Our Stalker Is Back

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We thought the two stalkers who kept coming into our flat uninvited had got the message,,,,,,,,one was arrested for threatening behaviour towards me and also for assaulting a police officer (never a good idea) and the other, who was the more persistent one, got a police warning not to come anywhere near us.

So today we were just sitting about, chatting, drinking tea, listening to the radio, and suddenly Terry appears.

I said, "Terry, go away - you know you're not allowed to be here."

Terry said he could come here any time he liked. He was very drunk, and took Jim outside into the alleyway and said, "YOU ARE MY ENEMY"..............then walked away.

Jim came in and immediately opened a can of beer.

I lit a cigarette - so much for having given them up. Then I rang the police officer who is dealing with this to tell him what had happened.

Jim announced that he was going for a walk, which really means "I am going to buy a bottle of whisky."

That was seven hours ago. He still hasn't come home and has left his mobile here.

I am now on gabapentin, which has calmed me enormously, but I am so angry that one person could cause so much chaos and misery in the space of forty seconds.

Sorry - just needed to vent it all.

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  • Posted

    I missed out hope4cure, vicky lou and RHGB. Sorry.

    Wow, all of you have rushed to help me.

    Thanks. I will call these idiot police officers on Monday.

    • Posted

      Make sure you give them a piece of MY mind on Monday!

      Tell them you could have been killed by now and you are VERY dissappointed with their lack of concern about your safety!

    • Posted

      I will, Misssy, don't you worry.

      I can get really mad if I have to!

      This has got to stop. It is ridiculous and expecting our landlord to put up a gate will be a waste of time. He is bonkers and keen to keep his millions to himself. Also, he is in Cyprus at the moment. He also has short-term memory loss.

      No, I will give the police a piece of my mind tomorrow.

       

    • Posted

      wish I lived close by so that i could be there too...and give them a piece of my mind...
    • Posted

      You won't believe this.

      They cannot find any documentation about it.

      When they've found it, they will phone me!!!!!

    • Posted

      AND??

      How is Jims drinking?

      Your benzo use?

  • Posted

    W H A T !!!!

    Oh Tess I'm so sorry for you and on top of everything else.

    What is happening to our country? I do worry what the world will be like for my grandsons and youngsters.

    i was singing ba ba black sheep to the baby and the 8 year old said grandma you're naughty, you know you can't say black!!

     

    • Posted

      I have reported this post myself, it should have been a private message, not an open one.. Apologies if I have offended anyone, there was. O malice intended
    • Posted

      I doubt it anyone will be offended, VL.

      Just a slip......... I hope people understand.

      What I don't understand is our police service.

      I was parking the car today and the main stalker appeared, but I backed the car practically into a skip so that he didn't see me. You have to remember this man lives four houses away from us.

      I have no faith that anything is going to be done, but I WILL call 999 if either of them show up.

      We are keeping the back door shut and double-locked now. I have bought an air-con unit!

    • Posted

      No-one in this day and age should feel unsafe in their own home.

      What a society, if you don't feel safe, warm and secure and private in your own special place, your home, what hope have we got.

      tess I don't understand the police/ legal system either. It just beggars belief sometimes. As for human rights ---------------------- ? I don't want to have to report another of my posts so will leave now 

    • Posted

      Absolutely no offence in this and a sad world nowadays.
    • Posted

      So glad you are double locked now tess.  This is not how you should be living your life.

      What on earth are these awful guys getting from all this - and the police are just not doing enough - do they actually know how frightened you are; this is not healthy and they are not taking it seriously enough.

    • Posted

      Thanks gwen. It's a sad and mad world when  nursery rymes and children's characters have to be politically correct and although they've been around for donkeys years and never did me or my kids any harm, they are no longer suitable 

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