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Hi. I'm new to this forum. Does anyone out there have the same experience with depression? Because I honestly feel like the only person who feels like this and life feels hopeless. I was a happy, confident, positive person who enjoyed life. For the past 3 months, I've had severe clinical depression and anxiety. Life is hell. I am in hell. I feel suicidal every second of every day. It never stops. The feeling never leaves me. I have an intensely bad feeling in my head, like something is wrong with my brain. It came on suddenly. Every day is a living nightmare. I wake up with shaking legs, a pounding heart, butterflies, adrenaline rushes throughout my body and a feeling of "Oh no, how on earth am I going to get thought the day?" I hardly sleep. I hate going to sleep because I know how I'm going to feel when I wake up. It's torture. I sit at the edge of my bed and can't stop jigging my leg up and down. Every day is unbearable but I have to bear it because I can't commit suicide. I wonder what to do with my day. I've had days where I've stayed in bed and those are horrendous. Or I force myself to get up. Just having a bath is monumentally difficult. Getting dressed is horrible. Doing any housework is terrifying and so difficult. I make myself go out and see people. I don't know how I find the strength to do it but I do. I walk with my partner in the evening. But the feeling never leaves. Early on in the depression, I was able to 'click out'. I'd suddenly feel normal and the depression and anxiety would vanish and I'd be okay for the evening. This happened a few times. I thought I was making headway but then I had a shock. Since then I've been dreadful. I can't ever click out of it and it's with me 24/7, no matter what I do. I've tried diversions - reading, writing, art, talking to people, films, everything, but nothing helps. All the things I used to love, I no longer want to do. I've been on Citalopram for 4.5 weeks but it hasn't kicked in - if anything I feel worse. I've just started CBT - I'm working on my negative thoughts. I feel many times like my head is going to explode. My brain feels ill. If someone talks to me intently for any length of time, my head feels like it's on fire and I am losing my mind. I can't think properly. Perhaps it's the drugs. Who knows. I want my life back. I want me back. I don't know how to do it. How does anyone come back from this? Will I get better? Has anyone else experienced depression in the same way? I'm in hell.
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dontwantaname meteor63
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I know it has been a long time since you posted this but you are the first person that I have read with exactly the same symptoms as me, there is nothing I can do, I have lost so much weight, cant eat, cant sleep and every minute of the day drags. and I too have constant suicidal thoughts. I am so sorry to hear that you have gone through this also, and I would like to know if you got better? and if so how you did that? because nothing so far has worked for me. Thank you and I wish you all the best.
meteor63 dontwantaname
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I am so sorry you are suffering.
I'm wondering, are you on any meds? Did this all happen to you after taking meds?
I discovered that I was reacting to the citalopram. It had caused me to develop a condition I'd never heard of called akathisia. I had to find this out on my own. Akathisia causes an intense need to move all the time and a feeling that it's impossible to sit or lie still. This is because of dreadful feelings inside all the time. It's accompanied by intense feelings of doom and darkness and suicidal ideation. It's caused by psych meds. All antidepressants and antipsychotics can cause it. It can happen in withdrawal from meds too.
i got off the citalopram and the psychiatrist said it couldn't possibly be the drug that had done this. He then put me on more meds (sertraline and quetiapine) which made things much worse for me. I got off those and now have severe withdrawal syndrome on top. I eventually found a psychiatrist who said it absolutely was down to the drugs. The previous osychiatrist sort of admitted it in the end, too.
i don't know if this is what has happened to you? I started off with anxiety and depression which happened after I took antibiotics and reacted to them. But then I was getting through. What I did was keep making myself dress and go out. I visited people. I used to go in and out of it. I would have recovered if I had never taken meds.
i just wondered, given your description, if you were either on meds or have stopped any that you were on?
dontwantaname meteor63
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Thank you for such a fast reply!
I am currently on Sertraline 50mg a day, but unlike yourself this did not start when I started taking the meds, I just feel that the meds are making no difference to me. It came on all of a sudden at work and caused me to quit my job the next day and hasn't gone away for a month, but this month feels like it has been about 2 years, just getting through each minute seems impossible.
I really really struggle to get dressed and go out, and when I do I struggle to stay out for more than half an hour, maybe an hour at most. my life feels ruined. I am sorry that you have had to deal with this for so long as it truly is awful.
It is now concerning me what you have said about the meds as the doctor has told me to be persistent and that they take 4 - 6 weeks to start working properly, but reading your experience I feel that maybe I should not stay on them, this is so confusing.
meteor63 dontwantaname
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i wouldn't like to suggest anything regarding your meds. It doesn't sounds like they are affecting you like they did me. I didn't mean to scare you. My situation is different so try not to worry.
do you do anything to distract?
dontwantaname meteor63
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and i try my best to distract myself but it is virtually impossible, I am practically bed-bound. I know staying in bed isn't going to solve anything but I feel too weak and tired to do anything, even though I cant sleep.
The doctor isn't really helping either, he told me i'm going crazy and doubled the dose of my sertraline yesterday and gave me temazepam for sleep and recommended 1 tab, i took 3 and still didnt sleep.
I think the worst part of this is that nobody seems to understand, even people that I know that have major depression seem to have different symptoms and say that they dont understand my symptoms
Im really stuck with what to do.
thank you for trying to help I really appreciate it
dontwantaname meteor63
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and i try my best to distract myself but it is virtually impossible, I am practically bed-bound. I know staying in bed isn't going to solve anything but I feel too weak and tired to do anything, even though I cant sleep.
The doctor isn't really helping either, he told me i'm going crazy and doubled the dose of my sertraline yesterday and gave me temazepam for sleep and recommended 1 tab, i took 3 and still didnt sleep.
I think the worst part of this is that nobody seems to understand, even people that I know that have major depression seem to have different symptoms and say that they dont understand my symptoms
Im really stuck with what to do.
thank you for trying to help I really appreciate it
marykate dontwantaname
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holly07045 dontwantaname
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I feel just this same way & it is so hard to cope. Every day seems like a nightmare. I am constantly thinking about suicide, but then I wonder if I already killed myself and that's why I feel like I'm in hell. I see my loved ones, and I wonder am I in my own personal hell. I can't talk to anyone about this, because I don't want to worry them. I wonder if it's possible to be in a kind of hell in your own mind?
kellyktj dontwantaname
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Hi dontwantaname I know this is an old post but I was wondering if you ever found any relief from the problems you were having causing you to suffer. I also wondered if anyone has told you that you don't have to necessarily be new to a medication for it to cause side effects. What I mean is you can be on a certain medication at a stable dose for a relatively long period of time & suddenly begin to experience side effects. I understand that typically most side effects are seen when a patient is first introduced to a drug or is prescribed an additional drug or increase in dose of a drug but there are cases where patients developed side effects years after they began the medication prescribed to them.
I'm particularly interested because I've been reading this thread & am very sympathetic to the side effect called akasthesia which the original poster ultimately discovered she had due to a medication prescribed to her. If I hadn't seen her post where she finally figured it out I was going to post ITS AKASTHESIA FROM THE MEDICATION!!!!
I have experienced this side effect myself. I had been prescribed a medication & had successfully taken it for half a year when I suddenly developed severe akasthesia. It was the worst feeling I have ever in my entire life had. I'm a registered nurse & can usually figure out what is wrong with me fairly quickly due to being very knowledgeable in pharmacology & Had no reason to suspect it was the medication I had been taking for so long because like most people I figured if I were going to have side effects from a med they would have presented themselves in the very first/early stages of medication therapy. However there is an exception to every rule which I should have already known but it's very hard if not impossible to think rationally when one is experiencing active akasthesia. Like I said worst thing I have ever ever ever experienced.
Anyway I hope you have improved by now. If there is anything I can help with feel free to ask I will try to lend my expertise & medical experience in helping you figure out which path to take to get some relief.
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