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Good morning Everyone
Sat here with my coffee and breakfast wondering wheres the Sun gone. Was that summer at the begining of the week?
So how is everyone? I hope life is treating you all well.
I'm off to rhuemi today hope I get some answers to my questions.
Folding camper has been in for repair for 3 weeks now hope it will be ready soon.
Take care
Lizzy
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SES
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Love to you all and hugs xxxx
Take care
SES X
Squires
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Hope you are all doing well today. Di good to hear you are feeling a bit better and popping on site. :lol: What a dilema with the bridesmaid dresses. Did you pay anything for them to be made? Not sure what you could do really unless you offered to pay for the one made. Then Kerri could probably have a different dress. Its no what to say and to tread carefully but its not fair for Kerri to have to wear a dress that sounds as if to young for her. :cry: Hope there is a way round if for you. :lol: We should be honest but then you don't want to hurt anyones feelings or cause upset before the wedding lol. :cry:
Ses good to see you on and hope all the other things going on resolved themselves. Thinking about you. Hope you get some answers on the 30th June. You need some better times. :lol:
Had a very early morning to bed as went to my brothers for a barbecue in the evening. Luckily the rain went away and was sitting out in the garden until 1am near the patio heater. Didn't get to bed until 2 am this morning.
Several early nights needed to catch up now. :lol:
Love Tess x x
paddy
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Sorry you`ve not been too good again Di, hope you get sorted out soon. As to the bridesmaid dresses, I think like Tess the only way around it is if you`ve paid for the dress, then you can ask for it to be changed or altered. Don`t envy you or Kerry on this one :!:
Ses, so good to hear from you, hope you get some answers from your app next week and that the other problems soon get sorted out. You just don`t need extra worry on top of everything else. Take care
Spent the afternoon at hospital with Ray, he`s got more tablets to take now :!: He`ll soon rattle :lol: GP for us both tomorrow, I`ve got a couple of odd looking moles I need to get checked out
Then dropping Ray at his blind meeting, while he`s there I am going to visit my friend to see how she`s coping with this latest breakdown. So quite a busy day, I don`t think I shall plan to do any pre-adaptions work, that might not be classed as pacing myself :lol:
Take care everyone,
Love Linda
Squires
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Poor Ray not more tablets like you said he will rattle. :lol: Hope you get on ok both of you at the drs and you with your moles. You have got a busy day and I think you are right not too do any more with the adaptations. You will be over doing it. :cry:
Had a headache all day today and just dosen't want to go away. It has been warm here today and humid so think something to do with the weather maybe. :cry:
Well take care everyone and hope you are all doing ok.
Love Tess x x
paddy
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I`ve had a headache all day too, think I`ve just found out why :!: Mum`s phone call from the council the other day saying they were going to inspect the boiler this morning has turned out to be much more than that
She always gets telephone messages muddled and didn`t really know what was happening, I phoned them on thursday asking them to either write to her or contact me in future. They couldn`t find any record of the appointment and it turns out they are going to re-wire, change the boiler, fit a new kitchen and bathroom :!: :!: Well she hasn`t got a clue, so now I`ve to try and sort it all out tomorrow.
I really don`t need to have to pack up her bungalow on top of trying to get ready for our adaptions. I think I`ll go under completely, it just doesn`t bear thinking about.
Oh well maybe things will look better in the morning :!:
Love Linda
Squires
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Oh no when you have so much to do already! You don't need anything else with your busy day tomorrow. I hope it can be sorted somehow for you. Hopefully our headaches will go tomorrow. Think mine might be hormonal as well.
Going to bed now and relax for a while. Stewarton nights first one and three more to go. Not too bad tonight though as Chris is here with me as home from Uni and not out tonight. So shouldn't sleep to bad with someone else in the house. :lol:
Talk to you again soon.
Love Tess x x
Lizy
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Wishing you all a great day. :lol: 8) :D
Don't over do it.
Lizzy
Squires
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Hope you are all doing ok. Had some lovely warm days here so enjoying sunshine when I get time. More to do with Chris home from Uni although he cooked tea for us tonight and also for Claire who was visiting us. :lol:
Linda I hope you are getting help sorting out your mums problems and not over doing too much especially with all your own alterations coming up. :cry: Lindy hope you are getting some sunshine in Scotland and having time to enjoy it. :lol: Di hope you are now feeling a lot better and more positive. :lol: Lizzy how are you coping with your girls back home! Wouldn't think one or two more would make a lot of difference but it does with washing, ironing and cooking. :cry: Is your brother still with you at your house.? Lindy forgot to say hope your brother is doing well after his operation a few weeks ago.
Well got to go now as want to watch celebrity master chef and will be on at 8. Got the house to myself at the moment as Chris is out and Stewart on his third night only one more to go. :cry:
Have a restful night everyone!
Love Tess x x
SES
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I have a teenager of 16, an eleven year old and a three year old too, the eldest children are both girls whom fight like cat and dog......I was previously married to the girls dad which the marriage was a complete sham........ he was/is a man that plays tricks with your head......saying things like i have slept with her and her..... and Oh you have life insurance I could push you in the road, after a night out walking home with him and his mate.... there was loads of incidents like that and so I finally had the courage to get rid in feb 2004 as he had also had an affair behind my back for years..... he like to have his cake and eat it so to speak!!!! Anyway Since getting with my present partner/husband at the beginning of our relationship and marriage I had death threats, saying this sick man was going to petrol bomb my house knock crap out of me down a dark alley while I was pregnant with my little boy, a restraining order was set up and then he started funny phone calls breathing down the phone and saying I was gonna die, the list goes on, I got divorced and so my ex decided he wants a pay out from the proceeds of my house. I bought the house in Oct 2002 as we had been separated for sometime and he moved back in July 2003 trying to make things work for the girls but enough was enough in Feb 2004 I got rid of him......
Anyway my eldest daughter started seeing her dad again and now that she is 16 she wanted to get a job in which her dad has got for her in his work.... I told my daughter that I was concerned about being with her dad as he plays tricks with peoples minds in order to get information out of someone, knowing my daughter is naive and not knowing or realizing his intentions, anyway, my two daughters have been arguing as they have done so many times and then my daughter is very rude with me over and over again and talks to me like her dad used to do and then I get frustrated and upset by this I cry and she says to me the tears do not wash...... i beg and plead with her to stay and she argues and undermines all over again......anyway I had been kind of soft with her attitude as now she is pregnant too, but she still moved out and said she didn't like living here anymore, basically because my present husband didn't like me being upset he throw a small empty bottle off the wall in disgust and it went over her.....her friend stole her scan picture which confirmed her dates and I tried to get this back whilst, so in the meantime whilst I am doing all this..... my sisters and friend are telling my daughter to come and sort our argument we had, as it was coming up to her prom and things needed to be sorted out, my daughter ignored these pleas and so i said do not bother about coming for your prom dress as I wasn't going to buy her affections after her not wanting to sit down and talk things through, I was also fuming after being told by a government department that she was permanent residing with her dad, as I just thought it was temporary as she may just be having a strop and needed some time out, so this is why i did not want the dress as I didnt like the deceit going on behind my back.... anyway I get a call and she wants these accessories she bought for her hair and so i said I would give them to her, I explained in a note her dad should sort her dress out as he had dodged the csa for years then I thought no I am being silly I will give this dress as I was just frustrated with all the treatment and deceit I had had, then I text her at twelve only to find out that she hired a dress anyway, so my daughter went to the prom this evening which I do hope she had a lovely time......i get a text this evening off her dad (my number is ex directory due to his previous incidents) saying that I missed a lovely evening!!!!! So he contacts me as he has got the number sneakily off her phone.... I was unaware of my daughter leaving my home for good until yesterday as the csa had phoned me..... my daughter was getting a s
Squires
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I think you are doing the right thing now and letting her get on sort her life out. :cry: As a mother it is not an easy thing to do but hopefully she will one day see her day for what he is. :cry: Sometimes the more we push for them to come home they are stubborn and we push them closer to who ever they are with. :cry: By backing away a little she will come round and see you as a caring and concerned mum. :lol: She will probably need to more when the baby arrives and more than she realises at the present time.
Hope things do get a bit easier for you soon. Try to eat and keep strong or your health will get a lot worse. Easier said than done. :cry:
Thinking about you!
Love Tess x x
paddy
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I agree with Tess, I think you have to let her get on with things and learn by her mistakes. Easier said than done, I know, but had a problem with Ann five or six years ago she got involved with a married man, tried to influence her as you do, but looking back think perhaps I made things worse! We are all thinking of you so just get on here and chat when you can.
Tess, things have gone from bad to worse on the Mum front, her brother died yesterday, she is so confused and has been telling family all sorts of strange things! So not feeling too good this morning, and not sure how I`m going to cope with it all
So like ses hope everyone is getting on better than me today
Love Linda
Squires
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Sorry to hear about your mum's brother and her getting so confused. :cry: Hope things will get better for you and let me know how you get on. :lol: Hope today will get better for you :lol:
Take care and thinking of you.
Love Tess x x
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ses... oh my god no wonder ur at the end of ur tether...my daugter is neary 16 and at that age they DO have attitude so as the other girls said.. maybe let it all settle down... text her.. or call just asking how she is.. dont mention her dad cause she is prob mixed up to.. i can understand how u are feeling and wish i lived near u to help u out.. so come on again and let it all out we are here for u..
tess. linda hope ur coping with all ur worries it is hard sometimes with relatives especially when u love them so much
im not coping very well at the moment i dont kow if it the effects of my saddle embolsm or my depression or the fibro, but im so so tired andonly feel comfy in my bed, but im also scared as that is how my depression started and i ended up in a hospital 3 years ago.. i just feel my body is finished does that sound stupid and although my family.. especially john he has been a angel with me.. oh he has a hospital app next thurs for his bleeding from the back.. so fingers crossed with that..
again i hope ur all coping with things in life and i will keep in touch
luv to u all.. hugs.. di xx
Squires
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Its not surprising you are feeling down. :cry: You went through a worrying and traumatic time. Do hope you feel a bit brighter in yourself soon. :lol: Hope John gets on ok at his hospital appointment and will keep my fingers crossed for him.
Look after yourself and take care. :lol:
Love Tess x x
SES
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Tess I hope you are enjoying time in the sun with your grandchildren xx
Di I hope you are feeling better hun and I hope al goes well with your hubby xxxx
Still got no energy to even think.......I just hope you all are doing ok my dear friends xxx thanks once again for listening xxx
hugs and love to you all xxx