Why won't the smell go away?
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hey ladies! i need help! i have tried so many things and nothing works. Is their a combination of things that yall have done at once and it worked? im tired and need something to work! Im tired of being embarrassed and im exhausted! The smell is killing me and i dont know what else to do.
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K2753 saj72607
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have you recently been diagnosed by a gyno that you have bv? or anytime your smell occurs you have pH strips that indicate your vaginal pH is over a 4.5? If you do have chronic bv, I would assume your gyno will have you on a standard treatment followed by a lengthy suppression course. I'm more than positive this will include a treatment course of 21 days on boric acid which is made by a compounding pharmacy. Compounding pharmacy, in case you didn't know, makes boric acid suppositories specifically for you. It's nothing like the amazon brands if that's what you've used before. Is it going to eliminate your likliness of getting bv again? I highly doubt that if you don't know your triggers! Will it prevent the infection and make you more confident in yourself? absolutely. Please don't give up!
michelle27664 K2753
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what make of boric acid are you talking about ? I was on bori cap .
K2753 michelle27664
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All I can tell you is that a compounding pharmacy will give you the best quality boric acid specific to you at all times versus a sometimes "cut" (other additives included) boric acid. You ever read the reviews on amazon of the boric acid products? you will never find a person saying they prefer boric acid on amazon than a compounding pharmacy unless it's cost related.
saj72607 K2753
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yes. ive been teated more then once and it comes back every time positive for bv and boric acid has never worked for me. nothing has. im exhausted!
K2753 saj72607
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do you know what your triggers are? No matter what you will always be reinfected by whatever it is infecting you.
michelle27664 K2753
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I've suffered for 10 years my exes sperm started it .
I'd always get rid of it by antibiotics but 3 years ago I got bv and I've had it non stop ever since .
at one point I smelt of the sewers things got so bad.
it was UK suppositories and boric acid that improved my bv but it isn't fully gone I know when I'm on boric acid its goes completely.
I've not had sex in 3 years now .
my triggers was using body wash in the bath and washing my hair in the bath and sperm but that doesn't factor this occasion.
also I'm OCD with cleaness I use the best washing powder and conditioner and that's what has triggered me with this 3 year bout of bv .
I've since changed all that I use non bio washing powder I use baby conditioner and I use cotton pads and no products in my bath and i only wash my lady garden with special non scent cream and hot water i no longer freshen up with baby wipes down there .
sperm didnt start this 3 year bout though so I started it .
I also suffer serious mental health problems and I've sti for life and when my immune system is low I reckon that's why I caught it again 3 years ago .
I've tried everything and I mean everything.
I'm waiting from Amazon for apple cider vinegar apparently it will freshen my lips and vulva outer vagina .
I'm 36 I've 3 years and a few months until I only have a 10% chance of getting pregnant.
ive no kids or a partner and I really really need this to fully go .
what's your story?
saj72607 michelle27664
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my story: well.... i have been dealing with bv for 5 years now. I have tried everything nothing has worked. It all started when my husband of 10 years was cheating on me and the girl he was cheating on me with must of had bv and didn't know it so now im suffering for his mistakes. I cant even get a nob because the smell is so bad! I'm at a point that i dont know what else to do. I need to find something for the smell. Its ruining my life!
saj72607
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job not nob
K2753 saj72607
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but do you know what your triggers are?
saj72607 K2753
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only one but honestly im not even sure it is a trigger lol i just know any time after sex with my fiance the smell gets worse but thats the thing how am i supposed to Kno what a trigger is if the smell wont go away?
ericka76 saj72607
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your period and semen be the main thing, but that elevates mine and of course i do smoke and drink and love sweets so those are mine lawd i have to slow down!
K2753 saj72607
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So everytime you've been treated for it did the doctors ever confirm you didn't have it? Cos if treatment isn't curing it then you need to see a specialist. I was almost to the point of seeing one if mine was anymore persistent but luckily this last time medication worked. I highly suggest you find out what your triggers are. That's the most important thing in all of this aside from treatment.
michelle27664 saj72607
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PMSL .... I cant even get a nob because I smell lol I read that and thought bloody hell it must be bad lol
men can't catch bv I know this because when I had my first bv positive I asked the nurse about it .
( unless that has changed since 2009)
i caught 3 sti off 3 different long term partners.
This morning i can little smell unclean smell but it doesn't go through my clothes .
I tried ph test yesterday and its borderline bv but these tests I have are confusing the colours are hard to make out the result .
clinic says i dont have bv but i could scream because on boric acid i dont get that unclean smell .
try the cream but it didnt help me but it has helped Kimi.
saj72607 michelle27664
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men can get bv and i know that because my fiance has been treated lots of times because my doc said that he could be giving it back to me and i got it from my first husband when he was sleeping around on me. I have always been a very clean person so theirs no other way i could of got it.
K2753 saj72607
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In all honesty it sounds like your gyno either doesn't care or is a total idiot who is misinforming you. Men can't carry BV because they don't have vaginas. It's called bacterial vaginosis for a reason. You ever think maybe every time your fiance showers before sex he's using a soap that's disrupting your flora? I'm telling you, treatment is irrelevant if you don't know what your triggers are. And I'm not sure if you do follow up appointments after treatment to see if you are cured, but this will help you know whether the medication has worked or not. If you're not cured, you need to be referred to a vaginitis specialist. What they do is focus on what microorganism is affecting you and will provide you an effective treatment plan. If the antibiotics do cure you, then I hate to break it to you but there is no medication in the world that will prevent the next infection if you don't know what's causing it in the first place. You will always get it if you don't know what your triggers are.
K2753 michelle27664
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what do you mean borderline BV? Is your pH at a 4.5? I can't imagine there not being instructions or info on the packaging for the pH strips. Or just google it.
ericka76 K2753
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Amen ive known all of this what you talking about i even did studies and get all the information and ive also learned about my vagina from experience, and all that you saying is true and even virgins get this so no a man cannot get BV! i know my triggers now because i pay attention to my body!
saj72607 K2753
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honestly I wasn't doing anything different when i got bv. The only thing was him sleeping around. i changed soaps after i git bv cause scented soaps was makin the smell worse! Whars ceazy is my pH level is normal but the bacteria thats causing this wont die!
saj72607 K2753
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honestly I wasn't doing anything different when i got bv. The only thing was him sleeping around. i changed soaps after i git bv cause scented soaps was makin the smell worse! Whars ceazy is my pH level is normal but the bacteria thats causing this wont die!
saj72607
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whats crazy
kim12266 saj72607
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have u been swabbed for stds as trich can smell bad aswel also men cant get bv its only women that get it
ericka76 saj72607
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make sure you get tested for all stds trich smells like that to etc...
K2753 saj72607
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I was gonna ask if you could talk to your doctor why your pH is normal even though you have a smell, but they don't really seem like they know what they're doing. The fact they would even treat your fiance for BV is very odd. Also, could you explain your symptoms a bit more? What kind of smell is it? Fishy, or?
K2753 saj72607
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You should find a new doctor. I don't know how many you've seen but it's not good that there aren't any treatments working for you.
saj72607 K2753
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yea its a strong fish smell and nothing i do helps! and yes i have been tested for all stds and everything has been negative.
saj72607 K2753
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i have been to 3 docs so far. i dont know what to do
K2753 saj72607
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I think the only thing you can do is take the medication. Have you ever been put on a suppression course before?
K2753 saj72607
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I know you're in a relationship, but have you taken a break from sex? Like a month or so? And did you notice any changes. Or do you think you get BV non stop
michelle27664 K2753
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it's got a ph chart and the colours are different shades ..apparently.
but the result charge is hard to determine the colours look the same shade .
I had a negative test at the gum clinic Thursday the nurses showed me the results she also said I didn't smell when they examined but I know it's not right I get a slight fishy smell in the morning after night.
my knickers are clean enough until I go to bed by morning I've the fish smell slightly back so how they can say I haven't got bv I dont know .
I also get a slight smell from my bum I looked it up and its bv apparently according to the 60 sites I've read through .
I got 10 tests from amazzon but like i said the colour chart is confusing the colours all look the same .
i used 1 pessary Friday I've to use 1 a week to stop a break out of bv .
my smell is a lot fresher once I'd smell through my bed covers my clothes I couldn't go out for 6 months .
then I found you guys and it's been so helpful lots of support .
only down side is ...trying everything you guys use I've had vitamin c suppositories I've had boric acid I changed.washing powders I only bath in clean water and I use non perfume wash my nurse recommended 5 years ago .
black seed oil now I'm going to try cider vinegar, I wear cotton pants I only use all cotton pads .
nothing works ,my doctor said many women have bv all their lives ...that scared me .
bv cant be passed on to a Male I'd guess it was his sperm because that's how mine started in 2009 and I use to get countless water infections my wee would smell of rotten eggs I'd get bv and thrush all from my ex sperm .
saj72607 K2753
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whats a suppression course? somebody said to try silver water. Have u heard about it?
ericka76 saj72607
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what is it?
K2753 saj72607
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For me, it was metro gel for a week and then once a week for 2 months. And what's silver water? I would still go to the doctor's and find someone else.
K2753 saj72607
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Are you taking any probiotics?
saj72607 K2753
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i was but they wasnt doin anything so i stopped taking them. yea i have tried prob every medicine u can think of and literally nothing has worked!
K2753 saj72607
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Have you ever done two treatments at once? Sorry for all of the questions.
michelle27664 K2753
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anyone tried apple cider vinegar?
purchased a bottle hoping my outside vagina is cleaner.
I got up today and I'm wet the smell has gone through to my PJ shorts .
how can we all get negative tests but yet here we are soaked with fishy water ?
kim12266 michelle27664
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because when u are laid down at night the discharge collects inside and then expels when u get up on a morning mine used to always be bad on a morning
kim12266
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the best thing u can do if u get a negative test at the clinic or doctors is to do an instant home test canesten do one for bv as doctors and clinic tests are sent to a lab by the time they get there the bacteria can die which will give u a false negative test result
kim12266
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a home test will give you a definate reusult straight away rather than having to wait for one which may not be reliable
K2753 kim12266
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That's not true at all. You ever heard of clue cells? They bind to the skin cells in your vagina which indicates BV.
K2753 kim12266
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I'm starting to believe that some of these women don't have good health care providers. Viewing specimens under a microscope, using a swab to do the "whiff test" with a potassium type of liquid, and checking pH (I might have left out one) are the only ways they can tell you if you have BV. And they do these all at once when you go to the doctors. If you get a false negative I assume that must be really rare or a failure on the medical side.
K2753 saj72607
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So I'm not sure if you have done the metro along with boric acid but that's something i would talk to my doctor about. I would also take probiotics too because that would help with creating good flora that you probably don't have. It won't cure an existing infection, but it may slightly minimize current symptoms. Also, if you're switching doctors, I had 3 total when I was dealing with my issues and my last one took me serious because everytime I had symptoms, I went there. Even if I was sick or taking the medication, I still went. She started taking me serious as she was seeing how my frequency wasn't normal.
K2753 michelle27664
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You're trying all of these things and ultimately hurting yourself. You need to stop obsessing so much. If you smell fish, don't do anything other than go to doctors! Let them check what you smell and if they confirm that you don't have it, leave it alone. If you do, I'll pray you find a gyno who can take you serious.
saj72607 K2753
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yes ive done the metro gel more then once as well as the boric acid and it didnt work for me