op in January worried
Posted , 13 users are following.
Im having rectocele and cystocele repair in about 6 weeks. My consultant is sending me for a scan to check my ovaries he said he may have to do a vaginal hysterectomy which i dont really think i want or need. The first doctor i saw said my womb was fairly stable and in place. Got a grade 3 rectocele and grade 2 cystocele. I been so depressed by how my vagina looks and feels since my last child kinda feel broken and its not nice. Has anybody had sucessful surgery im terrified of being worse after or unable to have sex heard some scary stories
0 likes, 40 replies
sundagger gemma88327
Posted
I am 8 weeks post op for a grade 3 rectocele, I'm 32, and was also told i had uterus prolapse and they may remove it while repairing my rectocele. Thankfully the uterus was only a grade 1 and was fairly secure so was left. Also diagnosed with a grade 1 cystocyele that they left.
I still have good days and bad days, and really feel it if I've done too much, but still trying not to lift things. Sometimes its unavoidable as i have a 3.5 year old and a 22 month old to look after.
We tried sex for the first time a few days ago..i was very worried! But it was ok, we took it very slowly.
The only pain was where my stiches were on the outside between my perinum and my vagina (i had infection so are taking a bit longer to heal) i can only think that with time things will continue to improve in that department.
My prolapse was too after my last child, it was really affecting my self esteem and confidence and i got little support because it wasn't something people could 'see'. Fortunately my husband and the ladies on here were great.
Just ask your consultant any questions you have, and remember the only stupid question is the one you don't ask, it's your body and you need to be fully aware of what they are planning to do.
Good luck
Xx
gemma88327 sundagger
Posted
gemma88327 sundagger
Posted
sue76555 gemma88327
Posted
gemma88327 sue76555
Posted
sue76555 gemma88327
Posted
gemma88327 sue76555
Posted
milly18660 gemma88327
Posted
Good luck everyone!
Xx
sue76555 gemma88327
Posted
milly18660 gemma88327
Posted
Jeen44 milly18660
Posted
Not sure if youre still on th forum but I see you've had the tissue fixation system. I met with a surgeon last week who told me this will 'fix everything' (my prolapses). Just wondering how you're going. Its pretty controversial at the moment but sounds good in theory also!
cat0619 gemma88327
Posted
milly18660 cat0619
Posted
You worry me when you say you are going back to work In a week...that will be 2 weeks after surgery! !
You dont want to undo all the good work....proper healing takes 3 months....not that you will need to wait that long....wait at least 4 weeks....do you have a sitting job????
48yearold cat0619
Posted
I to was worried when I read this.
I was still sleeping so much at two weeks post op there is no way I could have gone back to work. I am 5 weeks now and doing more and more each day but still no ironing or housework. Hope you get chance to recuperate properly.
milly18660 48yearold
Posted
All the best with your recovery!!
gemma88327 cat0619
Posted