I don't know where it went.  So if you end up seeing a partially written response, please forgive.  I don't  know if you are still monitoring this post thread as it started four years ago.  I also don't know if you ever solved your problem, but it sounds similar to my situation.  Mine started 8/22/2017 and now it is 2/15/2018 and still with me.  I also had a CT scan, oxygen treatment, arterial biopsy (head area), MRI regular, MRI complete spine and head with and without contrast, seen a neurologist, and still no diagnosis.  Pills do not work; haven't tried all that medicine that you had, but why try meds when it doesn't touch it.  I have found one thing that gives me a few hours of relief.  A blend of essential oils that Includes Peppermint, Frankincense, lavender and wintergreen.  Initially I had a blend called "Past Tense" from DoTera.  That ran out so I was using the four oils and I mixed them into a small glass container with a roller ball on it.  Every 2 to 3 hours (it started out I could do it every 3 or 4 hours) I roll the oil mixture on my temples and at the base of my skull in the back.  For a couple hours the pain is gone, although I still have some pressure and it causes my scalp to feel warm.  But at least there is some relief.  Did you every find a solution to your problem?  I hope so, cause I hate to think of you hurting now, four years later.  Marsha in Oregon

     

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    Hi i have the same issue i cannot relate enough can you please tell me what ended up happening to you or what did they end up doing for you or finding out? Thank you!
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    Dear Becky-louise,

    I have had the SAME exact thing for 6 months now. I can't believe I found someone who has the same thing as I do. Please let me know if you have found anyway to relieve the pain. I have had scans, a bunch of meds, the dieting, and everything you have mentioned except the spinal tap. Please reach out!

    Thank you,

    Liz

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      My wife has 4 to 7 migraines per week. Her doctor prescribed her a Cefaly device. Its like a tens unit for the brain. It hasn't cured her migraines but it makes them bearable with few exceptions. She can sit up in the living room and watch tv or read a book with it on. She had even gone with me shopping with it on. It cost us $500 out of pocket but it wad totally worth every penny.

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    Hi becky 

    Sorry to hear your suffering from this debilitating constant headache 

    I know this is a old post hope your doing better 

    Hope  you see this message because iam in the same constant pain been a year realy put me down cant leav the house lost everything to it , same as you my scans and tests are all normal , i dont know what to do , 

    I need help and support what has worked manage this or some sort of relife 

    Thank you hope your well 🙏

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      Dear Ibrahim,

      Poor you! I do sympathise. Occasional migraine is bad enough, but non-stop...! You could try ringing Migraine Action on or emailing on They will advise you & tell you where your nearest specialist migraine clinic is. You can get referred by your GP. Another thought is to try Dolovent pills. They have magnesium, co-enzyme Q10 & vitamin B2. It's a natural treatment which works for some people, so worth a try. I'm not sure who stocks it, so look online. Another thought is to avoid medication overuse, so avoid taking painkillers too often, as they can cause rebound headaches and perpetual headache. Good luck!

      Best wishes,

      Helen

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    Hi, I hope you found some kind of relief. I am going through the same thing and I was hospitalized for a week in January and my neurologist says he has given me every med he can. I have had the same migraine since January and it just won’t go away. I go to a headache specialist on this coming Friday. I am 16 I feel I am missing out on life. I’ve been put on homebound and do online schooling for the days I feel somewhat okay. i am hoping you found relief. I hope you see this message and can tell me what helpped you. At this point I feel like a lost cause and I am willing to try anything.

    Hope you are well

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      I’m SO sorry for you @katiebug44. My daughter had a year of interrupted school (age 10) and I suffered terribly throughout my teens. All I can say is- you WILL come out of it- it may take time & you might go up & down throughout your life- but that one headache/migrane will eventually go (...I’m sure it doesn’t feel like it).

      Triptans (zolmitriptan & sumatriptan) have changed my life, but they didn’t work for my daughter. Good luck! X

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    I've had migraines since I was age 14 - quite a few decades ago now! For the previous 6 months or so I'd had them 24/7, they were debilitating and I had no life whatsoever. Over the years I must have tried every preventative there is. The one I was on before my current preventative was Topamax and it worked very well for some years, (initially completely with no migraines at all) until it totally stopped working, so all I was left with were the horrible side effects that go with this medication and no benefits. I had to reduce them very slowly as they're so addictive, I was taking 50 mg twice daily. Once they were out of my system, my neurologist suggested I try Riboflavin which I've been taking for about 6 weeks so far. The general success rate for these is hit and miss, but surprisingly they're working fairly well, I can go several days at a time with no pain and other days just a niggling headache. I've had several "full blown migraines" since starting them, but they're much shorter lasting and usually not as painful. They are worth giving them a go if you've tried everything else, they have very few (tolerable) side effects. 

    Unfortunately, I can't have triptans, or anything stronger than paracetamol (tylenol) as I'm not allowed to take anything else because I take blood thinners amongst other medications. Paracetamol doesn't help my migraines at all. 

    Riboflavin needs to be taken at a lower dose at first, quickly building up to 400 mg daily, 200 mg twice a day for migraine prevention. I just hope they keep helping in the long term, fingers crossed. 

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    Hi, I know i’m a stranger but I am having the exact thing and my neurologist has prescribed me the exact same meds as you. I’m almost 16 and these migraines took me out of high school and have really been ruining my life. What I have learned though is I have advocated for myself so much about what meds I want to try and that my pain is real and that has helped my relationship with my doctor. I know you posted this a long time ago but if you’re still struggling or have found something that worked I would love to talk.

     -Ella

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    Hi Becky. I have the same  thing!!!!!  My MRIs are clear. My CTs are clear!!   The same!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   I’ve been to every doc I can imagine.   They also think I’m nuts!!!!   I also have deep inner ear pain. Does your tongue have spasms?   Maybe trimgeminal neuralgia. Or occipital neuralgia.    If so your neurologist can give you a shot in them and the pain goes away. Sometimes all it takes is one shot.  If you have tongue spasms  you could have glossopharnageal.    I also was suicidal because the pain was unbearable!!! Truely   I now take amatryptaline 10 mg  3 tablets at night. I started out with three but three made me nuts!  So I cut down to two and that has saved my life!   I also tried lots of drugs to help it but nothing would touch it.    I’ve had this pain for 4 1/2 years now .  At least the amatryptaline has made it bareable. I still have pain everyday.   I am now up to three tablets at night.    I wish someone anyone could help diagnose what I have.   I thank doc Summerfield  everyday for helping me get  the pain down to where I can function!!!!   There are a lot of other drugs you can try if your doctor is willing to help you.      I hope this helps you!  God bless!!

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    Oh it is not a migraine   It never never stops!!!!!  Ever!!!  Right?     Not a migraine.     
    • Posted

      Never stops. My daughter says he changes intensity levels but never goes away and not any migrane meds have worked nor abortive medicine.
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      Oh man!!!!!   Have you gone to a neurologist? Or just a primary care doctor?   I would go to a neurologist.  Migraine  meds didn’t work for me!  Amatryptaline is a depression medacine. For some reason some of them work for head pain. Maybe mention that to the doc if you haven’t all ready.    
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      I hope your daughter gets help.  I know what she is going thru.  It is not fun!!!   I’m so sorry.  
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      I have the same thing. Any physical activity makes my head hurt even more than it does already, I don’t know about your daughter but that’s what’s happening to me. A neurologist has followed me for 9 months and she still keeps prescribing me meds and giving me botox but nothing helps. I’m 15 years old.
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      Good luck !!😀. This is a horrible thing we are all going thru!   I hope someday soon we can all get some kind of relief!!  

       It’s no way to live !  Always searching reading everything we can get our hands on about head pain. Etc, etc.   my husband thinks I’m nuts and my son.  

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      Hey, I've got migraines - I'm 13 - and my school doesn't understand!

    • Posted

      Oh you poor thing!!!  Hopefully your mom and dad can get you the help you need.  Migraines are not fun to deal with!
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      Hey people: spread the word. Put this everywhere!

      Today is the day. Exactly a year today. I feel hopeless some days. Where have we got? One diagnosis; some medication. All for this: this body: this useless cage I'm trapped in. Watching everyone else have a good life and watching myself break into pieces. Wrecked, this year has wrecked me. It's wrecked friendships; people who lied to me; people who were selfish. This year has helped me make friends and stand up for myself more. I don't want to lift that chair, I have pain. And guess what, I'll ask for help. Sometimes, I wonder why me? I think, I don't know, I may never know. But sometimes you have to cling to the light; even when your body seems to be a train wreck. You may notice I use only negative words. This is because the only good thing that happened this year, is that I got a hamster. Shout out to Bilbo! Without him I'm not even sure if I would be sat here typing. My pain is worsening, and if it is fibromyalgia, it will continue to worsen. Things will get worse, so right now  is important. Seize the day. Sometimes you feel no one loves you and keep the insides of your mind close to your chest. When we loose those around us; we have only our thoughts. But sometimes we have to let go; we have to reach out. Who know's? One day I could better- one day I could be normal again. But who wants to be normal? I hope this post reaches you and your heart. I hope things get better. But it's OK if I don't.

      ?Because I am a better person now.

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