Morning and Nights
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Why is the morning and nights so hard? There has to be some hormonal connections coinciding with the time of night and day. The morbungs are rough. I'm still tired, nervous, anxious, jittery, feelings of doom and negative thoughts. The evening around 4:00pm and beyond things seem to lift a bit. Turn night is hard, cant sleep, when I do, it's only for a short time, heart racing sometimes, nightmares and vivid dreams. It's not all the time but when it happens boy does it happen.
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brendababy jamie50513
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I've always been a positive person. When I woke up I always had plans for the day ahead be it going to work, shopping out socialising with my husband and friends at the weekend. No wonder they call this the change of life, mines has changed dramatically, feels like I'm in prison, I just feel there's no quality of life at the moment
Well don't want to be negative cos I'm still up for the challenge of not focusing on the symptoms, I think so far it's helping a bit
Lots of love
Brenda x
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brendababy CCinCal
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You know I suffer from similar symptoms as you, I have the neck ache and tilting as well, Dono what the heck causes this lol
I hope your feeling a bit better by now if not try and distract yourself by just doing something and just let the symptoms be there, as frightening and annoying as they are we can't let them rule us
My balance has been bad today, I feel when I'm standing upright I could faint and feel as if I'm being pushed into the floor...strange, but I went to the supermarket with my husband and walked around slowly
I know what it's like on the really bad days when the anxiety, depression and worsening symptoms make you feel you can't cope another minute but you'll get passed it, we always do
Let us know if you need any help
Love
Brenda x
CCinCal brendababy
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I get so down on myself which doesn't help I know. But it's so hard to bear. And I start thinking catastrophically and all doom and gloom.
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I wish I lived near you and I would come round and reassure you and give you a hug
I hope your ok and have someone you can talk to, try and relax and enjoy the rest of your day
Good nite from me 💤 x
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Thanks I was able to talk to someone and get out. It helped some but still feeling so depressed. Yes wish we lived closer too. it would be nice to have friends nearby who could relate. Hug to you and hope you sleep ok. CC
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Zigangie CCinCal
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I did have a lot of neck stuff at one time.
It's one of the things that got better on it's own. I didn't know that it was to do with meno at the time, but remember being concerned about it as it went on for a while, mine was so stiff and also sounded like it needed oiling at one point.
Driving the car was horrible because I was having to turn my whole body to look left and right.
Hope it sorts itself out soon.
Zigangie CCinCal
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I did manage last year to ride my bike to the shops instead of driving.
It helps to do something I think.
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My neck isn't too bad but my shoulder is driving me nuts.
I'm pretty sure it's related though as it was my neck on the left that was always worse and a couple of weeks ago when the shoulder was really playing up I could feel my neck keep tightening up.
I've only had a few days of my neck being bad since peri and it was last year and it was the most painful it's been but only lasted a few days.
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I have problems with my neck as well, I tend to keep my neck stiff because of the problem I have with the off balance dizzy sensation, I feel my neck veers to the left
The only time I feel a bit better is when I'm sitting on my recliner with my head resting against my travel cushion. If I'm sitting up eating at the table etc I feel as if I'm swaying around, it's so weird and annoying
Feeling really anxious this morning, my husband has been off work for a while due to a dispute and then he used his sick leave. He is a great support and been company for me, I just can't stand feeling so trapped at home and alone it's horrible, got a lot of adrenalin building up in my stomach
Probably bed time for you right now it's 8am here
Hope you can have a peaceful nights rest
Speak soon xx
CCinCal brendababy
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Dr said because I feel off balance my head is compensating. Don't know if believe that.
I'm waiting at gyn office now to talk about HRT. Wish me luck.
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Cervical dystonia, or torticollis, is the most common type. Cervical dystonia typically occurs in middle-aged individuals. It has, though, been reported in people of all ages. Cervical dystonia affects the neck muscles, causing the head to twist and turn or be pulled backward or forward.
brendababy CCinCal
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I know what you mean by the off balance shaky head and agitation, I have that as well and it is worse sitting still, I notice it when I'm sitting at the table eating or when I'm out for appointments etc
When I'm at home I always sit on my recliner with my travel cushion supporting my head so I don't notice it so much then, I also hate getting from sitting or lying to standing...it's weird 😂
I cried my eyes out this morning when my husband left for work, I felt bad for giving him a hard time for leaving me on my own and it's his 50th birthday today as well, I don't know how he puts up with me
Let me know how things went
Love
Brenda X
Zigangie CCinCal
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Last week I started vit d3 at 6000iu a day. I wasn't tested but would imagine I may be deficient as I'm no longer a sun lover.
I read it can help with sleep and that's my reason for trying it. Since the second day I have had quite an improvement in my shoulder pain. It's still there a bit but no pain putting my coat on or reaching up for things in the cupboard.
The shoulder has been painful every day since September but is now after a few days on the d3 better than it's been in several months.
I wonder if it would help with your neck pain?
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My health anxiety has reared its ugly head tonight since I read your post about dystonia, now I'm worrying I have that lol 😂
Sometimes I get fed up with myself so how must others feel
Love
Brenda x
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I've been on tibolone for 1 month meant to be gentler than HRT, think I'm sensitive to taking hormones directly
Hope your having a lovely day ccincal, it's great that you have some hope now with the HRT
Hugs xx
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Waiting on the next drama coming on, been watching it for a few weeks, it's about the OJ Simpson trial, it's really good
Hopefully we don't have any neurological problems and it's just meno related, I went to a special balance physio a few times and she never got to complete the full assessment cos I was so anxious 😂😂 when she was asking me to turn my neck from side to side I was scared I would get dizzy. She also told me to stand in front of a mirror so that I could see I was out of alignment, I never noticed that my left shoulder was lower than the right, the physio pushed my right shoulder down and I panicked so she's told me to go away and deal with my anxiety before I go back
Scared of everything lol
Xx
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I remember that OJ trial. It was on the news everyday for a year or more. Got so tired of watching the news because of it.
I hope you're sleeping well right now !